The main source of positive energy for children?

Among the many family education issues I have come into contact with, I found that for school-age children, more than 90% of the most confusing issues for mothers are their children’s learning and homework problems. The real reason for these headaches for parents is that children have no internal drive to learn. For children who have no internal drive to learn, no matter how hard parents and teachers try, it will not have much effect. If a person falls to the ground and doesn\’t want to get up at the moment, you can\’t pull him up. Even if you pull him up, he will still fall down if he finds an opportunity. Why do children read? What will you work for in the future? What do parents think about reading, and what do they tell their children? What kind of seeds are we planting in the hearts of our children? Some mothers say that I don’t have much expectations for my child. I just hope that he will go to a similar university and have more choices in the future and live a happy life. This sounds like a very reasonable expectation. But it reminds me of the widely circulated sheepherder joke: Someone asked a young sheepherder, why do you herd sheep? The shepherd said selling money. Then he asked what he would do with the money. Sold to get a wife. Why do you want a wife? Have a baby. What to do after giving birth to a baby? Herding sheep. What a resemblance! Do you feel like something is missing in your child\’s world? Is it because he lacks Zhou Enlai\’s \”willingness to study for the rise of China, and cannot enjoy the joy of reading like Yan Hui?\” The principal of Ren Zhengfei\’s alma mater came to Ren Zhengfei and said that the school lacked funds and hoped to donate 1 million to his alma mater. Ren Zhengfei asked: \”A What is the school motto in? \”The principal couldn\’t answer for a while, thinking that there was no hope for the donation. Later, Ren Zhengfei invited more than a dozen experts and scholars to determine the school motto for his alma mater: Determination, Advocacy, and Responsibility. The complete English version of The Adventures of Marco Polo, which introduces Eastern culture. [English pronunciation and Chinese subtitles] Why does Ren Zhengfei value the school motto so much? As a successful entrepreneur, he knows what it means. It means whether the school has a soul. We compare a person without a soul to a walking corpse, and a school without a soul will also be Empty shelves. Every company and every organization needs a soul, and we as independent individuals also need to have a soul. Our country has 24-character core values, Huawei has the mission of \”enriching people\’s communication and life,\” and doctors can save lives. Human mission. Mission is the soul, the source of energy that supports a country, an organization, and a person. The sense of mission is the eternal core driving force within a person. The stronger a person\’s sense of mission, the better his life hope. The stronger his passion for work and life; the stronger his sense of responsibility in life. A person with a strong sense of mission is a conscious person, a struggling person, and an indomitable person. , is a hard-working person, a strong and unyielding person. Many scientists, writers, scholars from all walks of life, and seniors who have made outstanding contributions to the country and the people have experienced more difficulties and setbacks than There are many more ordinary people than us. Even when they reach old age, they can still study and work without stopping and remain in good spirits. It is their strong sense of mission that supports them all the way forward. The sense of mission requiresWe are asked to search for it. Some people find it, some people happen to meet it, and some people never come or meet it in their lives. The greatest luck in a person\’s life is to discover his or her mission in life when he is still young and strong. If we adults have not found our calling, we may not be able to help our children find it. If you feel that life is not easy, your fate is unfair, you are too tired, you have too much helplessness, and your life is a mess, it is likely that you have not found your sense of mission. At this time, you should focus on yourself to find your mission. Once you find your mission, you will have the courage to go all out, your life will be in bloom, your energy will be full, and wealth will favor you. Our energy status will also affect our children, so that children will focus on finding their own mission. Once they find their mission, they will have the inner drive of \”I want to do it\”, and their parents will no longer have to worry about learning. If the child cannot find it yet, then give the child the opportunity to find it on his own.