There are 4 symptoms of children who are likely to be \”unfilial to their parents\” when they grow up. Parents should know how to prevent them in advance

When chatting with friends, I found that there are quite a few elderly people who don’t have their children around. Some move away from home to get married, while others live in big cities for their careers. Aunt Lin\’s two daughters both work and live in other places. When the old couple were not feeling well, they always took care of each other. It was not until the wife got seriously ill and needed someone to take care of her that they realized that the child was not around. It was so difficult! Fortunately, the two daughters reached an agreement and returned home. This made Aunt Lin feel more relaxed and put a smile on her face. Sister Sun\’s situation is even more sad. After his two sons started working in college, they no longer live with him. The two elderly people were in good health and did not want to hire anyone to do housework, so they lived together in a nursing home. When he was sick, he wanted his son to come back, but he delayed his return until his wife became seriously ill. So sad! I regret not teaching my children to be more filial when they were young. In fact, when children behave in four ways when they are young, they are sending a message that they will be unfilial when they grow up. 01 Children have 4 symptoms and are prone to \”disloyalty to their parents\” when they grow up. Parents should know how to prevent them in advance ① Don\’t leave your mouth if you complain. Children who complain that their parents are incompetent and that their lives are not what they want. When you grow up, you will still use the same way of thinking to face life. It even feels so unfair that I have nothing, but others can prosper. The habit of complaining will only make children lose the power to grow from an early age. ②An attitude towards life without love. Numbness, so terrible. I don\’t see any concern for my parents, I only think about the injustice I have suffered. I can no longer feel the child\’s enthusiasm for life, or even the vitality of fresh life. The cold tone, numb mentality, and indifferent expression all represent the child\’s disappointment and even pessimism about life and himself. ③ I always see that other people’s problems are all the fault of my classmates, which affects my own learning. It\’s all the teacher\’s fault for not taking his own abilities seriously. It\’s all my parents\’ fault for not sending me to a key school. When all you see is negative, you also have negative energy inside. Life is gray, without sunshine and warmth. I am also helpless and cannot feel the beauty of life. When you grow up, when you see that your parents cannot provide you with greater capabilities and a better life, you will think that other people\’s parents are good, allowing their children to have cars and houses, but you have nothing. It is difficult to behave filially if you have a bad attitude towards your parents! ④ Too much hatred. If you suffer a loss, you will immediately retaliate against the other party. When a child is young, parents may think that the child is so powerful that he will not be bullied. However, since childhood, they have hated their classmates, teachers, and children. With inertial thinking, children also hate their parents. When I see my parents getting older, I feel that they are holding me back. When I see that my parents cannot see and need care and companionship, I feel that it is affecting my life. Sister Zhang’s child has always been very hateful since childhood. When Sister Zhang\’s wife was in poor health, she couldn\’t walk up and down stairs. Let the son carry it, but in the end, all the words of accusation and hateful thoughts have made the child\’s ability to love disappear. 02 From the child\’s behavior, you can discover future performance. You can guide your child to be full of positive energy when he is young, and you can become a filial child. First, teach your children to always see the good in others. Learn to look at the advantages, and children will be happy inside!Indifference and numbness are manifestations of not being able to feel happiness and joy! If you want your child to become a happy person, a person who can give love, you need to cultivate the habit of looking at the good qualities of others. If you are more tolerant in your heart, you will be less resentful! The more happiness you have in your heart, the less you will be blamed! Start with small things and practice, and your child will become a person who is willing to give! Secondly, guide children to learn to take care of their parents. Filial piety comes first among all good deeds. Let children know from an early age what their parents like, and they can always dress their parents\’ feelings. Only by teaching children to see their parents\’ hard work can they have unlimited motivation to grow. The child of a friend’s family has learned to cook since he was a child. His parents are ordinary people. They are very tolerant when interacting with others. They are also very gentle to their parents. Their attitude and tone are loving. Children have also learned to take good care of their parents and protect their family and friends with warmth! Finally, become a role model for your children in life. The parents are the originals and the children are the copies. Only by constantly restraining your own behavior, saying words of gratitude, doing filial things, and being a tolerant person can children see the correct role model.