The vow of \”safety to mother and child\” should not stop at the day when we first become a father.

Angelababy has given birth to a baby. A few days ago, Huang Xiaoming\’s studio also announced the good news: \”The mother and son are safe, he is a 5.9-pound young man. When the little sponge grows into a strong man, there will be one more person in the family who can join forces to fight monsters, and the mother is only responsible for upgrading along the way. ! Welcome, little sponge.\” Huang Xiaoming is famous for doting on his wife. His love and care for Angelababy has always been a legend in the entertainment industry. He has been dreaming of becoming a father since the baby was pregnant, and he was so nervous that he couldn\’t sleep at night because the due date was approaching. Long before that, he arrived in Hong Kong with his family members and stayed with his wife throughout the whole process. Huang Xiaoming replaced Angelababy to attend an event in Hong Kong a few days ago. At that time, he mentioned how he felt about becoming a father, \”I am inexplicably happy every day\” and couldn\’t hide the smile on his lips. On the day his wife gave birth, he rushed to the hospital to accompany her after attending the event. she. In fact, he had turned down many jobs earlier just to ensure that he could accompany his wife for the sacred moment, \”otherwise he would blame himself for the rest of his life.\” \”Mother and child are safe.\” All those who have been fathers have used this sentence to report peace, and have also received countless blessings from others. The excitement, joy, longing, and pride of becoming a father for the first time are all condensed in these few simple words, and are full of infinite expectations for the future. But what’s next? This year, there have been many heartbreaking and difficult family tragedies: Lin Dan cheated on his wife during her pregnancy; He Jie’s husband played games at home and did not make money to support the family or take care of the children. He also disliked his wife who gave birth to two children in three years and had an intolerable temper. She felt extremely wronged and went to the radio station to complain; Chen Sicheng ignored his wife\’s feelings and went out to have a private meeting with a young model when the child was less than one year old; a 31-year-old stay-at-home mother committed suicide by jumping off a building with her two children under the pressure of her husband\’s cheating and conflicts between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. With so many tragedies happening in front of everyone, it is conceivable that there must be more unknown family conflicts and injustices happening every moment. If you don’t believe me, just ask some of the mothers around you, have they ever experienced countless helpless nights, trapped in sleepless nights amid the snoring of their husbands and the cries of their children? The vow of \”safety to mother and child\” should not stop at the day of becoming a father. The responsibilities and hardships that come with it are what young fathers must learn to bear on the long road ahead. My wife becomes irritable, irritable and slovenly after becoming a mother. Doesn’t the father of the child have any responsibility? After get off work, my wife puts aside all social activities and goes home to cook and do laundry for the family. Doesn’t dad have the obligation to share some of the burden? The dispute between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was caused by trivial matters. At this time, the husband did not step forward to stop it in time, but instead added fuel to the conflict. Does he really have to be more indifferent than a stranger? When conflicts arise within the family, it is a sign of cowardice and irresponsibility to actively seek reasonable guidance instead of choosing to remain silent or escape. When a child is born, \”mother and child are safe.\” After the child is born, if the wife and child continue to be safe and happy, then the family will have warmth and vitality. I kind of admire my brother-in-law. He gets home after work every day after seven o\’clock, cooks and feeds the baby. After cleaning up, he chases the baby running around in the living room and pulls off her socks. After washing, he hangs them in the sun, and then puts the babyWipe the down jacket that has been worn for a day with a damp cloth and hang it on the radiator to dry. Before going to bed, wash the baby\’s feet and tell a story. Say softly: Don\’t disturb mom, let mom concentrate on preparing lessons, and dad will accompany you. When a husband\’s identity overlaps with that of a father, only when he grows up quickly and never forgets his original intention can he become the support of his wife and children and truly achieve peace between mother and child. I saw a screenshot on Moments yesterday and was really moved. \”I don\’t allow others to make irresponsible remarks on how my wife takes care of the children, including my parents and my aunts and wives. If anyone doesn\’t like it, huh, then come and take care of it.\” Brother Mighty! Many men are just the opposite of this guy. Not only do they ignore other people’s opinions on the way their wives raise their children, but they also personally supervise and criticize: “You usually do nothing but look after the children, and you shout that you are tired all day long, which is pretentious. !\” \”Did you raise my son so thin and give him grass to eat every day?\” \”You will be depressed if you raise a child. Aren\’t other women like this? You are the only one who is delicate!\”… So, even now, friends The world is obsessed with this man who dotes on his wife, and we are also willing to be criticized. He then came up with a golden sentence: \”Of course others won\’t find it difficult to take care of the child if they have nothing to do.\” Looking at this person\’s awareness, I want to give him a hundred and twenty zans just for his understanding of his wife. Because we understand, we are compassionate. I feel sorry for my wife more than my children. Well, I sincerely hope to be surrounded by more and more model husbands like this in the future. A man\’s care and consideration for his wife will also be imitated by his children. Then this love will become a double part and enter the heart of your children\’s mother. \”The mother and son are safe. When he grows up to be a strong man, there will be one more person in the family who can join forces to fight monsters. Mom is only responsible for leveling up along the way!\” I only hope that in the long years of the three of us to come, what you said can It’s always been true!