The latest filial son standards, how many of your children can pass?

Recently, a \”new filial son standard\” went viral on the Internet. After repeated confirmation several times, my child’s level of unfilial piety is as high as 5/8. It can be said that Fei Ma is also a prodigal. In order to seek psychological balance, I casually transferred the picture to the community mother group. As expected, a group of \”unfilial sons\” emerged. Judging from everyone’s comments: filial children are all similar, but unfilial children are different. Some of them emptied the old mother\’s pockets, and some of them made her heartbroken. If there are levels of filial piety, look at what level your child is on. First-class filial son: The road to saving money for parents to raise children is paved with money. As for the three biggest pitfalls of spending money, they are eyes, teeth and height. Diamond height, silver eyes, gold teeth, none of them can be achieved with money. But none of my children were left behind. Since he was 3 years old, he has had his teeth extracted and filled, and worn space protectors, which cost him more than 20,000 yuan. During this time, I was considering getting him braces, and when I asked, the price was between 30,000 and 50,000 yuan. When a child opens his mouth, money flows like water. The child closes his eyes and loses his temper after spending money. My little Yuzi started another money-making project this year: myopia. Not long after school started, I noticed that he had a habit of squinting when looking at things, and he was often distracted in class. I went to the hospital for a checkup and found out that my myopia was 150 degrees. In order to prevent the degree from getting worse, I gritted my teeth and gave my child OK glasses, but it took a month to do it in vain. The cheap ones are four to five thousand, and the imported ones are ten thousand or twenty thousand. In the end, I compromised and chose lenses that cost 8,000 yuan, plus the matching care solution, starting at 1.5W a year. The lifespan of the lenses is just over a year, and they have to be worn until the age of 18, which amounts to more than ten or two hundred thousand. To be honest, my accounting hands were trembling slightly. The latest and most complete 2023 [Kindergarten, Junior High and High School] premium VIP course catalogs from famous teachers in various disciplines on the entire network, click to view now! The growth of a child is full of surprises, but spending money is always certain. The only consolation is that my child is not very tall, but he can still get by. The child is also very considerate: \”No need to give me growth hormone. I will try to exercise more to grow taller in the future.\” Listen to me, thank you, you saved me a lot of money. Especially when I learned that my neighbor’s child had been taking growth hormone for almost four years and spent nearly 300,000! So, please cherish that child who is not short-sighted, has good teeth, and is tall enough. Invisibly, a house in a small city is saved. Of course, if you fail to meet the standards in these three items, don’t be too anxious. To borrow the words of my best friend: “Treat the teeth if they are broken, treat the eyes if they are broken, as long as you are not tall but have a long brain.” No matter what, we have to have the same thing. After all, if you want to live a decent life, you have to learn how to comfort yourself. Super Dutiful Son: No need for parents to waste their energy. As the saying goes, anything that money can solve is nothing. The real three-piece suit for women is rhinitis, allergies and obesity. Especially for rhinitis, this feeling of powerlessness can only be realized by experiencing it personally. In our office, among the families with children, 5 out of 10 have children with rhinitis. Of course, I hit the jackpot again. My little Yuzi has suffered from sinusitis for several years. She has a strong runny nose all year round and has to wash her nose morning and night. If there is a change of season or a haze or dusty day, I will still cough non-stop. The child is upset and the mother is anxious. I have a colleague who even lost a lot of hair because of it. Her son has suffered from allergic rhinitis since he was a child.I spent most of the year traveling to the hospital. I\’ve tried all kinds of Chinese and Western medicine, tried many folk remedies, and paid tens of thousands of IQ taxes, but I just can\’t see any improvement. The medicine is being sprayed, the atomization is being done, the nose is being washed, and the diet is being adjusted, but the relapses still happen endlessly. Sometimes it feels like the child is getting better and the whole world becomes sunny. As soon as I heard the sound of coughing and sniffing, my relaxed nerves began to tighten again. In the end, I directly doubted life: Is this child born to punish me? I fell deeply into self-blame: Why do my children have all kinds of physical problems? If you have rhinitis and a baby