The mother spent a day with her child and regretted not doing these things for her child. The child even cried and refused to enter the kindergarten gate.

Our kindergartens here are starting one after another. Xiao Liu’s son from the company’s human resources department goes to a public kindergarten. On the first day of school, the school requires parents to accompany the children for the whole day. Xiao Liu took a day off to accompany her to kindergarten. After this day of accompanying her, she realized that preparation before entering kindergarten is really important for children to adapt to kindergarten life. I regretted that I didn’t make enough preparations for my child, so that the child cried and refused to go to school the next day. When we arrived at the school gate, I pulled Xiao Liu\’s thigh and refused to enter. What happened to the child during the day when Xiao Liu accompanied him to study? In order to give his child a sense of ritual when entering school, Xiao Liu went online and spent more than 200 yuan to buy a pair of small leather shoes for his child. However, because of these small leather shoes, the child did not want to play with other children. Why? It turned out that there was an activity that afternoon, and the child was wearing small leather shoes that were not suitable for sports. He stopped after running a few steps, and even walked to Xiao Liu and held her hand, not daring to go to the front to play with other children. From this point of view, the uncomfortable shoes worn by children really have a certain impact on their activities in kindergarten. It’s even more embarrassing when lunch time comes. The children are usually fed dumplings by their grandparents, and they don’t know how to eat by themselves. When the teacher asked every child in the class to eat by himself, the child looked at Xiao Liu aggrievedly. The food was cold and the child didn\’t even take two bites. Xiao Liu couldn\’t help it, so he fed the child a few more mouthfuls. Xiao Liu looked at the busy figure of the teacher and thought to himself, the children cannot eat independently and can only eat when they are hungry. The teacher basically does not have time to feed each child. What made Xiao Liu even more angry was that during game time, his son had an argument with other children. In the end, his son was bullied and cried sadly. The teacher heard the crying and went to comfort the child and asked what happened. But the child would just keep wiping his tears with his clothes and hesitating. Didn\’t explain what happened clearly at all. Xiao Liu really regrets that he did not train his children\’s language expression skills, so that when the children were bullied, they could not speak clearly, and they did not have the awareness to \”see the teacher if anything happened.\” After reading what happened to the children of the Liu family on a day when they entered kindergarten, do you think it is important to prepare your children before entering kindergarten? I often hear mothers around me say that their children are about to enter kindergarten. It seems that they have to prepare a lot of things, but they don’t know what to prepare? In fact, it is not that complicated. These aspects will help the children prepare, and the children will adapt quickly. I don’t resist going to kindergarten either. ① Preparation for children’s language communication In fact, no one knows their children better than family members, especially mothers. Many times, adults already know what a child is going to do before he or she expresses his thoughts. But after entering kindergarten, teachers will definitely not be able to achieve such a tacit understanding with children in a short period of time. The teacher will understand the child\’s thoughts only if he speaks them out. This requires children to learn to express themselves. If they are thirsty, sleepy, want to go to the toilet, or can\’t find something, they need to tell the teacher clearly in order to get accurate help. Therefore, we usually need to communicate with our children more at home, and even if we know his thoughts, we must encourage him to express them fully on his own. In this way, he can accurately tell the teacher when he encounters problems in kindergarten. When we adults communicate with our children, we try to speak complete words and developHabit. ② Preparation for children\’s self-care ability. No matter how good a child\’s language expression ability is, the teacher cannot help him with everything. At the very least, we have to train our children to complete these living abilities independently, such as putting on and taking off clothes, picking up pants after going to the toilet, drinking water, eating by themselves, etc. ③Preparation of items We don’t think that there is nothing that children need to bring when entering the kindergarten. When many children arrive at the kindergarten, they cannot tell which cup is their own, wear the wrong clothes of other children, and refuse to wear the kindergarten spare pants after they wet their pants… In fact, this is caused by insufficient preparation of items. I remember when our daughter first entered kindergarten, the teacher issued a notice that she needed to make the following preparations: ① Prepare photos of the children to post on the cup holder and crib, so that the children can easily distinguish their cups from their beds. ② Ask parents to embroider names or put name strips on clothes to prevent children from wearing similar clothes incorrectly. ③Put one or two sets of spare clothes in your schoolbag. ④ You can bring a favorite toy. This prevents children from feeling uncomfortable when they first enter kindergarten and allows them to feel more secure holding familiar toys. Finally, I wish all the children can enter the kindergarten smoothly, adapt early, and learn skills early! Thank you for reading.