The upbringing that children lose is all due to laziness on the part of their parents.

Walking home at night, I was attracted by a burst of noise. At first glance, it was a couple riding an electric bicycle and a boy riding a bicycle who were confronting each other. At first, I thought the two adults were making things difficult for the child. Only when I walked in did I realize that the truth was not what I thought. The boy rushed downhill without braking. He rode sideways and hit a young couple pulling a car on the side of the road. The woman had a small hole in her leg and was bleeding, but the boy said with disdain: \”No. You see me rushing down? Why don\’t you know how to get out of the way?\” When the couple heard this, they became anxious: \”You hit someone, is it reasonable?\” \”The road is so wide, why did you get hit? Everyone else was fine. The boy\’s tone was very aggressive, \”Don\’t you just want compensation? Tell me, how much do you want me to compensate?\” The boy\’s words and deeds were really infuriating. Many people around him asked the boy to apologize if he was wrong, but the boy ignored it. He ignored all the voices asking him to apologize, and only said: Don\’t you just want money? I\’ll give it to you as much as you want. The woman\’s piece of paper covering the wound had already been soaked with blood. She bit her lip tightly and faced the boy in pain, but no matter how they asked for an apology, the boy was only willing to give money. The man\’s face turned purple with anger. At this moment, a couple with unusual looks suddenly appeared and walked up to the boy to protect him. They seemed to be his parents. Everyone thought that parents would always be able to handle things well, but the results were shocking. The parents were worse than the children. They were not willing to discuss the matter at all. They also said: The child is so young, if you have to argue with him, what can he understand? ? And it’s just an apology. Even if he doesn’t want to say it, what will you do if you hear the apology? If you want money, just be happy, you decide how much. Almost everyone on the scene was surprised. No wonder the child was so unruly and uncultured. It turned out to be just a replica of his parents. The couple who was hit were so angry that they couldn\’t speak. They didn\’t want to have any more trouble with this weird family, so they had no choice but to leave without asking for compensation. A child who hurts others while riding a bicycle is unwilling to apologize or admit his mistakes. This is wrong in the first place. However, instead of criticizing and educating, the parents protect them. It is conceivable that this child will still be so arrogant in the future, because the words and deeds of the parents tell them to do so. The thing is right, even if it hurts others, it can be solved with money. Saying an apology is the most basic upbringing, but there are so many irresponsible parents who are unwilling to teach even the most basic upbringing. Coincidentally, my friend Lan Lan also encountered something very disturbing a while ago. Her car was scratched while parked in the community. The scratch didn\’t look like it was accidentally scratched by another car, but more like a naughty child took a carving knife and scratched it because the scratch was too clean and smooth. , no irregularly shaped scratches. She didn\’t pay much attention to it the first time, but two months after the car was repaired, the car was scratched again. She was very depressed and realized that someone must have done it on purpose. And when she asked the neighbors, she learned that there were several people in this situation. We\’ve all encountered it, but everyone thought they were unlucky and didn\’t pursue it. They found property management help and after investigating the matter in depth, they did not expect that it was actually done by a six-year-old child. Lan Lan and her neighbors went to find the child\’s parents to discuss the situation and hope they could take good care of themselves.My children, don\’t let this happen again. It was the child\’s mother who opened the door, wearing a facial mask and playing a TV series on her mobile phone, while the child\’s father was playing games with the stereo on in the study and didn\’t even notice anyone coming. The child paddling was surrounded by a bunch of toys, playing games with an iPad in his hand. After looking up at them indifferently, he looked down at the iPad again. There is no communication between the three parents and children. When Lan Lan and the others made their intentions clear, her mother was not too touched. She pretended to scold the children in front of the visitors, and said calmly: \”I will pay attention to the children in the future and won\’t cause any trouble to you. \”Lan Lan and several neighbors had not been together for a while on such an occasion. They came out without saying a few words. When the door closed, they heard a woman\’s voice coming from inside: \”A bunch of people making a fuss. Just take a taxi and wait.\” Our child is really unlucky.\” Lan Lan was really angry at the time, but even if she rushed back to confront him, nothing would change. She could only swallow this sullen sigh. Although this child is hateful, he is also quite pitiful. One look at his parents\’ words and deeds and it is clear that they have not put any thought into him. Only such an alienated family can raise such an indifferent child. In his cognition, he has no sense of public morality and responsibility at all, let alone whether it is right or wrong to do so. The only thing he thinks about is to vent his emotions from his parents\’ neglect of him. Maybe now the child is just rowing, and it is hard to imagine what will happen in the future if this situation is not stopped. Behind uneducated children, there are basically uneducated and lazy parents. Such people are relatively selfish. In their perception, they are the most important. It is best for everything to revolve around them, ignoring everything around them, and being indifferent to others. They are used to being the boss, leaving things half-finished, or lying and shirking responsibility when something is not done well. In their understanding, even if they don\’t do it, someone will definitely clean up the mess for them. They like to make excuses to escape. If something goes wrong, they are unwilling to find reasons for themselves. They always attribute the failure to other factors or simply blame it on others to reduce their psychological burden. However, as a child, you cannot see how disgusting a person who has lost his upbringing is. But when he truly enters society, he will one day be a slap in the face, and he is even more likely to be marginalized by society and become an isolated person. Education must be cultivated from an early age. Every child is like a simple clay embryo at the beginning, and the education of parents is the shaping of the child, and the sense of responsibility is also slowly cultivated in this shaping process. Tell yourself: The upper beam is not straight and the lower beam is crooked. Don’t let yourself become that bad example. Children\’s imitative power is amazing. When parents have good moral character and quality, children can also be subtly influenced by them. And of course it is difficult for uneducated parents to raise educated children. Children\’s education runs through every detail of life, when eating, when talking… To make your child a well-educated child, you must pay attention to details, but some parents are lazy and unwilling to be strict with themselves, of course. I won\’t pay attention to the child\’s behaviordetails and teach. If you want to make your children\’s lower beams straight, you must first examine whether your upper beams are straight. Only by being strict with yourself can you be convincing to your children. Sometimes when you want to be lazy, just think about there being a pair of watery eyes behind you looking at you. Don’t set a bad example. Tell your children: Being rude is not a personality trait. No matter how much upbringing you lose, there will be many stumbling blocks in the future. It is very simple to pamper a child and give him all the good things you have. However, after getting used to the doting environment, the child thinks that he is the center of protection. He may make noises in public places to get toys, or cry when he is refused to buy ice cream. As long as he wants it, he can get it. This is the idea instilled in him by his family. However, when such a temper comes to society, who is willing to give in to a rude person for no reason, and naturally is not willing to be with such a person. Pampering is easy, but mastering the degree of pampering is not easy, even if it is for the future of the child. , but also have to pick up the lost education. In a child\’s life, the time that parents can spend with them is always limited. Everyone\’s journey must be their own ups and downs, and those ups and downs must be borne alone. No one can avoid it, and no one can share it. Having a good upbringing from a young age may make this stormy road a little smoother. But if you lose your upbringing and use yourself as the center to understand and treat the world, without a compassionate and understanding heart, you will eventually be severely punished by the world. After all, child, your parents dote on you because they love you. However, most of the people in this world are strangers to you, so who has to dote on you and let you go? That doesn\’t make sense.