who is allergic to everything you eat, raising a baby will be even more difficult. In a certain book, there is a mother @花飞红 who shares the daily life of her allergic child. Her child had recurring rhinitis when he was two and a half years old, and was also allergic to dust mites and milk. The sheets and bedding at home must be washed at high temperatures and treated with mite removal every week. Milk is not allowed to be touched. Drinking it will cause projectile vomiting, and a large rash will appear on the skin. Beef, shrimp, and eggs must be cooked thoroughly before they can be tolerated. When you go out to eat, you must carefully check the ingredients. Do not go to slightly dirty or dusty places. To outsiders, it seems that raising a child is too delicate, but they don’t know that the slightest mistake can lead to death. It is said that if you raise a child to be one hundred years old, you will often worry about ninety-nine. Although rhinitis and allergies are not serious diseases, they require ten times the energy to treat them. Having a healthy baby at home is already a first-class filial piety to the old mother. The top filial son: not bothering to study. The above two \”unfilial\” behaviors are somewhat related to genetic factors. The two major stimuli that really make an old mother\’s blood pressure rise must be studying and mobile phones. I have a sister who is very selective when it comes to choosing whom to marry. The teeth must be straight, the hair must be thick, and the height should be about the same. After a lot of choosing, I finally found one I was satisfied with. The baby was also very cooperative, had normal eyesight, white and neat teeth, and was tall. It seems that I have prepared for a rainy day, but I stumbled in my studies. Yesterday, I saw her roaring on WeChat Moments at 11 o\’clock in the night: \”I\’m so desperate, can someone comfort me! My child procrastinates on his homework every day and still can\’t finish it until 11 o\’clock at night. He made 8 mistakes out of 10 in math calculations. I kept correcting it over and over, but still made mistakes. I made 10 mistakes out of 20 words in Chinese. I answered questions randomly without looking at them at all in reading comprehension. I couldn’t control myself and yelled at my child. I was exhausted and worried about his future.” Anyone with children understands this. Who has not experienced the helplessness of a child who still shakes his head after explaining a question 10 times? Who hasn’t experienced the meltdown of a child having to drink water and go to the toilet as soon as they finish their homework? Who hasn’t experienced the anger of a child doing homework behind closed doors while secretly playing mobile games? In the face of learning, relatives from every other generation will be ineffective. A retired teacher in his 70s from Henan sat patiently helping his grandson with his homework. In the end, he couldn\’t hold back and moved his hands. There was no feeling of grandfather and grandson in the slap. As netizens joke: There are peaches and plums all over the world, but we have bitter melons at home. How many parents have become sick or hospitalized because they helped their children with homework. If the child fails to make progress in studies, the old mother will lose half her life. The sad thing is that children who don’t have to worry about their studies often only exist in other people’s homes. For example, Shenzhou XVI astronaut Gui Haichao. While other people\’s children were playing, he was reading aloud, memorizing, and studying, and his grades were consistently ranked first. Body factorThe quality is also good. He can do academic work in literature and explore space in martial arts. Maybe this is the difference between people. Other people\’s children have good eyes, teeth, and height, and they don\’t have to worry about studying. My children\’s eyes, teeth, and height all cost money, but they don\’t use their brains to study. You ask me how to deal with this gap? Needless to say, of course I chose to laugh it off. Raising children is like whack-a-mole, there are always ups and downs, and there is always something unsatisfactory. Children with good health find it difficult to study. Children who are top-notch in studies may be worried about other aspects. If your child saves money, worry and effort, he probably saved the galaxy in his previous life. If your child doesn’t meet the standards, don’t be too anxious. Height, teeth, and eyes are all related to genetics to some extent, and they are beyond our control. Calm your mind and recognize the reality. Let go of things that should be treated badly, let go of things that should be ignored, and treat things that should be treated. For us ordinary parents, the greatest filial piety is for our children to grow up safely and smoothly. As for learning, maybe one day the child will become enlightened. Click \”Like\” and I hope you will have less anxiety and more happiness as your child grows up.