The results of the 2024 College Entrance Examination have been announced, proving once again: Those who are self-disciplined will excel, while those who are lazy will be eliminated.

The results of the 2024 college entrance examination are out, proving once again: learning is a self-disciplined struggle! Only children who are diligent, conscientious and self-conscious on the way to study can return home with great success in the college entrance examination. As Zhu Xi said: If you don\’t work hard, your mind will become depressed; if you don\’t exercise restraint, your mind will become unbridled. Those who are diligent learners will move forward bravely on the road of excellence; those who are willing to play and be content with the status quo in the hotbed of mediocrity. Please tell your children: Self-discipline is an essential factor for excellence, the best way to counterattack, and an inexhaustible motivation for excellence. You can deceive yourself and others, but your grades will not come out of nowhere. The college entrance examination is like a touchstone. You will know whether you are \”real hardworking\” or \”fake hardworking\”. This year, my cousin\’s daughter Yangyang took the college entrance examination for the second time and failed again without any suspense. My cousin’s colleagues all sent their children to a good high school in the provincial capital when they were in their third year of high school, so my cousin also sent Yangyang there, thinking that Yangyang would be able to get into a good second school if he repeated his studies in the second year, but he was Reality slaps you in the face. It turns out that although Yangyang came to a relatively strict learning environment, she had no ambition. She relied on copying homework and cheating on exams. She often sneaked out to Internet cafes at night to play games and chat with netizens. Teachers and parents are just crutches for children on the road to learning. They can help for a while, but not forever. When entering the examination room, you have to rely on your own true abilities. Just like what is said in \”Farewell My Concubine\”: \”People have to make their own dreams come true.\” You can never wake up a person who is pretending to sleep. If you don\’t think about the child who is working hard, no matter how hard you try to pull him, it will be the same. Superfluous. On the road of learning, those children who deceive themselves and others are the stupidest. I still remember that a new term became popular during online classes, called \”students with learning difficulties in online classes\”, which can be roughly divided into three categories: really not studying, pretending to study, and pretending not to study. Such students with learning difficulties will also appear in the high school and college entrance examinations. However, the examination is like a mirror that reflects hard work and tears of regret. Children who pretend to study will not act with you; children who study perfunctory will naturally not have excellent grades. There are no two mornings in a day, and time never comes again. They are also energetic teenagers. Some people compete for time through self-discipline, while others waste time through indulgence. Ten years later, the self-disciplined children will live the way they like, with spiritual and financial freedom; while the self-indulgent children will eventually pay for their actions and suffer all the hardships in an unfree life. It is not IQ but self-discipline that determines the upper limit of performance. There is a view in the book \”Welcome to Your Child\’s Brain\”: whether a person is successful, self-discipline has twice the impact of intelligence. If wisdom is compared to a gift from God, without the blessing of self-discipline, the temporary wisdom will be exhausted sooner or later. CCTV once exposed a study schedule for Tsinghua University undergraduates. This schedule came from an exhibit in the \”Tsinghua University Excellent Academic Style Archives and Historical Materials Exhibition\” held by the Tsinghua History Museum. The dense table records the daily learning progress of a classmate. In addition to completing fixed courses, he also listens to lectures every week to recharge his batteries, learns two foreign languages, and arranges fixed exercise time to take care of his health while studying. It is understood that this academic master comes from a backward area and his family background is very average, but he isThe top scorer in the city-level college entrance examination in 2016. After arriving at Tsinghua University, he relied on his extraordinary diligence and tenacity to consistently rank among the top three in the college and received a first-class scholarship for four years. Before graduation, he was hired in advance by a central enterprise with special talents and became a reserve cadre. Behind his blockbuster success is his determination to move forward with gritted teeth and perseverance, and it is also a reflection of his courage to hone himself through self-discipline. On the other hand, those children who destroy their own futures can only sigh: Too confused! Xiaotong, the son of a friend, dropped out of college because he failed 18 subjects because he was addicted to gaming. When she was in high school, Xiaotong was considered by many parents to be \”someone else\’s child\”, with top grades. After the high school entrance examination, she entered a key high school and was