The importance of cultivating children’s sense of responsibility

Sense of responsibility is an important personality quality and a core virtue that social citizens must possess. It reflects a person\’s psychological characteristics and personality characteristics. Sense of responsibility is an important criterion for measuring a person\’s attitude towards the country, society and others. It is also a basic measure of a person\’s moral character. It can have a significant impact on personal behavior and social order. A sense of responsibility is also the basis for a person to settle down and live his life. It will be of great help to establish a foothold in society, achieve career success, and achieve family happiness in the future. Only when a person has a sense of responsibility can he have the inexhaustible motivation to move forward throughout his life, can he feel that there are many meaningful things that he needs to do, can he feel the value and significance of his existence, and can he truly gain people\’s trust and respect. . We advocate building children\’s sense of responsibility through labor education. If you don\’t sweep one house, why sweep the world? How to raise children who can appreciate the sense of responsibility and mission 20G[mp4+mp3] A child can first do some things well for himself, and then slowly expand to do things for his family, for the family, for the family, for the school, and for the class. , contribute to the community, and then to society and the country. First of all, we need to guide children to establish the concept of labor and establish professional ideals, so that children can discover individual value from labor, so as to win respect through labor; create a better life through labor, thereby creating the world; maintain society through labor, thereby winning social recognition . Let children establish a concept from an early age: labor is the most glorious, labor is the most noble, labor is the greatest, and labor is the most beautiful! Secondly, we need to let our children establish a correct view of careers. A diversified society requires different types of careers. There is no distinction between high and low careers, but only different social divisions of labor. Although there are differences in social distribution, all professions are equal, each profession has value, and has broad space for development and endless opportunities for innovation. As long as you work hard and have the spirit of craftsman, you will be the number one in the 360 ​​professions. You can also become a leader in this industry and gain respect from society. Next, we need to give children labor responsibilities, from personal responsibilities to family responsibilities, from job responsibilities to unit responsibilities, from social responsibilities to national responsibilities, and establish a sense of responsibility. Personal responsibility means doing your own thing, starting with being responsible for your own personal hygiene. Think about it, do you wash your face before going to bed every day? Brush your teeth? Wash your feet? Do you wash the socks and shorts that need to be changed by yourself? This is personal responsibility. Therefore, if a child is not responsible for his own personal hygiene, don\’t expect him to be responsible for his family, his job, and society in the future. Everything is empty talk. In addition, it is necessary to enhance labor sentiment and let children love labor and working people from an early age. How can there be any quiet time? It’s just that people in different positions are carrying the burden for you. Our survival depends on the operation of the entire society, so we must guide children to respect labor and the results of labor from an early age. Whether it is physical labor or mental labor, whether it is simple labor or complex labor, all labor that is beneficial to the people and society is glorious. , should be recognized and respected. All labor that contributes to socialist modernization is glorious. At the same time, we must inspire childrenChildren\’s interest in labor can be guided to experience joy and gain happiness in labor, gain recognition from others, and be recognized by society. Because of labor, we create value and serve others. We also need to correct our children\’s working attitude, be proactive, and work hard without complaint. We also need to cultivate children\’s working spirit, hard work, willingness to endure hardships, struggle, and dedication. At the same time, we must temper children\’s labor quality in labor, be serious, responsible, and endure hardship. Hardworking. This sense of responsibility is also reflected in the fact that we need to cultivate children\’s labor habits. They must have work in their eyes and be proactive; their hands must not be idle and they must be able to volunteer. Finally, the sense of responsibility can also be cultivated by allowing children to master certain labor skills, such as self-service, domestic work, family planting, handicraft creation, community service, and professional experience… We need to create various similar opportunities for children so that they can There is such a platform to express yourself. Therefore, this requires the trinity of family, school and society. How to cultivate children\’s sense of responsibility? First, we need to update our concepts. If you pamper and over-protect your children, allowing them to be pampered, selfish, and do whatever you want from an early age, your children will lack a sense of responsibility for society and others when they become adults. The education method that makes children absolutely obedient can only cultivate people who are obedient, have no independent opinions, and dare not take responsibility. If you have children, you must be willing to use them. It is not necessary to make children absolutely obedient to us. Allow children to do one thing, put forward some ideas of their own, and then let the children do it on their own. We need to give the children enough time to allow them to make their own decisions. Only in this way can he exert his subjective initiative, stimulate his potential, and be responsible and responsible in doing things. Secondly, cultivating children\’s sense of responsibility means taking responsibility for themselves. Only when a child is responsible for himself can he be responsible for his family, his future work, and his society. Cultivating a child\’s sense of responsibility must start by teaching the child to do his own things. For example, when going shopping, be sure to let him carry his own things; change out of his socks and shorts every day and try to wash them himself. In addition, to cultivate children\’s sense of responsibility, they must pay attention to the family. In addition to personal service, he should be assigned some housework (obligations performed by the whole family), such as learning to sweep the floor, cleaning tables and chairs, watering flowers and other household chores; when parents wash their feet, ask him to bring slippers; , asking him to bring food to his grandparents and so on. Moreover, when your child is doing these things, you must make it clear to him: Mom and Dad are responsible for your food, clothing, housing, transportation and other issues, and you are also responsible for doing the housework within your ability. I am firmly opposed to giving money to children to do housework, because you are a family member and this is your obligation. At the same time, children should be allowed to learn to work at home. Housework is an obligation that the whole family performs together; no one is the nanny of the family, there is only division of labor and cooperation; no one has to do anything for whom, it only depends on who has others in their hearts; family members are all equal and rely on consciousness and love to let each other Feel like you are part of the family. For example, let the whole family cook together, from purchasing to choosing and washing vegetables, from chopping to cooking, let the children practice and be fluent in cooking.sweat. Children will feel happy when they participate. Families can also use \”special delegation\” to cultivate children\’s sense of responsibility. Consciously give children some tasks, such as cleaning the table, taking out the trash, feeding cats and dogs, watering flowers, etc., to train children\’s ability to do things independently. Gradually teach children to do their own things by themselves. Make requests and encourage them before doing so. The children should complete it carefully; during the process, parents should evaluate and give feedback in a timely manner; and finally, they should give more encouragement to the children. If a child encounters difficulties, parents can provide verbal guidance, but they must not do everything for them so that the child can have the opportunity to complete things independently. Next, you need to let your children develop a habit. Children are very curious and want to touch and try everything. However, they are very random and always do things in an anticlimactic or incomplete manner. Therefore, parents should check, supervise and evaluate the results of the things assigned to their children, even if they are small things, in order to cultivate the good habits of perseverance, conscientiousness and responsibility in their children. Finally, it can also be done by letting children understand the hardships of their parents’ work and daily life. Children can properly understand some of their parents\’ worries and difficulties, so that children can feel the happiness of the family, which depends on the joint participation of parents and themselves, thereby enhancing the children\’s sense of responsibility for the family. For example, when my son was in kindergarten, he thought that I just talked in class, and there was nothing difficult about it. So, I once did something like this. I brought my son, who was still in kindergarten at the time, to a university class, and asked him to stand in the back and listen to a class (a class in a university class lasts 50 minutes). During the break, my son told me: \”Dad, my legs are so sore. I\’m just standing here, and you have to give lectures. You must be much more tired than me!\” That time, my son realized that I was in class. It\’s not an easy task either. Therefore, at the appropriate time, we can also enhance children\’s sense of responsibility for the family by letting them experience their parents\’ work.