There is a high probability that the children who end up crippled will be children from poor families.

In the evening, I took Ling\’erbao to see Shen Teng and Ma Li\’s new film \”Catch a Baby\”. The children enjoyed watching it, but I didn\’t like the film very much. I have a premonition that this will be a movie with polarizing reviews. Those who like it will love it very much, and those who hate it will hate it. Compared with ordinary funny movies, this film may still hope that the audience can have some \”thinking\” after laughing, so the first level may be funny, and the second level is about Chinese parents\’ desire to control their children. . But what’s embarrassing is that the Truman world-like parenting style of rich people depicted in this movie is completely the way poor people imagine how rich people educate their children. It feels like that child from a poor family wrote an essay saying that his family is the richest man. , as a result, the richest man\’s living situation that he could imagine was to deposit 100 million in the bus card. But would the richest man deposit 100 million in the bus card? The richest man doesn’t even know how to take the bus. The most intuitive manifestation of this embarrassment is that a rich father like Ma Chenggang in the movie, all he did for his son was to hire a bunch of awesome language and math teachers to write for the college entrance examination, over and over again. The core goal emphasized is the School of Economics and Management of Qingbei University, and you have to take more than 700 exams to get into it. But in reality, is the college entrance examination really the only track for children from such families? Even if I want to go to Qingbei, do I still have to take more than 700 exams? Wouldn’t it be nice to plan an international student identity with a little effort? Moreover, the child obviously loves running so much, but he actually puts anesthetics on the child and asks the doctor to prevent the child from going to sports school. Can\’t he become a national athlete at several levels and then enter Qingbei as a student with special talents? Therefore, the seemingly extremely great and awesome educational environment created by this movie is completely the ultimate imagination of a poor man, because only the poor think so pathologically and value grades so narrowly. Only Qingbei is the only path to success. There are always some poor people who feel that many rich people are stupid and have too much money. But based on the limited number of rich people I have come into contact with in real life, I really feel that the reason why rich people are rich is really It makes sense, wealth and wisdom really go hand in hand to a large extent. On the contrary, only the poor are really stupid, and it is precisely because people are stupid that they never have much money, including myself. However, the ignorant poor people may feel that their children are not good enough after reading it, probably because they are unable to hire so many \”experts\” for their children to build such a virtual teaching environment, so they can only make their children \”hardship\” even harder. I bite the bullet and hire more expensive tutors for my children. I heard a parent chat with me once and found it incredible. A family with a total monthly income of only 5,000 yuan actually spends 3,500 yuan a month on hiring a tutor for their children to make up for cultural lessons. , probably such parents will think that children from other wealthy families have to \”study hard\”, and of course their own children cannot be left behind. But in reality, children of rich people will never be bullied for picking up bottles, because children of rich people will most likely not be in the same space as children of poor people. Since there is no intersection, there is no way to compare them. And even if they accidentally appear in a space, those children will be truly comprehensive in the real world.Status crushes ordinary children. Because of my work, I have come into contact with many rich second-generation children. What are these children doing? Some parents travel around the world to study, learn French in French-speaking countries, and learn diving in coastal cities; some get up at six o\’clock every day to practice physical fitness, and have participated in world-class golf events at a young age; some are organizing various events. A global charity event, giving speeches to thousands of people in fluent English at United Nations conferences, teenagers are already doing things to change the world. So perhaps the funniest thing about this movie is that after watching it, the poor people secretly rejoice that the children raised by the rich and those raised by the rich end up useless, but the fact is that the rich do not raise their children this way at all. of. But movies will never tell you how rich people raise their children, because once they tell you the truth, you will find that this distance is insurmountable, and you will be powerless and confused, because the distance between No matter how much you run, you can\’t catch up. And after you understand the truth, do you still have the motivation to make money by being a bully and a horse? Will you still tighten your belt and buy a house in a school district? Will you still sign up your children for various classes? Then everything will be shattered all at once, and the rich certainly don’t want this. The rich hope that you will still regard the rich as fools as always, and hope that you will still live in the fantasy that hard work can change your destiny, so that they It can squeeze every bit of your efforts into a brick in the pyramid, and then the tower will get higher and higher, but this tower has nothing to do with you, because you are just a brick. So running is not because you are running slowly, but because you are not on the same track at all, so the final reality is that the most likely to be ruined are the children from poor families. Now let’s talk about my children, because a while ago my husband’s company boss suddenly ran away with his money, and my husband suddenly lost his job without any warning. Then I have been sick this year and haven’t worked, and because of rheumatoid joint pain, I can’t walk. Often limping. After watching the movie, my daughter asked me and my father, \”Dad, did you lie to me when you said you didn\’t have a job? In fact, our family has always been rich, right? And mom, your legs really hurt when you walk.\” Does it hurt? Aren\’t you just pretending like the grandma in the movie? You went to play basketball when I wasn\’t home?\” My father and I burst out laughing after hearing this. So you see, these are children from poor families, this is what reality is like, and this is the funniest thing about this movie. Therefore, rich parents will never try their best to trick their children into saying that the family has no money. Only poor parents will try their best to give their children the appearance that everything is still okay even when they are in the most desperate situation. Raise such a silly and innocent child. But what should we do if we face reality? I remember what the father played by Jia Bing in the movie said, since we don’t lack arms or legs, then life will definitely not be like this.