The most promising children in 10 years’ time must possess these 4 qualities

Some people have studied for three Ph.D.s, and people only admire his degree. If he has no precious qualities, others will just use him as a machine and never think he is very noble. Therefore, it is important to cultivate children with precious qualities. Specifically, we must focus on cultivating children’s four qualities, which can also be called the “four qualities of super leaders.” Big wishes are great, beautiful and selfless dreams. Dreams are the gene of life, the seed of destiny, and the precious quality of children. Dreams are a gift from the universe, and it is a free gift, but many people do not get it or use it. Whether a person achieves success in life is determined by his or her dream. Therefore, while parents help their children improve their grades, it is more important to help them build a dream, and we must also have dreams ourselves. We cannot say: \”Child, you must have a dream, and your parents don\’t have to.\” This seems to be telling the child: \”You live, let your parents die!\” Why build a great, beautiful, and selfless dream? Because these three are the characteristics of the universe, and the characteristics of the universe are greatness, beauty, and selflessness. When our dreams are great, beautiful, and selfless, they will be connected to the powerful power of the universe, and our dreams will receive help from the entire universe, so dreams are easy to come true. But when our dreams are selfish, the entire universe will not come to our aid, and selfish dreams are difficult to achieve. If parents do not help their children build their dreams, the children will not have such precious qualities. Chairman Mao once said that we must grasp the principal contradiction. Which is the principal contradiction of growth? Precious quality is the main contradiction of growth. However, our main problem is that we have not done a good job in getting our children to do homework and answer questions. We always like to focus on grades, scores, and schools. Look, did Jack Ma graduate from a prestigious school? Many people did not graduate from prestigious schools, but now they are leaders in a certain industry. Of course, we are not denying factors such as grades, scores, and schools. We hope that both will be good, but the most important thing is to have big aspirations. Great aspirations are the qualities that must be possessed to grow into a super leader. Devoted parents should cultivate the spirit of dedication in their children. There is a person known as \”the world\’s number one Chinese madman\” named Yan Jiehe. His current net worth should be around 115 billion. In 2005, he was the second richest man in China on the Hurun Rich List. When I listened to his class, I immediately grasped the fundamental reason why he was able to obtain such great wealth. Most people believe that the key to achievement is hard work, opportunity, etc. But there are two reasons for his great success: one reason is filial piety, and the other reason is dedication. When Yan Jiehe was a child, his mother said something to him: \”Child, when you see everyone in the future, you must ask yourself, \’What can I do to help him?\’\” This is dedication. I\’m like this now. When I see people picking up garbage and everyone, I just want to give. I feel that I can give them whatever I feel is the most beautiful. This is a good quality. But some of our parents teach like this – \”Child, you look at everyone and see what you can get from him?\” This is wrong. Those who give will gain a lot of support. so lookWhen we get up, we have consecrated and given up, but actually we have gained. Buddha, saint, sage, which one is not dedicated? Which one was requested? Foresight If parents want to cultivate their children\’s wisdom, they must cultivate their children\’s foresight, because foresight is a manifestation of wisdom. How can there be a future without foresight? Those who get rich do not take money when they see it, but see money that does not exist. This does require foresight and wisdom. The one who can truly achieve great things and get rich is not that he grabs it if he has money, but that he has no money, but he sees it, so he gets it. For example, eggplants are produced in Jinggangshan, but people in this area think that there are too few people in Jinggangshan to sell them. So people didn\’t sell eggplants, but one person saw the market, so he came to sell them. He saw invisible money, that was foresight. Vision is important in being a leader. So where is the foresight? Foresight is in wisdom and manifests itself as wisdom. Where is the wisdom? Wisdom lies with the sages. In this world, the wisest people have become saints and sages, so wisdom is in the culture of Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism. But we cannot understand and digest these cultures for a while. What should we do? We need to find a mother first. For example, if we want to drink milk but we can\’t eat grass, then we can find a cow and let it eat grass and we can drink milk. You have to use your brain and be wise when doing things. When we tell children about traditional culture, it is best to digest it ourselves. For example, I have basically digested what I will tell you today. If I told you some rules and regulations when giving lectures, you wouldn\’t feel like this. It feels like I\’m feeding you grass, it must have a weird taste. It is very important to be brave and courageous. Anyone who dares to step out bravely with a big banner will have people following you. For example, if you see a dirty toilet and call on everyone to clean it, you will immediately find a few people to follow you to clean it; if you see garbage on the road and call on everyone to pick up garbage, several people will immediately follow you to pick up garbage. If you don\’t mention it, they won\’t follow you, so why should they follow you? So bravery is so important. Parents should encourage their children to stand up and do something bravely. Bravery is important, but if you don’t say it, no one will. Because 85% of people in this world are willing to be led, and only 15% of people will bravely stand up and lead others. Why? Everyone is timid and timid, so they don’t dare to express themselves or stand up. Including that we are always afraid of saying the wrong thing, so we dare not go on stage to express ourselves. But if we don’t go on stage, when will we learn to speak in front of the public? All I can do is never speak. So no matter whether the speech is good or not, especially when we share, we should first encourage the children to stand up bravely. Of course, we should not let them get upset. We can guide the children to speak as concisely as possible. Even if the speech is not exciting, it will still be within the limits set by the host. It’s good if you express what you want to express in the time period. The simplest sharing, for example, teaches children to say: \”I am willing to give the opportunity to share to others.\” That\’s it. Do you always say this sentence? Let me teach you another trick, such as saying after going on stage: \”Hello everyone, I wish you all the best, that\’s all I want to say, I want to give the time to share to others.\” It\’s amazing! This is notIt\’s a matter of speaking or not, it\’s a matter of bravery, because bravery is too important. When I was in Africa a few years ago, I noticed that the route the wildebeest took was winding. I thought there was a road, but when I looked over, I found that there was no road. But why do the entire herd of wildebeest move like this? Because the leading wildebeest walks like this, the ones behind also follow suit. I realized immediately that leadership is too simple. As long as you dare to be the first, someone will follow, because more people are willing to follow and be led. In this world, your subordinates are ready for you, 85% of the people are ready to be your subordinates, but if you don’t stand up, these 85% will not work. If you bravely stand up and say : \”Go, go this way!\” They will follow you. This is bravery! Parents should pay attention to cultivating those precious qualities in their children\’s lives and cultivate the precious qualities in their children. He will definitely succeed, because people are precious because of their precious qualities. These four qualities are precious qualities that accompany children throughout their lives and can help children make their lives better because of these qualities at any stage of their lives.