The inner demon of 80% of junior high school students who cannot improve their grades!

It is very painful to desire progress but not know how to exert your strength. For our junior high school students, there is the pressure of being diverted from general vocational schools after the high school entrance examination, and the heavy expectations of parents. If we always linger in the same position, we may fall into a whirlpool of self-doubt. I clearly have a desire for knowledge and a pursuit of dreams, but I am helpless in the face of realistic academic challenges. In the end, the results may even decline. Once we encounter such a situation, it will be difficult for us to make a comeback. So, let’s discuss why this situation exists for everyone’s reference. 01 The goal is big, but the eyes are blurry. \”Mencius Gongsun Chou\”: \”Husband\’s ambition is the handsomeness of Qi; Qi is the fullness of body.\” When it comes to goals, almost everyone knows what their ideal is. Our parents and teachers are using different ways to find goals for them. Why? Because you must have this goal. Only with it can you know what you want to do. However, those goals are often set too long-term, so that our classmates have developed \”resistance.\” This state of vague goals makes it difficult for them to develop sustained motivation for learning. Even if they are interested in learning, they often feel confused and powerless due to the lack of clear direction. Therefore, when our parents and teachers set goals for their students, they must set them in combination. Never set an illusory goal for them, otherwise it will be in vain. What does that mean? Let’s talk about the big goal first, and then the small goal. The big goal is to improve our math scores, and the small goal is to remember those knowledge points and apply them in this half hour. Then supervise the implementation, the entire process can be monitored, and the results must be checked. In this way, we can ensure that our big goal is not a castle in the air! 02 Improper methods and low efficiency. The lack of scientificity and systematicness in learning methods is a major factor that makes it difficult for our students to improve their grades. That is to say, it does not have its own rules. When it comes to learning, it only knows how to study, look at the knowledge points, and then stop after reading it, or blindly answer the questions, or memorize them by rote. I never know how to summarize what I have learned from my studies. To give a simple example, after reading articles written by two authors with similar writing styles, they may not know what they have in common. This is a typical neglect of the importance of understanding and application. When placed in mathematics, they will not draw parallels. Inefficient learning methods not only waste time and energy, but also easily get yourself into a vicious cycle of \”question-sea tactics\”, making it difficult to extricate yourself. There are many learning methods. You can read my previous articles or ask the subject teacher directly. Each subject has a simple and efficient learning method. 03 Endless internal friction, inner anxiety fluctuates greatly, and it is easy to fall into negative emotions due to a failure in an exam, a teacher\’s criticism, or conflicts among classmates. I fall into internal friction at every turn. Maybe I was concentrating on solving the problem one second, and then I was mentally optimizing myself the next second. This state of poor emotional management will seriously affect their learning efficiency and mental balance, making it difficult for them to concentrate and study efficiently even if they are interested in learning. When our classmates encounter such a situation, when they are mentally entangled, we must not get stuck in it.In this state, go to the extreme. Take a deep breath in time, divert your attention, or give yourself psychological hints to tell yourself what is most important at the moment, so that you can relax a little. When internal friction is severe and you can\’t vent your emotions, go for exercise. Exercise is a good medicine to cure internal friction. 04 Conclusion: You have to break your inner demons by yourself. No matter how comprehensive others say it, they cannot replace your own driving force. It is difficult to reach the sky in one step, but we are definitely capable of making tomorrow wonderful. As long as we want to, we can boldly give it a try! Everyone, come on!