These 4 types of health education knowledge must be indispensable and worth learning by all parents

Two days ago, Chenma came across a video on Weibo of \”Primary school students treat their parents to dinner with their first salary\” and was deeply touched. In the video, the little girl worked in her own store during the summer vacation. She worked for a total of 9 days and received her first salary of \”180\” yuan in her life. After getting the money, the little girl didn\’t think about buying snacks or clothes for herself. She turned around and treated her parents to a meal. During the meal, the family of three enjoyed themselves happily and clinked glasses from time to time to celebrate. At the end of the checkout, when the father asked the girl if she felt distressed, the little girl said with a smile on her face: \”The money I earn is spent for you.\” At that moment, the whole Internet was warmed up by this little girl. She is really a little angel. What parent doesn’t want such a \”caring little cotton-padded jacket\”~ It is said that the girl’s parents wanted their children to experience making money. It’s not easy, but I didn’t expect that the child not only did well, but also knew how to “crow feeds back”. Treating them to dinner with my first salary was really an unexpected and surprising harvest~ In response, many netizens did not hesitate to praise: Oh my God, if this was my little cotton-padded jacket, I would burst into tears on the spot. , this is what broke my heart! A good girl with filial piety must have a good family education and atmosphere… After watching this video, everyone is asking these parents: How on earth did they raise such a good child? In fact, there is no unified standard for excellence, but as long as parents are willing to work hard and give their children a tolerant and loving environment to grow up, they can all thrive and shine. Give children appropriate \”hardship\” training. In recent years, hardship education has become popular. With the mentality of training their children, many parents have begun to consciously train their children\’s comprehensive abilities. Regarding this point, Chenma also agrees, because if you haven’t really tempered your mind, how can you be brave enough to cut through the waves? How can flowers that have been growing in a greenhouse face the wind and rain outside alone? Therefore, enduring hardship is not the goal, but training children’s independent qualities is the ultimate meaning. Moreover, the so-called hardship education is not to endure hardship for the sake of hardship, but to equip children with the ability to endure hardship and stand hard work. In the face of difficulties and setbacks, they choose to face them bravely instead of cowardly and avoid them. I really like what my best friend does about this. She will not specifically let her children endure hardships, but will only train her children\’s independent qualities in every bit of life. For example, in daily life, she will never develop the habit of \”opening her mouth for food and reaching for clothes\”, and will guide her children to explore and do things within their ability. When her children\’s exams and grades are not satisfactory, she never combats anxiety, but allows them to overcome setbacks and become more courageous. She usually takes her children to do some social practice during the winter and summer vacations, and takes them to experience the different nature. Life… It is these long-term \”hardship\” education that give children the courage and confidence to soar, allowing them to not be afraid of the wind and rain ahead and move forward indomitably. Therefore, letting children endure hardship is actually laying a solid foundation for their future! Teach your children to be grateful. As a parent, your greatest wish is to raise a child who knows how to be grateful. This is not only a comfort to yourself, but also cultivates the good qualities of your child. but realityIn life, parents tend to be child-centered, doing everything for their children and taking care of their children\’s affairs, but they forget to teach their children the right to be grateful and to give. But too much is not enough. If a parent\’s love is too strong and the more they give, the more easily they will encourage their children to feel worthy, and they often fail to raise grateful children. Just like Mrs. Wang who lives on the top floor in the hit TV series \”Only Thirty\”, she \”can take on anything for her son, and she can also let go of anything.\” She will spend more money to send her children to the best schools, and let them learn whatever is fashionable; she will also want to buy the right to name an asteroid as a coming-of-age gift for her son… But the more she pays, the more her children and her children will learn. The more the distance gradually deepens, the more the children will turn against their mothers for their low education. To highlight the key point, loving children is not about giving blindly. The important thing is to let children understand the importance of gratitude and giving while giving. Only in this way can we cultivate an excellent and grateful child. Allowing children to make mistakes Chen\’s mother has always agreed with a saying: Allowing children to make mistakes actually gives them a chance to grow. Because behind the insistence on not letting children make mistakes, there are parents who severely reprimand them again and again and are as cautious as walking on thin ice with their children. If things continue like this, children will definitely lack the courage to try, and their own sense of security will also be lacking. I remember actor Xiao Tao Hong once shared a story. Her daughter accidentally spilled the milk. She couldn\’t hold it back and yelled at the child: \”What\’s wrong with you?\” When her daughter heard this, she was stunned. He stood there motionless and looked at his mother, too scared to speak or cry. Seeing her daughter\’s frightened look, Xiao Tao Hong realized that her emotions were too great and she should not leave an impression on her daughter that her mother would not allow \”me\” to make mistakes. After that, little Tao Hong read many parenting books and began to reflect and change herself, hoping to give her children sufficient support and trust. Later, when her daughter accidentally broke something again, little Tao Hong did not blame her for the first time. Instead, she hugged the child and comforted her softly: \”Are you scared? It\’s okay.\” It was such simple actions and words that made her daughter speak out. She cried because she found a sense of security in her mother and the confidence that she could make mistakes. Making mistakes is not scary, but what is scary is everyone’s attitude towards making mistakes. Only by allowing children to make mistakes and letting them try more can they continue to grow and progress! There is no doubt about accepting the imperfection of children. Every child has placed countless expectations on its parents. But when expectations are excessive, they will also become shackles that restrict children from growing up and flying high. Because many times, the so-called expectations of parents are to let their children carry their own dreams that have never been realized and let them help realize them. And when a child\’s performance is unsatisfactory or there is something missing, parents\’ disappointment is palpable. But in fact, only by accepting children\’s imperfections can children truly be themselves, find their own shining points, and continue to shine. Just like the male protagonist in the movie \”Call Me Number One\”, he suffered from Tourette\’s syndrome since he was a child. His hands and feet would move uncontrollably and he would make strange screams. He received strange looks from teachers and classmates around him, and even his father was disappointed with him. only hisHis mother accepted his imperfections and always encouraged him not to be knocked down easily, to be brave enough to be himself and to pursue his dreams. Although the male protagonist was unable to defeat the disease in the end, he succeeded in pursuing his dream through his own efforts, and he also built his own happy family and lived a happy life. Chenma hopes that every parent can be like the mother in the movie, not eager to deny their children, and teach their children to bravely pursue their dreams, face the storms of life, and live their own wonderful lives. The road to raising children is long, and every step is a practice for parents. I hope that every parent can continue to make progress and grow on this path of spiritual practice, and become better versions of themselves with their children, becoming a strong support for each other. Let’s encourage everyone!