The reason why children cry is not without reason

We always find some treasures in the works of some great thinkers. After becoming a parent, I understand some things more deeply when I read them. If someone who is not a parent reads it, it should be more of a yearning. And when we read, we seem to read ourselves. I really like this poem \”The Way of Children\” written by Rabindranath Tagore. The translator is Mr. Zheng Zhenduo. \”The Way of Children\” As long as the child is willing, he can fly to the sky at this moment. It’s not for nothing that He doesn’t leave us. He loved to rest his head on his mother\’s breast, and he could not live without her even for a moment. Children know all kinds of wise words, although few people in the world understand their meaning. It was not for nothing that he never wanted to say it. One thing he has to do is learn the words that come from his mother\’s lips. That\’s why he seems so naive. The child had piles of gold and beads, but he came into the world like a beggar. It\’s not for nothing that he pretended to be like this. This cute little naked beggar pretends to be completely helpless in order to beg for his mother\’s wealth of love. In the world of the tiny Crescent Moon, children are free from all constraints. It was not for nothing that he gave up his freedom. He knew that there was infinite happiness hidden in the little corner of his mother\’s heart, and that being embraced by his mother\’s dear arms was far sweeter than freedom. Children never know how to cry. He lives in a perfect paradise. It wasn\’t for nothing that he shed tears. Although he used the smile on his lovely face to draw his mother\’s eager heart towards him, his little cries because of trivial matters became a double bind of pity and love. Every time I read this poem, I am almost moved to tears… The love a child has for his parents is such a touching thing. They come to this world loving their parents and eagerly looking forward to your love and response. We always see babies who are a few months old jumping for joy when they see their mother. That is natural. We also saw children murmuring and talking to us. We need to know that children are attached for a reason. Children cry for a reason. There is a reason for the child\’s little willfulness. The so-called way of children is the way of parents. It\’s just that many times, ignorant and ignorant parents hurt you again and again, or mislead you again and again. You don\’t understand me. How can you love me? Parents must understand their children before they can say they love them. Children should be the best gift God gives to every parent, bar none. And parents are also the most important teachers in this world, bar none. The reason why a good person becomes a great person is always inseparable from the people who influenced him the most in his childhood. I read \”A Brief History of Humankind\” some time ago, and a passage written in it particularly touched me: \”Humans are not fully developed when they are born, so they can be changed through education and socialization better than other animals. Most of them can be changed through education and socialization. When mammals leave the womb, it is like glazed pottery coming out of the kiln. If you want to make any adjustments, it will be scratched or broken. However, when humans leave the womb, it is like taking it out of the furnace. A ball of freshly melted glass is produced, which can be swirledTurn and stretch, the plasticity is amazingly high. \”You can see the plasticity of our people. This is such an important affirmation. Because this makes us energetic. If someone tells you that people are born immutable, bad embryos are bad embryos, and good children are good children. . That is simply the greatest sorrow for parents. On the way of children\’s growth, this plastic educational task relies largely on family education and school education. A person\’s personality and behavioral habits are closely related to childhood. The so-called way of children is Parents said. Because without children, there is no identity of parents. And having children is not only the continuation of life, but also the sublimation of one\’s life. Let us love our children well when they need love most. Don\’t be anxious, There is no need to be afraid. Time will help you a lot, as long as you are willing to learn and wait patiently. For example, during the child\’s sensitive period, you must have enough patience to wait. Remember that when the child goes out when he is more than two years old, he must open the door and then arrange for everyone to go out. A year later, he no longer cared about who opened the door. He began to care about the perfection of every detail, almost stubbornly demanding perfection. He began to look for words he knew in picture books, and began to read letters written by dinosaurs to him ( In fact, I wrote a little method for him to recognize words. I would write some words that he knew, and invite him to come and have a meal. The foodie baby can\’t resist, and he wishes he could know them all.) Sensitive periods are coming one after another. , spending time with your children again and again. On the way to raising children, if someone tells you that you can master the parenting skills in just one class. That is definitely a trap, don’t believe it. In the past, I spent nearly four years from a A novice dad has grown into an entry-level baby daddy. Many friends have also followed the platform for nearly two years. Gain something from every day\’s sharing and learn something from actual upbringing. Only after changing yourself and self-cultivation can you become more confident step by step. , it becomes easier, but many problems still arise. On the road to parenting, don’t pray for any shortcuts. Just like we can’t expect our children to grow up overnight. Growth is an accumulation day after day, and there is no shortcut. As long as you give your children air to breathe freely and a warm home. Give them the right way to raise them, on a midsummer morning, under the warm sunshine, they will bloom gently like ancient thousand-year-old lotuses. I like nature , and also like children growing up freely in nature. Rousseau said: \”Nature wants children to be like children before they become adults. If we disrupt this order, we will produce premature fruits that are neither plump nor sweet and will soon rot; we will produce young doctors and senile children. \”The scariest thing is that many of us nowadays have our hearts wrapped up in layers. You might as well leave some time for yourself and poke your head out of the endless life. Let your children take you for a walk outside. You will Smell the fragrance of flowers, feel the breeze and the bright moon, and you will find that the world is not just a cold computer. It is a big garden full of beautiful scenery. As long as you are willing, follow the footsteps of your child. Instead of your child being locked up by you. The world will unfold miraculouslyShow. Teacher Long Yingtai wrote in \”Children, Take Your Time\”: \”On the streets of Tamsui, the sunshine slanted on this messy flower shop in the narrow alley. I, sitting on the stone steps under the slanting sun, was willing to wait. For a lifetime, let this child tie that butterfly knot calmly and calmly, using his five-year-old fingers. Take your time, kid, take your time…\” With such a feeling of life, it is not just the child who has achieved success.