The love of parents hides the happiness of children

After watching the variety show \”Three Yards\”, I became fans of Jordan Chan and Cai\’er Ying again. In the show, Jordan Chan cooks porridge for the first time. Cai\’er Ying strongly supported it and named it \”Chen\’s Porridge\”. After the porridge was brought to the table, Ying Cai\’er immediately recommended it to everyone: \”The porridge made by my husband is pretty good.\” When someone suggested leaving the porridge for others to try, Ying Cai\’er said: \”I won\’t let you try it, because my husband I have never eaten the porridge I made, and I have to leave it for him.\” After the show, Chen Xiaochun wrote a letter to Cai\’er Ying, expressing his love: I am very happy to share every bit of myself with you today, I love You are like the sky without the stars, moon and sun. Thank you for helping me give birth to a son who I believe will become a talented person when he grows up. The most impressive scene was the scene where Jordan Chan interacted with Cherrie Ying in the audience while singing \”We Are Dependent\”. The always stern Jordan Chan immediately had a gentle smile on his face when he saw Ying Cai\’er, and Ying Cai\’er blew him a kiss from the audience, and fans were caught off guard and showered him with dog food. And in front of Jasper, the number of times they showed affection has not decreased at all. When Cai\’er Ying went to take care of the baby together in \”Where Are We Going, Dad\”, the two simply ignored Jasper beside them. Because of the words \”It looks like a Miao wedding photo\”, the two began to pose for photos. Often \”spoiled\” by his parents, little Jasper feels that his parents love and care for each other, and his heart is sunny and brave. With the image of a happy, lively, cute and cute baby, he has gained countless fans in \”Where Are We Going, Dad\”. Regarding the show of affection between parents, if Chen Xiaochun ranks first, then Du Jiang will firmly rank second. In this regard, he also said: Expressing love is actually a kind of ability. In such an environment, it would be very good for children to learn, be influenced, and be willing to express their love and liking more. Parents are their children\’s first teachers. Whether parents show happiness or sadness will directly affect their children\’s growth. An unintentional conversation between my brother and sister warmed my heart and made me reaffirm that the love between husband and wife does not need to be concealed. My 7-year-old sister and my 4-year-old sister played a trivia game, which involved simple hobby questions, such as what color my sister likes, and my brother answered them. After playing for a while, the question shifted to me. Sister: Who do I love the most? Brother: Mom. Sister: That’s right. Who does mother love the most? Brother: Dad. Sister: Yes, then who is our baby? Brother: Mom is the big baby, you are the baby, and I am the little baby. If I go out wearing high heels, my daughter will be subtly influenced by her father and will take the initiative to bring me my bag. If my brother wants me to hold him, my sister will tell him that boys should learn to be brave and strong and just walk on their own. What\’s more, if your mother is wearing high heels, if your father is here, you will be told by your father that you don\’t know how to feel sorry for your mother. When the project is approved for the first time or the submission is approved for the first time, my husband will give me a hug immediately and encourage me. He will not pretend to be unfamiliar just because the children are present. Because of our direct way of expression, children have also developed a straightforward and straightforward character. I will take the initiative to express my emotions and inner thoughts, and communicate with them without any obstacles or pressure. Parents respect and love each other and respect each other, what is passed on to the children is: Dad loves mom very much, and mom respects dad very much. They will not separate, and neither will we. Under the influence of such emotions, the child will automatically develop a sense of security and responsibility, which will accompany his healthy growth. If parents never express their love for each other in front of their children, or if they unintentionally express their mutual dislike, children who grow up in such an environment will feel insecure. Because you are not sure whether your parents love each other or whether they will separate, you will be relatively prone to anxiety, which will extend this mentality to life and work. For example, I worry that my teachers and classmates will not like me, I have no confidence in myself, etc. If parents are loving, children can have a healthy outlook on family. The unabashed love of parents is a true expression of true feelings. Children are the best able to sense true feelings. When they see their parents loving each other, they will be full of confidence in life and maintain an optimistic attitude. Children who have gained enough love and security in their original family will be more likely to have a healthy family outlook, ideal standards for choosing a spouse, and expectations for marriage. Parental love is a positive attitude towards marriage. This attitude will give children a new understanding of life, and they will yearn for the same harmonious and happy married life. The more loving the parents are, the happier the children are. The love of the parents hides the happiness of the children. Because they have been immersed in love since childhood, children will be full of love in their hearts and know how to love others. Children who have love in their hearts are often more likely to be happy. Because they are confident about their future and have their own standards of happiness. He will not be sensitive, suspicious, or worried about gains and losses, but will be brave enough to express his heart and convey his love like his parents. The love between husband and wife is an attitude, not a deliberate behavior. It is nothing more than the most common thing in life. In life, you can show intimacy without scruples. If your children are present, restrain yourself appropriately and there is no need to deliberately hide it. However, you can appropriately give your partner an encouraging kiss, a good night kiss, a kiss on the forehead, a hug, verbally express your thoughts and love, and you can also give the same treatment to your children. For example, after returning from a business trip and hugging your wife, you can also hug your children. After your wife has been busy preparing breakfast all morning, go up to her and give her a thank you kiss and tell her that you appreciate her efforts. At the same time, the child will also follow his father\’s thinking and express gratitude to his mother. These just-right intimate behaviors do not exceed the child\’s acceptance range, and the child can also get the signal of parents\’ love. Zeng Qifeng, a well-known domestic psychologist, said that the relationship between husband and wife is \”the anchor of the family.\” The relationship between husband and wife is the real core of the family. When the relationship between husband and wife is harmonious, the children will be happier and the family will be happier. There is a sentence in \”Why Family Hurts People\” written by psychological counselor Wu Zhihong: Love is constantly passed on in such a cycle, from our original family to our new family. After the children receive the love from their parents, they will bring this love into the new family. Affirming and praising your partner, carefully preparing a special gift for your partner, saying your love to your partner loudly, etc., are all ways to show affection. Appropriate expression of affection not only allows children to grow mentally healthier, but also allows them to be sunny and positive.attitude towards life. The more loving the parents, the happier the family. The more loving the parents, the happier the children.