The most dangerous profession in the world is that of a housewife! The mothers were silent after reading this

Due to various reasons, more and more married women are becoming stay-at-home mothers. As a stay-at-home mother, she revolves around her husband, children, and kitchen every day, becoming a typical \”three-turn\” woman. Cooking, picking up children, cleaning housework, watching TV series, or playing mahjong have become the themes of their daily lives. But how many men really care about their wives\’ daily life and inner world? In addition to caring about their children, they just ask what they have cooked today. Although many people are trying to rectify the name of housewives, saying that full-time wives make great contributions to the family. But how \”dangerous\” is being a stay-at-home wife? You will understand after reading the following report: In addition to these, there are many dangers of stay-at-home mothers, and they all hit your pain points. If you don’t believe it, just read it! Your mother has a good friend, Xiaojun, who has devoted herself to raising her husband and children after getting married and having children. Sometimes I would joke with her: We also have a bachelor\’s degree, so raising children at home is a waste of talent! She just smiled, taking it as a joke. One day, she suddenly cried to me: I bought a coat for New Year\’s Day, and it cost less than 1,000 yuan. My husband should have some wine: You don\’t earn a penny, you know that you are beautiful all day long, and you don\’t know that I work outside. How hard it was… Although my husband apologized afterwards, he was just talking drunkenly and told her not to take it seriously. But speaking the truth after drinking made Xiaojun feel uncomfortable in his heart. In today\’s economic society, everyone is a snob, even your own husband. Someone once calculated an account and said how much salary should be given to a full-time wife (cooking, taking care of children, doing housework, meeting various needs of men, etc.). The calculation is beautiful, but how many men will truly be grateful to their wives? . The fact is, in addition to household expenses, once a woman spends some money on herself, a man will show his face and lie to you. No matter how heavy the housework is, it cannot be directly exchanged for money. The hard work of stay-at-home mothers for a family is so buried and ignored. Isn\’t this the old saying of \”thankless efforts\”? There is a stay-at-home mother named Xiao Jing in the parent group of \”Bitter Women\”. One day, she said in the group that her son always wanted his father to attend parent-teacher meetings, which made her feel very sad. My son said: Dad knows everything, and he communicates very happily with teachers and parents. Unlike his mother, who keeps saying the same old things like \”Did my child fight with his classmates?\” and \”Has the homework been completed on time?\” I\’m tired of hearing it. , let alone teachers. It is not only difficult for stay-at-home mothers to be financially independent, but it is also easy for them to feel empty mentally. They put all their energy and effort into their husbands and children. They pay little attention to changes in society and gradually fall out of touch with society. But they also hope that their children and husband can spend more time with them. They also want to attend the husband\’s party, but every time the husband will say: They are all men, you are not suitable to participate, or the company colleagues are having dinner and are not allowed to bring their wives, etc., all kinds of excuses , in fact, I am afraid that you will say some inappropriate words and lose face. What couples fear most is the generation gap. The distance between a man with a successful career and a stay-at-home mother is becoming more and more obvious, and they increasingly lack a common language. Once the relationship between husband and wife evolves into nothing to talk about, orHow can there be any happiness in a marriage when there is a quarrel every time you talk about it? A man will not remember your efforts for this family, nor will he remember your original vow: Why do you go out to work? If I marry you, I will support you! Over time, women will nag or even quarrel with their husbands because of these things. If you do this too often, you will become a nagging resentful woman in the eyes of your husband. Gradually disconnected from society. Every time during the Chinese New Year or when friends gather for dinner, what does it feel like when you listen to others talk about some \”advancing with the times\” topics and you can\’t get a word in? It feels like you are being ignored in the crowd. My husband works hard outside. Sometimes he needs to discuss and communicate personally when he comes home, but as soon as he opens his mouth, you can\’t pick up the conversation, or the two of you are not on the same channel at all. The more times they talk, the less and less the couple has nothing to say. When you wake up, you realize: It’s not that your husband doesn’t want to communicate with you, but that you are really out of touch with this society. People who work hard every day in the workplace may not feel that they have gained much. But in fact, many things change subtly. Housewives who are isolated from the outside world all year round do not have much opportunity to contact society. If one day you want to return to the workplace, you will find that you are really far behind in this society. An inexplicable sense of emptiness. A stay-at-home mother once told Youma about her troubles: After giving birth to a child, her mother-in-law was in poor health, and her husband told her to quit her job and focus on raising her children at home. I didn\’t think anything of it at the time. I thought I\’d wait until the child was older to talk about it. Nothing was as important as the child. Now the child is growing up day by day and has gone to school. But because of the problem of picking up and dropping off her children, she could only stay at home. After picking up the children, I do housework and chat online. Sometimes I feel so useless, with no income and no circle of my own, as if I have lost myself. And my husband seems to have changed now. He is either busy socializing or discussing business, and he comes home very late every day. Sometimes I wanted to make a phone call to comfort him, but as soon as I answered the phone, I hung up after saying a few words. If there is any joy in being a full-time wife, it may be watching the children grow up day by day and watching the husband\’s career flourish. But have you ever thought that your child will grow up one day and leave you to live alone? By the time your children go to college, you will be old too. What can you do? Once a person is idle for too long, it is easy for him to have random thoughts, and it will aggravate aging and allow time to slowly turn him into a \”yellow-faced woman\”! Youma often warns her close friends not to become stay-at-home mothers after getting married. No matter what job you do or how much money you earn, you must have your own social circle. Don\’t use children as an excuse. In fact, as long as you want to work, there are plenty of opportunities. Those who say they can\’t find a suitable job are making excuses for their laziness. There is such a little story: A couple climbed stairs, but when they reached the third floor, the wife stopped while the husband kept climbing. As a result, my husband reached the 18th floor and when he turned around, he could no longer see his wife. Don\’t expect your husband on the 18th floor to come back to you. After all, you need to walk your own path in life.