The head teacher said frankly: The more outstanding the children in junior high school, the stricter and more careful their parents will be.

When parents in junior high schools talk about their children\’s studies, it is not difficult to find that those children with excellent grades usually have very strict and careful parents behind them. Why do parents manage it like this? Can’t you just rely on your children? Facts have proven that very few children can do it on their own. Thirteen- and fourteen-year-old children are in adolescence. Their willpower and self-control are still developing, and it is difficult to completely resist the temptation of the outside world. After all, learning is something that goes against human nature and is quite challenging. Let the children block the temptation of mobile phones to do the test questions, and do not sleep in to read in the morning. They also have to give up their vacation time to sort out the wrong questions and correct the questions. These require a lot of willpower, and it is difficult for children to do it without the help of parents. Excellent students should not believe in the saying that \”the parents of top academics don\’t care about their children\”. That is often a superficial phenomenon. It\’s okay to listen, but don\’t take it seriously. If you really believe it and then let it go, your child may really be delayed. Don’t always think about letting your children try and explore on their own, thinking that this way they can grow through setbacks and find learning methods and motivation through failure. This idea is a bit too idealistic. For most children, without proper guidance and restraint, they are likely to become disoriented, have low learning efficiency, or even lose interest in learning. Therefore, as parents, we must properly supervise our children and provide them with some guidance and help. Of course, this does not mean taking complete control of your children and making them lose their autonomy. It\’s about finding a balance that allows children to feel a certain amount of freedom while ensuring they don\’t take detours in their studies. At this stage of junior high school, you really can\’t miss a step, because you only have one chance to take the high school entrance examination, and if you miss it, it\’s gone. Moreover, there are so many courses in junior high school and the learning tasks are heavy. If the children let themselves go and parents do not restrain them, it is very likely that after one semester, the children will not be able to keep up with the progress of the class. It will be even more difficult to catch up when the time comes. We must always pay attention to children\’s learning situation and provide them with timely help and support. For middle school students, parents must be more attentive and watch over those children whose scores are ranked below the 20th and whose foundation is relatively weak. Don\’t let your children be addicted to mobile phones, and don\’t let them deal with homework. They have to memorize textbooks, sort out wrong questions, and review homework. We cannot wait until the third grade of junior high school. We must start from now on and race against time to help our children catch up. 1. Make a reasonable study plan for your child, and carefully allocate time to each subject to ensure that each subject can receive balanced improvement. 2. Doing more exercises is the key. If you encounter a problem that you don’t understand, ask your teacher or classmates for help in a timely manner to resolve your doubts. 3. In school, children must actively participate in classroom interactions, listen carefully, and review and consolidate in time after class to truly absorb the knowledge they have learned. 4. Parents must carefully observe the problems existing in their children\’s learning, make statistics, and find teachers to provide make-up lessons for their children when necessary. In short, time waits for no one. We need to help children rebuild their confidence in learning and stimulate their motivation to learn. Only in this way can children achieve a leap in performance before the high school entrance examination and lay a solid foundation for future learning. Parents also need to do a good job in logistical support. Provide children with a quiet and comfortable learning environment. Providing Emotional Value During this stage of junior high school, children are under a lot of pressure to learn and may encounter various problems and challenges. They may have a lot to say and a lot to share. We have to listen patiently, give them a channel to talk, and when necessary, enlighten them and help them solve their problems. In short, children\’s learning is not their business alone, and parents must also go all out. Through the joint efforts of children and parents, those children whose grades are temporarily lagging behind will be able to catch up in the remaining time and lay a solid foundation for their studies in the third grade of junior high school. In this way, they may achieve ideal results in the future high school entrance examination and realize their dreams. Let\’s work together and work hard for the future of our children!