The trend of small promotion has changed: education is risky and investment needs to be cautious

Chicken babies all over the country look to Beijing, and chicken babies in Beijing look to Haidian. For Haidian mothers, primary school is a key period for raising their babies. In six years, if you sacrifice your child\’s happy growth and focus on Mathematical Olympiad and English, you can indeed do a lot of things. In addition to English KET/PET and new concepts, in addition to the Mathematical Olympiad Cup awards issued by various organizations, behind the various qualifications that can be used to fill in resumes are the financial resources of parents and the childhood of their children. Just when the confident parents of Niuwa took their carefully crafted resumes and submitted them to the target schools, a Chongqing mother was so excited that she successfully obtained the admission ticket and became a \”blockbuster\” on the Internet, which eventually attracted… The media exposed, and Xiaoshengchu\’s involvement was \”stopped\”. The overnight \”Operation Sunshine\” caught parents who had been preparing for a long time by surprise. Yesterday, it happened that the city was full of wind and rain, lightning and thunder, and a sudden hailstorm hit the capital. Many friends in Haidian were basking in the devastation after the heavy rain on their screens, and lamented that this is the powerful resentment of Haidian mothers. After all, six years of hard work—time and money—may have been wasted. Who says education has no investment risks? It affects every family, and every time education policies change, there must be people who are happy and others who are worried. Same this time. There are advantages and disadvantages, it depends on who is right. Cons – risk and pain. Regardless of the outcome, the money and time spent cannot be changed. Many parents insist that education is an investment, but Xuan’s mother always believes that the money spent on children’s education is just consumption. The hard work and companionship invested can really be called an investment, because there is an opportunity cost. If the time is spent elsewhere, parents will also achieve greater achievements. I suddenly want to ask all parents, if you announce to your children that from today on, they will no longer need Mathematical Olympiad and English, and will spend all their time playing, how will their children react? That is the truest version of himself. It’s not that I don’t value Mathematical Olympiad, but I should let things return to the way they were and let those children who are truly passionate about Mathematical Olympiad learn it. Let children whose interests lie elsewhere have time to develop their own strengths. After Xuan Bao stayed in the Mathematical Olympiad class in primary school for two years, he suddenly reported to me one day that he felt that he was not suitable for the Mathematical Olympiad and felt that many of the questions were not suitable for real life situations. Then he took out a book of brain teasers and said that this was how he felt about the Mathematical Olympiad questions. This kid made it clear that he hopes what he has learned can be put to use. Later, he started to register as a developer in the game and used programs to solve game efficiency problems. For the codes he had never learned before, he hired classmates in his class to complete them and gave them a share of the code afterwards. His actions made me discover that children actually have their own strengths and choices, as long as you give them enough opportunities and free space. Alas, this is the benefit of being a lazy mother. Childhood only happens once. If you choose one road, you will inevitably miss the scenery on the other road. No matter how you train them, there will always be regrets. If you are more tolerant to your children, why not let yourself go? Today, Xuan Bao and I often review his interest classes back then to see which ones he gave up because he was afraid of hardship, and which ones he discontinued because he lacked perseverance and perseverance. I warned him: when you really find the direction you want, please stick to it, notNot for mom, but for yourself. Profit – everyone can see it. Increase in places: Led by Haidian District, according to the newly released figures, a total of 8,190 people will be enrolled in public junior high schools in 2024, an increase of about 1,065 people from 2023. Across the city, prestigious schools such as Liu Xiaoqiang are forming group schools to add more places in different areas and recruit more students with special talents. Long-term fairness is in line with the original intention of compulsory education without discrimination. Optimize the industrial chain and expose the gray industrial chain that relies on \”rolling\” to the sun. The most important thing is to liberate children and give them a happy childhood. Don\’t think this is empty talk. For the vast majority of Puwa who are not geniuses, who has not put in a lot of time and effort to keep up with the pace in exchange for admission to prestigious schools? During this time, I could have better utilized my strengths and developed other abilities besides learning. In psychology, there is a statistic that everyone knows. IQ only plays a role in 20% of a person\’s achievements. The remaining 80% is mainly emotional intelligence, commonly known as \”emotional intelligence\”. This includes interpersonal skills, emotional management skills, stress and frustration resistance, etc. In last week\’s psychology class, the teacher divided two types of children in the children\’s ability quadrants. One type is children with high IQ but low EQ, who have great achievements but are not happy; the other type is children with average IQ but high EQ, who have mediocre achievements but can be happy ordinary people. If they can only choose one of the two, parents will choose to let their children become the second type of person without hesitation. Because we are still clear-headed and maintain the simplest love for our children. There are always parents who reflect on themselves and feel extremely regretful after their children become depressed and anxious, or even drop out of school. If they had known this, why would they have forced them in the first place? As long as you are healthy physically and mentally. At the same time, on their old path, there are still successors who are working hard to become the next them. Everyone thinks they have survivorship bias, but life is long, and the hidden dangers caused by suppressing oneself, how do you know when one day will suddenly break out and destroy everything? In short, if the sudden change of Xiaoshengchu can be seen as pulling a large number of Puwa out of the quagmire that they should not have stepped into, how can we know that it is not a blessing? After the storm, there must be a rainbow. The world is so big, but you can also go outside to see it, chat with friends, be grounded in practice, and hone emotional resilience in life – that is the physical and mental health we want to give our children.