There are less than 3 weeks left, here are the final review methods that moms must know

Thinking about it, the winter vacation exams are only a few days away, and many parents and children around me are still a little nervous. Those who usually have poor grades are worried that they will not do well in the exam this time; those who have good grades are worried that they will not perform well and will not get good grades. A beautiful report card is an affirmation of the child\’s hard work over the past six months, allows the child to experience the joy of \”hard work will be rewarded\”, enhances the child\’s self-confidence, and is very helpful in stimulating the child\’s inner learning motivation; on the other hand, , if you do well in the exam, your children will enjoy the Spring Festival more happily. After all, as soon as the seven aunts and eight aunts meet, they will ask, \”How was the exam?\” So, with less than a month left, how can we help our children adjust their status, straighten their mood, and actively prepare for the exam? Youma consulted a friend who has been teaching for 15 years and compiled the following suggestions. I hope it can help everyone! Regarding review, current primary schools and middle schools rarely spend more than ten or twenty days focusing on review due to course schedule issues. Many schools finish the lectures one week before the exam, then do a few sets of exercises, and then go directly to the final exam. Therefore, if your child\’s grades are average, it is not enough to simply rely on the teacher to lead the review. It is best to work hard at home. So, how do parents guide their children’s review? (1) Basic knowledge In primary school and in the lower grades of junior high school, basic knowledge is basically tested. Many children always have the problem of \”looking simple but making mistakes as soon as they do it\” in exams. Many parents attribute this to \”sloppiness\” and \”not carefulness\”. In fact, this means that the basic knowledge is not firmly grasped. Many questions are a combination of several simple knowledge points. Children find them simple at first glance because they see the knowledge points they are familiar with; and the reason why they are \”sloppy\” is because they have not mastered the remaining knowledge points well. , the consideration is not comprehensive. Therefore, it is false to be \”sloppy\”, but it is true that the foundation is not solid. A better way to systematically review basic knowledge is to sit with your children, open the textbook table of contents, and ask the children to look at the table of contents to recall the knowledge points covered in each chapter. If you encounter something you can\’t remember, turn to the back and look at it, then remember it on the spot. This method is more efficient and more memorable. (2) Composition Composition is a major item in the exam, and it is also a permanent pain for many children. Children in the same class can differ by dozens of points in composition. So, what exactly is the examination essay testing? Is it the ability to create on the spot? Of course not, the composition tests the \”accumulation\” and \”language organization\” abilities. If you remember a lot of things and vocabulary and can express these contents well, writing will not be a problem. The safest and most efficient way to prepare for the essay is to pick out three essays about \”people\”, \”things\” and \”things\” from the essays you usually write, revise them carefully with the help of adults, and then memorize them. (3) Checking each other People always ignore their own shortcomings, but it is especially easy to discover the shortcomings of others. The same goes for children. It is basically useless if you let them sit there and review by themselves, and then reflect on their shortcomings. Moreover, if children sit by themselves for a long time, they will easily become distracted.He looked very honest, but his thoughts had already flown to nowhere. A good way is for friends to check with each other. You ask questions and I answer them. I ask questions and you answer them. This method is particularly effective for content that needs to be memorized. When Youma took the postgraduate entrance examination, she checked with her classmates, and her efficiency was much higher than memorizing it herself. Therefore, review does not necessarily mean sitting at home boringly doing questions and memorizing. You can get together with classmates of the same grade who live nearby and check each other. This way you can master the knowledge without getting tired of your brain. About life (1) Children in lower grades who combine work and rest often have weak concentration and concentration. Not long after finishing their homework, they want to eat fruit, drink yogurt, drink water, and go to the toilet… So, take the test It is more important to help children gradually strengthen their concentration and improve their attention. It would be amazing if you bring the energy you usually put into doing homework into the examination room and perform well. The method recommended by the famous psychological counselor Teacher Fan Wei is: