The pattern of the father and the mood of the mother are the feng shui of the family.

Authorized picture | Xiang Wei’s photo of the father’s pattern and the mother’s emotions are the feng shui of the family. If the father is the mountain, the mother is the sea. The mountain gives people support, and the sea soothes people’s hearts. If the father is a lamp, the mother is the fire. The lamp illuminates the direction and the fire brings warmth. A family is built by father and mother. The father\’s pattern and the mother\’s mood determine the feng shui of the family. The father\’s pattern determines the direction of the family. The fortune and fortune of a family does not appear out of thin air. It is the result of the joint efforts of family members. If a family wants to be harmonious and prosperous, it must first move in the right direction. The father\’s pattern determines the direction of the family\’s development. Zeng Guofan once said: \”Those who plan for great things first pay attention to the pattern.\” The size of the pattern in mind determines whether the vision is long-term, and whether the vision is long-term determines the success or failure of things. The development of a family is not an overnight process. The family needs management and planning. Due to the different social division of labor, the father, as the male in the family, assumes the function of the family leader and is the representative of the family\’s \”authority\”. As the locomotive of the family train, the father must have a far-sighted vision and a big picture. Only a father\’s big picture can ensure that the family\’s development direction is correct. As the old saying goes, \”If you don\’t belong to the same family, you don\’t enter the same door.\” People spend most of their lives in the family, and concepts, thoughts, etc. will be passed on through the subtle influence of family members. If the father has a big picture, it will have a good influence on his wife and descendants. In family life, my father has a big picture, that is, when the family encounters difficulties or changes, he does not shrink back and is able to withstand pressure. Don’t be fussy about small family losses, don’t live in confusion, be positive about life, and have a rough plan for family development. Montaigne once said: \”As a father, the greatest joy is to be able to inspire and educate his children based on the path he has traveled during his lifetime.\” A father is worth a hundred teachers, and a father is the person that a child comes into contact with in life. The first male image, he shoulders the important task of helping children understand the world and society correctly. Only when fathers have a big picture in educating their children can their children grow up healthy and strong, and can they accumulate reserves for the prosperity of the family. In educating children, the father\’s general pattern is reflected in not labeling children, and understanding that children\’s character is more important than ability. Speaking of talented women, many people will think of the \”Four Sisters of Hefei\” during the Republic of China, and then sigh that Zhangjia in Hefei is a treasure land of Feng Shui. In fact, this Feng Shui is not destiny, and his father Zhang Zhaowu has put in a lot of effort for it. Zhang Zhaowu is a father with a big picture. He likes to be exposed to all kinds of new things, and loves to read and collect books. He never restricts the development of children, but he also has strict requirements for children and has a bottom line for educating children. After the May 4th Movement, they were afraid that their children would contract bad feudal habits, so they moved the whole family, and this was how they became the envy of everyone in Jiuru Lane. Mother\’s mood determines the temperature and mood of the family and runs through our lives. Due to physiological differences, women have stronger emotional activities and are more likely to be emotional than men. If the father plays the role of helmsman and leader in the family, then the mother is the regulating valve and oxygen supply machine of the family. Although the burden of familyIt is shared by both parents, but the mother bears it more than the father. Under the dual pressure of work and family, many mothers feel inadequate and their emotions become more unstable. But the mother\’s emotions determine the temperature of a family and the degree of harmony in the family. First of all, from the perspective of family life, women\’s gentle and delicate qualities can create a warm and harmonious atmosphere in family life. In this atmosphere, no matter how big conflicts and difficulties are, they can be overcome. If the father is a sharp sword that cuts through thorns and thorns, the mother is a silk screen of affection. She uses love to separate the family from the dark and cold world outside. Compared with men, women are better at expressing their inner emotions and know how to use the power of language and emotions. A mother\’s smiling face and warm words can give strength to every family member. Every child is a blank piece of paper. He can be whatever you want him to be. In the child\’s growth process, the mother\’s influence cannot be replaced. The mother is the main role in the emotional dependence of the child. If the mother cannot control her emotions when in contact with the child, the child is likely to have imbalanced emotional regulation when he grows up. A book says: \”For most adults, even if they only have one problem with their mother in their lives, there will be a \’copy of mother\’ in their hearts who speaks, behaves and reacts exactly like they did in childhood.\” Mother\’s Emotions Unstable, praising the child at one moment and scolding the child loudly at the other, which will cause the child to be wary and lack trust when they grow up. Always complaining and vomiting bitterness to your child will also turn your child into a negative person. A mother\’s emotions determine the temperature of the family. Learn to control your emotions in family life. Take a deep breath before getting angry, face your family with a smile, praise your lover and children more often, and don\’t always see the shortcomings. In the Zhang family in Hefei, mother Lu Ying is a person who can control her emotions very well. She and her husband have never blushed since they got married. She is always considerate to please her mother-in-law. She never speaks hysterically and harshly towards her children. She uses her good mood to provide a protective umbrella for the family and the growth of her children. The father\’s pattern determines the direction of the family, and the mother\’s mood affects the atmosphere of the family. Only when the father has a big picture and the mother has a good mood can the family have good feng shui.