The stupidest parent is the one who expects his children to listen to him

\”If a parent is stupid enough to hope that his child will listen to him, then the child will not get better!\” Does this sentence sound harsh? This is the reality. Parents\’ high pressure and strong desire to control often cause children to lose themselves and become good children who do nothing. Do you want your child to grow into an independent, independent person, or a puppet who can only nod and bend? 01 A good boy under high pressure, do you really want this? Parents often have good wishes and hope that their children can grow up smoothly and avoid detours. However, too much command and control will cause children to lose their own judgment and thinking abilities. They may appear obedient on the outside but feel confused and depressed on the inside. Children\’s inner world, their dreams and pursuits are beyond the complete control of parents? Through strict discipline and high-pressure control, parents may temporarily see an \”obedient\” child, but in the long run, they will gradually lose their self-confidence and self-identity. Do parents hope that they can stand alone in society in the future, or can they only survive in the shadow of others? Letting children explore and try is the best way to educate them. When parents relax, children will also find their own direction in your trust. Parents hope that they will grow into people who have the ability to think independently and dare to challenge themselves, rather than being puppets who only obey orders. This kind of education not only makes children more confident, but also makes them more successful and happy in their future lives. 02 Parents who tame lions, children who cannot raise cheetahs are like animal tamers who tame lions. Many parents hope to \”tame\” their children into the good children in their minds through strict discipline. A tamed child is like a tamed lion, losing its original wildness and courage. But, do you really want this? Do you want your child to be a fearless cheetah or a tame kitten? What is needed on the road of life is independent thinking and independent action, rather than just following orders. As they grow up, there are some experiences and feelings that only they can understand and comprehend. What children need is their own life experience, not a path arranged by you. Parents may think that their children are still young and need your guidance and protection, but in fact, what they long for deep in their hearts is exploration and freedom. When you let go, they will begin to discover their potential, like a cheetah running across the grassland and finding its own direction. 03Children’s independence and self-confidence are the most precious wealth. When parents see their children showing their own personality and opinions, please remember that their children are becoming mature and independent. You will find that this kind of growth cannot be denied, because every child has his own unique growth trajectory. As the saying goes, \”There are talented people from generation to generation, and each leads the way for hundreds of years.\” Let your children also be able to perform on the stage of their lives, rather than being restricted by your instructions. By letting go, children not only gain the ability to be independent, but also enable them to live their own lives. They grow through exploration, learn from failure, and find confidence in success. And all of this comes from you giving them freedom. You may now be beginning to realize how important it is to allow your children to develop freely. This is not onlyIt is love for them, but also a kind of trust and expectation for their future. You will find that your child\’s independence and self-confidence are your most precious assets. 04 Letting go is the deepest love. If you want your children to grow up, parents must learn to let go. The desire to control will only constrain a child\’s development, while moderate freedom is the key to cultivating independent personality. As Shakespeare said, \”All the world\’s a stage, and all men actors.\” Let your children perform on the stage of their lives, rather than making them supporting characters in your script. Children need space and freedom to grow. You may find that when you let go, your child reveals unexpected abilities and potential. Only after experiencing their own setbacks and successes can they truly learn to be independent and confident. When you give your children more freedom and trust, they will become more autonomous and courageous. They will find their own interests and directions through exploration. Just like everyone has their own path to walk, children also need their own experience and growth. There is a saying: \”Every nervous person will enter a deeper relaxation.\” Likewise, every child will discover more possibilities after gaining freedom. When you let go, your children learn how to navigate a complex world, and they become stronger and more confident. So, parents, please believe that letting go is the deepest love. You know that when you truly let go, your children will thank you for the trust and support you give them. They will go further and further on their life path and fly higher and higher. “If you love your children, please give them freedom!