The more parents treat their children \”like this\”, the more children will obey their parents

When a child disobeys, the parents suffer terribly. As everyone knows, parent-child conflict is also a kind of emotion, a kind of experience of parent-child emotion. In the process of running in again and again, parents and children have eliminated the edges and corners in their bodies, and the parent-child relationship has become closer and the relationship has become deeper. Parent-child relationships also need to be managed together. Parents\’ blind giving cannot make children happy. As children grow up, parent-child interaction becomes more and more important. I often ask myself, why do I love my children so much? In addition to the fact that the children are born and raised by their parents, there is also the return of the children\’s love to the parents, giving them a lot of love and touching. In the parent-child relationship, if parents treat their children in this way, the children will listen to their parents. 1. Reject \”tiger father and wolf mother\” and learn to be gentle; many parents have been accustomed to commanding their children since they were young, and weak children are also accustomed to listening to their parents. When the children are older and start to rebel and resist, the parents begin to become more forceful. The suppression of children inadvertently evolved into \”wolf-tiger\” parents. Let me ask, which child wants his parents to be so strong that he cannot resist? My mother is a tigress. She doesn’t need love or protection from her children. She is a superman. Parents also need their children\’s love to inspire their children\’s desire for protection and give them a sense of accomplishment in \”helping\” their parents. Not all children understand that their parents\’ strictness is actually a kind of love. Children often regard their parents’ authoritative instructions as a threat. Years later, they may still be unable to forgive their parents’ harsh educational methods. Many times, parents need to have principles and attitudes. 2. Don’t be too restrictive and give your children a certain amount of space; many times, parents make decisions “on behalf of” their children in order to help their children. However, many children in turn complain that their parents interfere too much. This kind of emotional harm happens in almost every family. Children all love freedom, but the emotional restraint of their parents makes children go from feeling uncomfortable to tired, and they begin to rebel and start a family war. From the moment a child is born, he has become a completely independent individual. Parents need to give their children space and do not have the right to deprive their children of their freedom. Many times, parents can only fulfill their responsibilities, and the majority of success depends on the children themselves. The parent-child relationship is like the sand in the hands. Parents have to hold it instead of holding it tightly, so that the sand flows faster and less is left. Some children grow up and their parents cannot catch them, only to find that they are empty-handed. In fact, the child was restrained so hard that he could only escape. Sometimes, parents need to give their children some space so that they can turn around and love their parents and feel their parents\’ warmth and deep love. 3. Strive to improve yourself and be recognized by your children; most parents also lack a sense of security and hope that their children can rely on themselves, cannot live without their parents, always love their parents, and listen to their parents. In fact, parents\’ sense of security is not reciprocated by their children. You can feel that this needs to be given by the parents themselves. As long as parents have perfect personalities and are open-minded and generous, they don\’t have to worry about their children being unfilial and turning their backs on them. Children will eventually grow up and enter the society. They will understand the important value of their parents, and will increasingly respect their parents, cherish their parents, be filial to their parents, and listen to their parents\’ nagging. 4. Ask your children for their opinions on everything; from the moment a child is born, parents need to feed their children as needed rather than forcing them to do so.son. Although children are immature, they still need respect and understanding from their parents. Seeking more opinions from their children will help cultivate their independent habits and improve their independent personality step by step. Parents are often too arbitrary, causing their children to lose their sense of existence and feel that they cannot decide for themselves. Seek more opinions from your children, give them the right to choose, and give them plenty of love, let-go love, and free love. Letting go is cruel to parents, and they inevitably shed tears. But parents have to keep at it until your child is independent, and then slowly let go. Respect is mutual. If parents seek their children\’s opinions more often, their children will love to obey their parents\’ opinions. \”Life is precious, but love is even more valuable. If you don\’t have freedom, you can throw away both.\” If you love your children, give them freedom!