The head teacher reminded: The phenomenon of \”lazyness leads to stupidity\” is terrible! This summer vacation, first get used to it, then talk about grades.

Halfway through the summer vacation, many children\’s problems are exposed: staying up late at night, staying in bed in the morning, and the biological clock is completely disrupted; they may still maintain a certain enthusiasm for learning at the beginning of the vacation, but as time goes by, they gradually lose interest in learning and even develop resistance. Emotions; lack of self-management ability, addiction to virtual worlds such as video games and social media;… I have read this sentence: There is no winter and summer vacation in life, and life is not a semester system. My child, when you spend the summer vacation as you please, it will only lead to \”lazyness leading to stupidity\” and affect the new semester! 01 There are no real stupid children, only children who are dragged down by laziness. After the summer vacation, there will be an obvious phenomenon: those students who are already good at learning will have their grades skyrocketing; but on the other hand, those 25% of children with the lowest grades will have a very obvious phenomenon. During the summer vacation, I seem to have returned all the knowledge I learned last semester to the teacher, forgetting most of it. As for the students at the intermediate level, it seems that they have not changed much during the summer vacation, but when compared, they are actually outclassed by the top students in front of them. A short distance away. Moreover, the higher the grade, the more obvious the feeling of learning regression during the summer vacation. However, the gap between children is often not determined by the level of IQ, but by the lazy habits they accumulate in daily life and study, which gradually lead to \”lazyness turns into stupidity\”. If a person is immersed in the quagmire of laziness for a long time, he is like a seed originally full of potential, forgotten in a dark and humid corner, without the sunshine and the moisture of rain and dew. As time goes by, the vitality of this seed will gradually weaken, and the towering tree that might have grown into a tree will eventually become a withered grass, losing its due vitality and vitality. You know, every summer vacation is like a marathon aid station. Those children who choose to study seriously during this period are like runners on the track who constantly replenish energy, adjust their breathing, and move forward steadily. They work hard and are self-disciplined. 02 Beware of \”lazyness leads to stupidity\” and pay attention to the habit of developing children. As soon as the summer vacation comes, the \”learning difficulties\” clinic at the Third Affiliated Hospital of Zhengzhou University becomes particularly busy, and more and more children go to see the doctor. So what is \”learning difficulty\”? Jin Yanqin, director of the outpatient clinic, said that \”learning difficulties\” are like various small obstacles encountered by children on their way to growth, which add up to a big problem. To put it simply, some children are always unable to do math, their writing is crooked, and they cannot read clearly. These are all minor learning problems. But the important thing is that these \”difficulties\” cannot be determined by just looking at test scores. It also depends on whether the child\’s mood is good, whether they can concentrate on doing things, and whether they want to learn. These must be taken into consideration. Especially during the summer vacation, without the intense learning atmosphere and supervision from teachers and parents, this problem becomes more obvious for many children. They say: Summer vacation is for relaxing, but not for indulgence. Parents, you must be wary of your children\’s \”lazyness leading to stupidity\”. Without self-discipline now, children will face greater challenges in the new semester. Just like a drop of water, it is insignificant at first, but over time, it can eventually penetrate the stone; the same is true for laziness, it may be just an occasional slack at first, but if you are not vigilant, you will eventually become aware of it.Unconsciously, the agility and wisdom that should have been consumed bit by bit, leaving behind a barren heart and stagnant steps. 03 This summer, focus on habits first, and then talk about grades. Does your child also have these problems: irregular work and rest time, often going to bed late and getting up late; lack of enthusiasm for learning tasks, homework is delayed or unfinished; reduced interest in reading and learning new knowledge , are more willing to indulge in games, TV and other entertainment activities; their thinking becomes slow, their reactions slow down, and they lack the ability to proactively think and solve problems when faced with problems; … If there are any of the above, parents should be vigilant! Your child may have fallen into the quagmire of \”lazyness turns into stupidity\”! So how can these problems be improved? The famous educator Ye Shengtao once said: What is education? Speaking unilaterally, just one sentence is to develop good habits. Good habits are the cornerstone of learning and progress. Please help your children develop these habits below! 1. The habit of self-discipline: It is said that a person\’s degree of self-discipline determines the height of his life. During the summer vacation, parents can discuss with their children to see what they want to do during the summer vacation, such as learning to swim, reading a few books, playing with friends, etc. Then, make a list of these things and set small goals every day or week to complete them. Let him learn to manage himself, know when to do what, and be able to stick to it. Parents should also be patient and guide, encourage more and criticize less, so that children can develop good habits in happiness. 2. Autonomous habits: Cultivating children\’s autonomous habits is to make them feel that they can do it, to try more, to choose more, and to be more responsible. For example: \”Do you want to do your homework first or watch an episode of cartoons first?\” Guide children to ask questions, think about problems and try to solve problems, and cultivate critical thinking and problem-solving abilities. In this way, children will feel that they have the ability to control their own lives. What parents have to do is to provide support and encouragement so that children can learn to manage themselves while being happy. 3. The habit of concentration: If you want to learn something well, you must be able to concentrate on it, so that the knowledge can be absorbed well. To cultivate a child\’s concentration, what parents have to do is to guide and support patiently, first give him a quiet environment, and let him do what he likes. This can be reading a book, connecting a word, etc., and learning it step by step. Control your attention.