The temperament of a child hides the quality of his parents

On Sunday, a few friends and I took the kids to a nearby farm for a barbecue. The scenery there is beautiful, with water and fields. There is no sound of cars and horses, only the chirping of insects and birds. Let us stay away from the hustle and bustle of the city, completely return to nature, broaden our horizons, and relax our minds. Next to our barbecue stall, there was also a group of people having a barbecue. The children were dressed in beautiful clothes, chasing each other on the grass, and from time to time they let out sweet laughter like silver bells, as cute as angels. At some point, a mother sheep wandered onto this grassland with three baby sheep. The children were very happy now, shouting and dancing around the sheep. Angelic children and cute lambs play happily on the green grass under the blue sky. What a beautiful picture! I couldn\’t help but be stunned. I quickly took out my phone and took a photo of the wonderful scene in front of me. Suddenly, a discordant picture appeared in the camera. A little boy of five or six years old raised his foot and kicked a baby sheep hard. The baby sheep was frightened and ran around. The boy laughed happily and chased the baby to continue kicking. I was so angry that my blood surged, and I stopped him loudly: \”Kid, don\’t kick the sheep, it will hurt! If someone kicks you, you will also feel pain, right?\” The boy was stunned and looked at me. He stopped chasing the sheep and quickly ran to his father. However, his father did not criticize him. He looked at the sheep, then me, then the child as if nothing had happened, and then continued fishing. I was completely speechless. The child didn\’t stop for a few minutes, then ran to the side to grab the swing with another child. When the other child refused to let him go, he cried and went to find his father. His dad was fighting a battle of wits with a fish and said impatiently: \”It\’s useless. What are you doing with your hands? You can figure it out yourself.\” The boy understood and ran back to the swing. When the child on the swing wasn\’t paying attention, he suddenly After pushing the others down, the child fell down on the lawn and started crying. The boy laughed proudly, sat on the swing and swung happily. His dad glanced at them and continued to catch his fish. The child\’s parents came over, took their child in their hands, and left angrily, muttering: \”We don\’t care about such unqualified people.\” Bear parents teach bear children. I can’t imagine what the children will look like in the future if parents do nothing like this. On the other hand, our place looks peaceful. The adults scrambled to make fires and barbecues, while some children used bamboo sticks to string vegetables carefully, and some helped take care of their little brothers and sisters. After the food is cooked, everyone humbly lets each other taste it first. Share snacks and drinks. If adults set a good example, children will naturally follow suit. A little food residue accidentally fell on the grass, attracting a few birds to peck at it. Immediately, an adult made a \”shh\” gesture to the children. They quickly stopped laughing and chasing, and looked at the birds quietly, waiting for them to fly away contentedly after eating. \”Mom, the little bird is so cute. I want one. Can you help me catch one and take it home to raise?\” a little girl said in a sweet voice. Her mother said to her gently: \”Birds are very cute and we all like them, but they also have their own home. They are only happy when they are with their parents, brothers and sisters, and they are happy when they fly in the sky. Such asIf we take it home, it will be very unhappy and its family will be very sad. Do you want them to be happy or sad? \”I want them to be happy.\” Mom, I don’t want the little bird anymore. \”Well, baby is so sensible.\” Animals are good friends of human beings. We should love and protect them, let them live happily and be friends with us forever. \”Then, the mother and daughter hugged each other intimately. With a few words from the mother, the child learned to care for animals and be compassionate. Rousseau wrote in his educational work \”Emile\”: A person\’s education begins when he is born. It started before he could speak or listen to others. He had already been educated. Bacon also said: Since habits are the masters of life, people should strive to get good habits. If habits are formed at an early age, The starting point is the most perfect habit. This is certain. We call this education. Education is actually a habit that starts from an early age. Parents’ words and deeds will leave a deep impression on their children from an early age. Imprint and influence the child\’s life. A good family education and family tradition is the best wealth that parents can give their children. Let the children learn benevolence, justice, etiquette, wisdom, trust, gentleness, courtesy and frugality from an early age, and the children will benefit from it for life. If the parents do nothing, never discipline, or even do If you set a bad example, the children will easily learn some bad habits, be full of violence, and may go astray, with disastrous consequences. If the son does not teach, it is the father\’s fault. Sometimes we blame the child for his lack of quality, but Without reflection, why did such a young child, who was as pure as a piece of white paper when he came into the world, become hateful and disgusting in just a few years? He behaves rudely, has no love, is selfish, and does not respect social ethics… …Are they born with it? Of course not. Human beings are inherently good by nature! If the parents are of high quality, they can give their children a good education. If the parents are of high quality, when the children have bad signs, they will Stop and teach them in time, and the children will soon understand right and wrong, know what should be done and what should not be done, and form a good three views. If parents are of high quality, they will be strict with themselves and their children, and cultivate good A well-educated child. A well-educated child is full of love, gentle, kind, and polite, and exudes a warm, elegant, and generous temperament. Such a temperament cannot be developed overnight. It must have condensed countless parents. The child’s hard work, constant educational guidance and subtle influence from childhood to adulthood. The child’s temperament not only reflects his own cultivation, but also must hide the quality of his parents.