The secret of growth: Happy labor, lighting up children’s future

On the first day of the holiday, I accompanied my niece to sort out the wrong questions. One of the questions was about the relationship between labor rights and obligations. We are somewhat interested in designing labor education activities. If there are students on duty at school, how will they be arranged at home during the May Day holiday? We are afraid that children will be exposed to too many electronic products and be surrounded by a wealth of entertainment activities. Afraid of going out for fun and delaying homework progress. It can be said that there are many worries… On the occasion of Labor Day, friends may wish to discuss the impact of labor education on children. 1. Shaping character and enlightening wisdom. During the holidays, the children from the sisters’ families gathered together happily, running around with all kinds of fun and delicious food. But I carefully observed my sister’s youngest daughter. She is very attentive to the joy brought by labor. Before eating, she will take the initiative to clear the dining table to ensure that there is no debris on the floor. Place the stools in an orderly manner and prepare bowls and chopsticks in advance! I remember last year, she was the only one who invited me to help shoot her May Day labor video. Children who love to work will always be appreciated and more responsible. It is more meaningful to preach than to practice. \”What you see on paper is only shallow, but you know that you have to do it.\” If there are multiple children in the family, it is easy to have a comparison mentality. The eldest son said: \”Why am I taking out the garbage?\” The second child said: \”Why do you always take out the garbage?\” I clean the table and sweep the floor?\” This creates complaints, irresponsibility, and a weak personality. Mr. Jin Weichun, the author of \”Only One Thing in Life\”, once said that he also had this mentality when he was a child, complaining that his mother always asked him to take out the trash. He only understood it when he grew up. This is a very good labor education. Reflect on yourself, discover wisdom from this little thing about labor, get rid of the small self, and keep the big self. 2. Children who have a skill and a lifelong love of labor since childhood are loved not only by their families and teachers. You can also find your love for life and have good control over your life. Exercise the ability to survive independently and let children actively participate in housework, which is like opening a door to wisdom. Zhuge Liang once said: \”Without learning, one cannot develop talents; without ambition, one cannot achieve learning.\” Learning and practice complement each other, and life skills are an important part of improving comprehensive ability. For example, when tidying up a room, you can be more organized, fall in love with design, and make architectural models. (Future architectural designers) learn to classify and summarize, and improve work efficiency. Today\’s organizers not only have a love for their own lives, but also help others learn to love their lives. At the same time, he also has a skill. Learn to better share space with others. This experience will also make them more calm and confident in their future lives. During the holidays, let your children do more housework and enjoy a quiet life instead of being crowded with people. 3. What do children who don’t work lack? On the way back, I overheard a radio broadcast that mentioned the contrast in life between children who don’t do housework and children who love to work. ●Learning attitude. Children who love working often apply their hard-working habits to their studies and are more hands-on in everything. For example, when doing questions, I habitually draw pictures with straw paper and pens, and calculate carefully. Children who do not like to work relatively will write randomly in the upper right corner or upper left corner of the homework book. Some even calculate directly in textbooks. I remember that when we were young, the conditions were not as good as they are now.My child is so good that he is reluctant to use papyrus. Last week, when I was cleaning up my house, I found a pile of white paper with printed questions that were still clean and waiting to be completed. It was useless in the eyes of the children, but I quietly put it away and used it as calculation paper. Every time I tutor homework and explain the topic, I need to use acting paper. I always rush around and look for it. Therefore, teammates have repeatedly emphasized that there is no need to look for things at home, but the concept of being organized, using what you need, and getting it directly from the place. It\’s like giving each item a home. Clean and beautiful, and save time. ●Marriage responsibilities. In comparison, children who love working are more independent, are used to making delicious food, and are healthier. In marriage, you have a greater sense of responsibility and do not care about gains and losses. Invisibly, the ability to solve problems is enhanced, and the married life will be happier. Start repairing small household appliances, making various life arts, and creating a beautiful garden. Contribute to a happy life, harmony and contentment. On the contrary, children who do not like to work are accustomed to relying on others and waiting for help from others. Communicating with others is not smooth, and win-win cooperation cannot be achieved. Most couples have quarrels all day long because of housework. Only treat labor as a habit. It will also become a symbol of love. 4. Family labor is the enlightenment of love and responsibility. In school, students can realize the meaning of labor in the group, but at home, it is often difficult to do so. Especially when there are differences of opinion among family members. I used to live with my parents-in-law. Every time I wanted to ask my child to help me do something that he could do, my mother-in-law scolded me mercilessly: \”Look at how lazy your mother is for such a young child.\” , let him do so many things.\” Because of the word \”lazy\”, family conflicts arose. It is very detrimental to the growth of children. Another area of ​​disagreement about family education is that parents should pay corresponding wages for children to do housework. Some people think this is misleading about the role of money. In the children\’s financial enlightenment book \”Where Does Money Come From\”, the villagers exchange the items they own with others and exchange the value of their labor for remuneration. This fully illustrates that money is just a tool, and it is labor that makes you rich. Therefore, in order to prevent their children from falling into the cognitive trap of money, parents can choose to let their children complete tasks with certain difficulties. Compensate appropriately. The mother mentioned in the broadcast made her teenage children do various household chores, cooking, laundry, weeding, feeding, etc. Some netizens think this is unreasonable, as children mainly focus on learning. But the mother’s point of view is to cultivate the child’s independence so that he can survive in the future. The child also understands his mother\’s approach very well, agrees with it, and is grateful for the growth and changes that labor has brought to him. In a school I worked for before, the principal paid great attention to labor education. When I walked on campus, every corner was clean and comfortable. The requirements were very strict. Even the handrails on both sides of the stairs were wiped and wiped, and the steps were also painted. Brush again. The work education children receive at home and at school will be a necessary condition for success in their future lives. The family is like a university, and labor education is like the first lesson for us to get started, pass the first test well, and pass the test after the test is difficult. At the end, I pay tribute to the working people! We are proud of our labor! The above wishes us a happy holiday! Author introduction: Lihua, a 36-year-old mother of three treasures, the same name on the Internet, love pointsEnjoy, love life. I am willing to share my marriage management, parenting experience, female growth, reading and writing, etc. Looking forward to communicating with the destined people, see you tomorrow! Welcome to make progress together: Friends who are willing to insist on getting up early to exercise, read, and write, come together to challenge 365 days. 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