The three most annoying bowls of \”poisonous chicken soup\” for children

\”The \’poisonous chicken soup\’ in the education sector is more harmful than tigers. It is coated with wisdom on the surface, but in fact it is as harmful as arsenic. If parents accept it without thinking, the long-term impact on their children\’s education will be more harmful than good. In the vast world of WeChat Moments, articles such as \”The best education is love\”, \”The most precious gift for children is freedom\”, \”As long as they work hard, every child will succeed\” have captured the hearts of many with their warm gestures. The hearts of parents. After reading, many parents often feel that every word is good, and even put it into practice in daily education. However, these seemingly inspiring \”chicken soups\” actually hide traps. Once they are convinced and put into practice, they may be wrong. It will have an irreversible negative impact on the growth of the child. Next, let’s take a look at the “poisonous chicken soup” for parenting in WeChat Moments and see how many bowls of it we have drank. 1. Happy Education In recent years, the concept of ‘happy education’ has gained popularity in China. The education world is all the rage, advocating reducing academic burden, advocating a culture of praise, and avoiding pressure. This education model sounds dreamlike, but in fact it ignores the essence of education – it is a training of wisdom and will. It is not an easy journey, but a climb full of challenges and hardships. As a senior educator warned: \”Lowering the difficulty of learning and leaving school early will not really reduce the burden, but may exacerbate educational injustice.\” Children work harder outside of class, and if children from ordinary families are just satisfied with the status quo, the gap will only get wider and wider. In addition, we cannot judge the education models of other countries based on appearances alone. Additional investment in education and high-intensity competition; the image of pleasant teachers also hides strict discipline and legal support. Therefore, those who blindly promote \”happy education\” often ignore the complexity and diversity of education and fail to do so. Reveal the truth and mechanism behind it. Let us examine the concept of parenting from a more rational perspective, refuse to blindly follow the trend, and take responsibility for the future of our children.\” In recent years, the phenomenon of \”naughty children\” has frequently become a hot topic. Mentioned, almost everyone can recount a helpless experience related to it. So, how were these “naughty children” born? In short, it is largely the result of excessive pampering and indulgence by parents. They often act laissez-faire in the name of \”respecting the nature of their children.\” However, we must be clear that \”according to nature\” should never be used as a shield for children\’s disrespectful and lack of education. As parents, while encouraging children to express their natural instincts, we also need to take the responsibility of teaching them how to maintain basic etiquette and norms in public. As a member of society, it is indispensable to abide by established social rules. Pure laissez-faire is not only unhelpful to the growth of children, but also ignores the truth that freedom and rules coexist. There is an old saying: \”It is the father\’s fault to raise children without teaching; it is the teacher\’s fault to be lazy if they are not strict in teaching.\” This emphasizes the importance of education and its responsibility. If children are neglected in their upbringing today, who will be able to tolerate their shortcomings unconditionally when they enter society in the future? Education not only means adhering to the bottom line in public, but on a deeper level, it reflects the innerA warm and open heart is a reflection of putting oneself in others\’ shoes and is the greatest expression of goodwill towards oneself and others. Children have the right to be active and active, and similarly, the people around them also have the right to enjoy a quiet, comfortable environment without being randomly disturbed. When faced with those “bad kids” who put their nature above social rules, it is their parents who should wake up and make changes. 3. Success has nothing to do with academic qualifications. Parents are often immersed in this misleading concept: after hearing stories about college students working for junior high school students and primary school graduates leading doctors, they assert that higher education is useless and that the future will ultimately be to work for others. It doesn\’t seem to be a big deal if you go to a failed university, and you may be able to unexpectedly become a wizard in the management world. However, let us examine it through simple mathematical logic: Among the hundreds of millions of junior high school graduates, how many can manage college students? This is undoubtedly rare, which shows that there is not a simple inverse relationship between academic qualifications and success. Those examples of people who have achieved great success without academic qualifications are really rare. Furthermore, those elites who are able to stand on their own after graduating from junior high school are often people with extraordinary talents and extraordinary abilities, which are different from the ordinary qualifications of most children. Encouraging children to give up their studies based on this small probability event is undoubtedly irresponsible for their future. Inspiring stories circulated on social media, such as comparing the achievements of those who won the imperial examinations with those who failed, trying to prove that success has nothing to do with academic qualifications, but history tells us that such examples are few and far between. Parents should be aware that it is extremely irrational to use individual cases to guide general behavior. For most children from ordinary families, obtaining a good academic qualification is a solid foundation for a better life. We should not blindly pursue the fantasy of \”not taking the usual path\”, but should be down-to-earth and cherish learning opportunities. Of course, we understand parents’ reluctance to put too much pressure on their children, but this does not conflict with cultivating children’s good study habits and courtesy. Among the complicated educational concepts, we should take the essence and teach students in accordance with their aptitude so that children can grow up healthily on a path that suits them. Ultimately, we want to tell our children: every effort will not be in vain. Whether it is the books you recite, the exercises you answer, the time you stay up late, or the sweat you shed, it will all be given back to you in some form. Although the road to learning is difficult, it is the most direct and reliable way to success. For most children, studying hard and getting into a good university is still the best way to change their destiny and realize their dreams. This truth remains the same no matter in the past, present or future.