recommended to a 985 university in the province for the college entrance examination. However, because he played games day and night during college, did not go to class, and did not pay attention to his studies, he was eventually ordered to drop out of school and was unable to graduate. As the old saying goes: the hard road is the uphill road. Learning itself is a boring process that requires a lot of repetition, which is mutually exclusive with children\’s instinctive laziness, slackness and procrastination. A child who cannot even restrain his desire to play, no matter how smart he is, may not be able to control his own life when he grows up. If you don’t want your talent to be lost to laziness, you must rely on the power of self-discipline to become a better person through tempering and improvement. The top level of self-discipline is to be a long-termist. There is a famous \”bowling effect\”: the object of the bowling ball is 10 bottles. If you knock down 9 bottles every time, you will eventually score 90 points; and if you knock down 10 bottles every time bottle, with a final score of 240 points. The same is true for learning: only if you persist a little longer than others and are a little better than others can you win more opportunities. What makes people fight to the end is not self-righteous shrewdness, but perseverance and self-discipline. In the field of education, once the seeds of self-discipline are planted, nothing can stop them from sprouting and bearing fruit. As sociology professor Frank Freddy said: \”People who effectively devote a lot of time to practice will naturally have their own luck. When luck comes, they will be ready.\” As a parent, the biggest responsibility is to teach Children become long-termists. Tell your children: Do everything in a steady manner and refuse to improvise. Only by cultivating children\’s self-discipline habits from an early age will they be able to arrange their own study and life in a logical manner when they grow up. When learning, you should look for more methods, and don’t just look for excuses. There is a saying that is right: losers look for excuses, and winners look for methods. Children with poor learning consciousness always make excuses for themselves to cover up the consequences of failure when they encounter difficulties. Children with high learning consciousness are able to explore better ideas and methods for solving problems, and they regard problems and failures as ladders of progress. 1. Active learning: The learning pyramid tells us that the retention rate of learning content in passive learning is only 20% at most, while the retention rate of learning content in active learning can be as high as 90%. Therefore, during the learning process, parents must encourage their children to tell themselves the knowledge they learn every day, and they must also discuss it with their classmates and teachers at school. 2. Improve efficiency: Stay focused when studying and stay away from distracting things, such as muting mobile phones and staying away from noisy TVs; carry study cards with you,Use fragmented learning; the key points mentioned by the teacher in class should be marked with different symbols, and special attention should be paid to error-prone points. Learning should have clear goals and avoid being distracted. Self-discipline = goals + persistence. Children with clear goals are highly efficient, learn quickly, and play well; children without plans have low efficiency, unstable learning, and poor play. 1. Make a list of learning content: use a task list every day to list the learning tasks of the day, clarify the knowledge sections that need to be strengthened every week, make a phased learning summary every month, review the completion of tasks in the previous weeks, and make timely adjustments next month. 2. Visualization of learning progress: Knowing the learning progress is a motivating effect for children to learn. It also allows children to be aware of the progress and avoid wasting time on the knowledge they have already mastered. For example, if you are halfway through reciting a word, the progress is 50%, hold on! Learning should be done step by step, and avoid beginning or end. Mr. Lu Xun said: \”Don\’t be ashamed of being the last. Even if you are slow, galloping, falling behind, or failing, you can definitely achieve the goal you yearn for.\” It is true that learning can only achieve a certain amount of accumulation. Achieve a qualitative leap. Self-discipline must also be taken step by step. Three minutes of enthusiasm on a whim usually cannot achieve the desired results. 1. Develop learning methods: Tell your children that they don’t need to keep catching up with others, and that insisting on making progress at their own learning pace every day is the best explanation for themselves. 2. Learn to manage yourself: Self-disciplined people can often balance study and life well. In life, we must prevent our children from becoming people who procrastinate, have irregular work schedules, and cannot distinguish important priorities. The college entrance examination is pressure in front of children who lack self-control; it is motivation in front of children who are rich in self-control. Please tell your children that learning is a war without gunpowder. Only those who are self-disciplined can excel, and those who are lazy will eventually be eliminated. As long as a person tries his best to achieve 100%, the rest will be left to time.