In Wukong Q&A, I saw this question: A junior high school teacher punishes students who have not completed their homework and stands on the podium in front of the whole class and calls their parents for an interview. Should parents protect their rights? The subject of the question said that the son of a friend of my senior schoolmate was a first-year junior high school student. Since they had not completed their political homework (the homework load for each subject was relatively large, there were 8 students in the class who had not completed it), the teacher asked them to stand on the podium and then asked them one by one. Call parents and ask them to come to school. My friend believes that this method of interview is very inappropriate and does not give the children the dignity they deserve, nor does it give the parents the respect they deserve. This period is a rebellious period in the child\’s growth stage, and the heart is very sensitive. Friends said that the child cried very sadly at the time and is still in a low mood after returning home. And because his friend was angry and didn\’t go to school at that time, the teacher told his friend\’s child alone: Forget it this time, that\’s it. The child becomes more psychologically unwell. My friend said that he was contacting a lawyer to prepare for rights protection. The senior sister believes that the teacher\’s approach is indeed inappropriate and that it is necessary to protect children\’s rights. The psychological shock to children during their growth period may last for several years. Everyone who is a teacher knows that when managing students, calling parents is the last resort. If there are many students who make mistakes, some teachers will deal with some students in front of the whole class to \”kill the chicken and scare the monkey\”, which is also a common method used by some teachers. To put it bluntly, when teachers call parents, they are just trying to use the authority of parents to restrain their children. Now, not only will \”Tiger\” not let you take advantage of it, but it will also give you some color to show you. I guess the teacher has been dumbfounded for a long time. We can all understand what the parent meant: the teacher left too much homework, so he couldn\’t finish it; letting the child stand on the podium hurt the child\’s dignity; calling himself in front of the whole class was inappropriate. Respect yourself. So, ask a lawyer to protect your rights. But those who can speak are not as good as those who can listen. There are so many people in the class, but only 8 students have not completed their homework. Could it be that the problem is all due to too much homework? What\’s more, you didn\’t go to school at that time, didn\’t give the teacher any face, and the teacher didn\’t do anything. You just said to the child alone, \”Forget it this time, you don\’t want to see this kind of thing again in the future.\” Could it be that the teacher went too far? What? Taking a step back, even if the teacher did something wrong, why not communicate with the teacher, or report it to the school and the education administration department? Is it necessary to rise to the legal level and find a lawyer to protect my rights? It is true that it is your right to hire a lawyer to defend your rights, and it is also your right to take the teacher to court. Moreover, we all know that in a society governed by the rule of law, the plaintiff may not be justified, and there is no shame in being the defendant. But because the child didn\’t do his homework, the teacher made him stand and called his parents, so he asked a lawyer to sue the teacher, which showed no respect for the teacher. Parents keep talking about the dignity of their children and themselves, but in the eyes of parents, where is the dignity of teachers? While I was writing this article, I saw multiple media reports on the Internet saying that at around 8 a.m. on October 16, a 27-year-old female teacher from a primary school in Hunan was taken away directly from the classroom by several policemen from a town police station in the county. . He was held in the interrogation room for more than seven hours and was only released around 3 p.m. What happened was that a girl in the class was late because the teacherLet her stand in front of the classroom for a few minutes. The female student who was forced to stand quickly contacted her parents by phone. After the child\’s father reported the incident, he followed the police to the school and took the female teacher to the police station. It was finally confirmed that the deputy director who led the team to arrest the female teacher was the father of the female student who was punished for standing still. This parent is obviously better than the parent who hired a lawyer to defend his rights. But the damage caused to education by this move is probably more than 10,000 times greater than the teacher forcing the students to stand. We have all been students, and many of us have been made to stand or called parents by teachers. In fact, everyone who has been there knows that teachers who strictly manage students are responsible teachers. What is most harmful to children is not that students make mistakes and are punished by teachers, but that teachers turn a blind eye to students\’ mistakes. When teachers criticize our children, we should be happy to have such responsible teachers, instead of being hostile from the bottom of our hearts or even taking violent measures against the teachers. When it comes to children\’s education, parents and teachers should be a unit with a common goal. If the two are in opposition, education cannot be done well. Even if everyone has different educational philosophies, they should sit down and communicate calmly. If teachers are called upon by lawyers or even the police just for trivial matters, it is really not the gospel of teachers, nor is it the gospel of education.
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