These 7 times of support from parents have given their children a bright future!

Did you know? The world of children is actually very small, so small that in their eyes, we parents are all they rely on and are their heaven and earth. Every time we stand up to support our children, even a small gesture, such as patting them on the shoulder or saying a warm and encouraging word, can leave a deep mark on the child\’s heart. These small gestures are like putting a sweet candy in the children\’s hearts, making them feel loved and supported. Children will encounter various difficulties and challenges as they grow up. At these times, what they need most is the understanding and support of us parents. A hug, a affirmative look, and a word of encouragement from us can bring infinite power to our children. For the first time, the toys that support our children are snatched away by other children. At this time, we must become our children\’s strong backing. [Emotional identification] \”Baby, your toy was taken away, you must feel aggrieved and sad, right?\” [Solution] \”Remember, you have the right to get your toy back. If you don\’t want to let others play with it, You have to speak up bravely. You can tell the other person, this is my toy, please return it to me. If he doesn\’t listen, you can take it back yourself, or ask your parents for help, and your parents will support you.\” The second time we support our children is they are teased by others. At this time, we have to teach them how to affirm themselves. [Emotional identification] \”Baby, you must feel very angry and sad when others make fun of you, right?\” [Confirm yourself] \”Others\’ ridicule does not mean there is anything wrong with you. It\’s just because they have different views. This is their problem. We can\’t please everyone, but the most important thing is that you have to like yourself. No matter what happens, you have to remember that your parents will always love you and support you. \”The third time. Support children who are being bullied. At this time, we must stand up and help them seek justice. [Emotional identification] \”Baby, when someone bullies you, you must feel particularly wronged and angry, right? Come, let mom hug you.\” [Solution] \”If someone bullies you, you have to speak up and speak out bravely, Tell them that this is wrong and you are angry. If the other person hits you, you have to fight back bravely. Remember, your parents are always your strongest backing! If you think the other person is too strong and you can\’t deal with it, it doesn\’t matter. You tell your parents and we will help you get justice.\” The fourth time I supported my child and was reprimanded in front of everyone, at this time, we had to stand up and stop him in time. [Stop in time] \”I am the mother of the child. If the child has any problems, we can communicate privately.\” [Emotional comfort] Take the child away from the scene. This can prevent the situation from deteriorating further and protect the child\’s dignity. Find a quiet place and gently say to your child: \”Baby, do you feel particularly embarrassed and sad when you are scolded in front of so many people?\” Next, you can further ask your child about their feelings: \” Do you think I was right to say that about you?\” Questions like this can guide children to express their opinions and help them learn to judge right from wrong. The fifth time I supported my child was denied by others, at this time, we must stand up in time to affirm their value. [Emotional identification] \”Baby, if others deny you, you may feel a little frustrated and sad, right?\” [Affirmative value] \”Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, which is normal. We can continue to learn and improve. , but no matter what others say about you, remember, mom and dad think you are unique. We love you unconditionally, because of you, our life is happier.\” The sixth time I supported my child was criticized by the teacher. We have to give them positive feedback and support. [Emotional soothing] \”Baby, you may find it a little hard to accept the teacher\’s criticism of you, right? This is normal. Mom can understand your feelings.\” [Positive feedback] \”The teacher directly points out your problem, which may make you feel uncomfortable at that time.\” I understand that you feel uncomfortable. But you have to believe that the teacher’s original intention is to make you better, right? What do you think you can do to make yourself better in the future? When things are forced to be shared, we must respect their choice. [Emotional soothing] \”Baby, if someone asks you to share something, do you feel particularly uncomfortable?\” [Full respect] \”This is your thing. How you decide is entirely up to you. You can choose to share it, or you can choose Don’t share. No matter what choice you make, remember, your parents will support you. “Our support means a lot to your children. It is precisely because of the support and encouragement we give at critical moments that children can \”raise their heads\” and bravely face various challenges in life. With our support, children can grow into courageous people who are not afraid of difficulties and dare to pursue their dreams; grow into responsible people who know how to take responsibility for their own actions and contribute to society; grow into people with independent ideas , able to think independently and form their own opinions. Our support is a solid backing for children on their growth path. It lets children know that no matter what they encounter, mom and dad will stand with them and face it together. This kind of support is not only material, but also spiritual. Let your children know that no matter what happens outside, there is still a beam of light shining on the road ahead of them.