The stories of happy families are all similar, and there is never any dispute about right or wrong.

Home is a place for love, not reason. What happy families have in common is that they don\’t argue about right and wrong. Don\’t argue with your parents. Confucius said: No matter how much your parents give you advice, you won\’t obey your will, but you will respect it without disobeying it, and you will work hard without complaining. If you have different opinions with your parents, you should persuade them gently. If your parents don\’t listen after trying several times, just let things take their own course. There is no need to argue about right and wrong. Liang Qichao was a filial son who had to take care of his father while also taking care of the reform cause. The stories of happy families are all similar, they are willing to throw away these three things. At that time, there were often guests coming and going at home. Liang Qichao\’s father was very picky about etiquette, and the reformist style often made him dissatisfied. Liang Qichao could not refuse the guests and did not want to make his father angry, so he tried to find a way to create a separate living room for his father. In this way, when there are guests at home, there is no need to disturb the father; when no guests come, you can still enjoy family happiness. As the old saying goes: There are no bad parents in the world. My parents are older and have held on to many concepts throughout their lives. You should say certain things according to their wishes and don\’t make them angry over trivial matters. Not arguing about right or wrong is the best filial piety to parents. Don’t argue with your lover. Some couples often argue over trivial matters. In the end, you often win the argument but lose the relationship. A truly smart person would rather suffer a loss in exchange for the peace of his family. One time, Liang Qichao\’s two children were hit by a car driven by a popular official. Liang Qichao was unwilling to make this matter a big deal out of some concerns, so he only scolded the servants sent by the officials to apologize. But his wife, Li Huixian, was eager to protect her son and was very emotional. She must meet with the then President Li Yuanhong and sue the officials responsible. Although Liang Qichao objected to such publicity, he still respected his wife\’s opinion and did not stop her. In a letter home, he once mentioned this incident to his eldest daughter Sishun, who was far away from home. He said: \”It is a good thing that your mother tried her best to make amends in Li and her anger will be relieved and she will not get sick.\” Let the president apologize, which shows Liang Qichao\’s respect and love for his wife Li Huixian. Because this incident caused a stir in the city, there were many rumors that Liang Qichao was \”pecked of his wife\”. In fact, behind every \”henpecked\” story is the husband\’s tolerant and generous heart. Between husband and wife, there is no need for reason, only tolerance and understanding. Especially on some occasions, the husband and wife should be consistent with each other and work together to maintain the happiness of the family. Don’t fight with your children. Liang Qichao had nine children in his life. He always protected his children’s nature with the wisdom and mind of a father. As the most outstanding scholar in the late Qing Dynasty and the early Republic of China, Liang Qichao was proficient in literature, philosophy, history, and library science. He could have used his profound knowledge to guide his children in life, but he never imposed his own wishes on his children. When the children were studying abroad, their choice of majors depended on their own interests, and Liang Qichao always supported the children\’s decisions. He originally wanted his second daughter, Sizhuang, to study biology, but Sizhuang was not very interested in biology, and as a father, he did not force it. Liang Qichao said: Everyone should judge for themselves how close their nature is, and everyone should give full play to their individual strengths and contribute to society. There is no better talent than this. He told his children that there is no right or wrong choice in professional choice. As long as you give full play to your talents, if you have contributed to society, you should feel satisfied and happy. Under the guidance of Liang Qichao, most of the nine children of the Liang family graduated from top domestic institutions such as Tsinghua University and Peking University, or traveled across the ocean to study at well-known institutions such as Buddhist University and West Point Military Academy. \”Zengguang Xianwen\” said: \”Everyone teaches the children etiquette and justice, and the small family beats the son with a stick.\” In a happy family, the parents run the house with love, and the children also obey the adults out of love for their parents. Children who grow up in such a relaxed family environment are often more likely to become talented.