after the child comes home from school, don’t rush to let him do his homework. First, wander around the community or park, ask him what homework he has, and roughly think about what to write first before writing. What. After returning home, let your children finish their chores such as eating fruit, drinking yogurt, and going to the toilet before starting homework or review, and you will never pay attention to other unreasonable requests from your children. (One more thing: Teacher Fan Wei’s attention training class will start on January 9th. Parents who want to improve their children’s attention, don’t forget to read the poster at the end of the article.) For children in higher grades, in The pressure of schoolwork is quite high. After a busy day of classes, your head will be groggy. If you go home and start reviewing immediately, your efficiency will definitely be compromised. Therefore, parents should also pay attention to helping their children adjust. Taking a short walk and talking about interesting topics are all good ways to relax. (2) Don’t stay up late One thing must be emphasized: No matter primary school or middle school, the home of learning must be in the classroom! Reviewing at home is just a supplement, don\’t put the cart before the horse. Some children review until midnight at night and have to get up early the next day. They cannot rest at all and yawn all the time during class. You know, it is often better to listen to the teacher\’s lecture seriously than to do the questions all night. The end of the semester is approaching, and the teacher will definitely point out key points and test points intentionally during the lecture. If the children don\’t listen well and grasp the questions at this time, no matter how many questions they answer after class, it will be in vain. Therefore, don’t let your children stay up late, be more efficient at ordinary times, and get a good rest before the exam. Regarding mentality When it comes to final exams, advance preparation is one thing, and the mentality on the spot cannot be ignored. Child psychology believes that a slightly more nervous mentality than usual is most conducive to test performance; while \”not caring\” or being too anxious will affect performance. Changes in children\’s mentality often come from their parents\’ speech and behavior. Therefore, at this critical moment when the end of the term is approaching, we parents should be more cautious about certain words and behaviors. (1) Don’t blame too much. Many children will inevitably make some low-level mistakes when doing homework or reviewing because they do not have a solid foundation. Once some parents find out, they will blurt out: \”You are a pig.\”Brain? The exam is about to take place, and such a simple question is still wrong! \”Perhaps parents have good intentions, they hate iron and are anxious for their children. But the anxious mentality of parents does not do any good except destroying their children\’s confidence and increasing their pressure. Since we are parents, we have to do Set a positive and positive example, stabilize your mentality, analyze and find the reasons with your child, instead of sarcastic and sarcastic at the child. (2) Do not abuse rewards to \”bribe\” your child\’s performance. \”If you pass the test, mom will give it to you.\” \”Buy a mobile phone\” \”If you pass the exam, dad will take you on a trip\”… These are the motivation methods that most parents have used. Indeed, this simple and straightforward method is effective in the short term, and the children will Try to get an iPhone 7 for a while. But over time, this method will make it more and more difficult for the children to satisfy them. You can only continue to increase the value of the gifts to stimulate the children\’s motivation again; on the other hand, this will Seriously reducing the child\’s interest in learning itself, sooner or later he will \”give up the choice.\” (3) Don\’t always compare with \”other people\’s children\” \”Look at other people\’s XXX, they do so well in the exam every year, let\’s look at you\” \”You can take the exam this year \”Have you ever passed your deskmate?\”… We always think that this kind of \”provoking method\” is effective for children, but in fact, when children hear such words, they become extremely annoyed and want to strangle that \”other people\’s child\”. We Didn\’t you have the same mentality when you were a child? Instead of letting your children compete with \”other people\’s children\”, it is better to let your children compare with yourself. As long as the children have made progress compared with before, they will recognize and praise the children\’s efforts and diligence. This is more It is helpful to improve children\’s self-confidence and enthusiasm. Basic knowledge is the most important, and carelessness is purely an afterthought; memorize 3 essays in advance, and check each other\’s memorization; it is efficient in combining work and rest, staying up late is not harmful to the body; accusing children of being anxious, gifts When is the time for bribery? Keep the above tips in mind and have a good time in this Year of the Rooster!