These four types of children are born to be “academic masters”, you must not ignore them

Mom, why is my math book missing? Mom, where is my schoolbag? Mom, where did you put the things you need to take with you when you go out tomorrow? There are often children like this who rely on their parents for everything and never look for problems on their own. Their test scores are basically at the bottom. We basically call them \”scumbags\”. But there are also children who are born as \”students\” who are good at learning and sensible. For example, parents must focus on cultivating these four types of children and don\’t ignore them! Independent children always do not need adults to worry too much. They arrange things in an orderly manner by themselves, have their own set of principles, and know how to abide by the rules and not cross the line. He also knows how to help his family members share the burden, just like a little adult! Mom, after I finish my homework, I will watch TV for half an hour and then go to bed! Mom, I\’ve finished eating and am going to do my homework! Mom, it\’s time, I\’m going to bed! Mom, there are extracurricular activities tomorrow, I will go and sort out the things I need to bring! Mom, let me help you with this, I can do it! Not only that, independent children will also take the initiative to share the work with teachers and help classmates solve problems in school. They also know how to take the initiative to learn, discover problems from themselves, and improve them, so it is easier to become a top student! Children will one day spread their wings and fly to the wider world, just like \”when a bird grows up, it will fly out of the cage to find food alone\”, so parents must also learn to let go in time. Let your children learn to do their own things from an early age and not do everything, but they will grow faster. Strong concentration. Experts have conducted surveys and found that those who concentrate on their work often achieve outstanding results; while those who are constantly distracted will not achieve satisfactory results. Children with strong concentration tend to spend more energy on a certain thing and can persist for a long time without giving up. There was a student in my class whose performance impressed me deeply! While all the classmates around him were playing around, he was the only one sitting in his seat motionless doing Mathematical Olympiad problems. Ten minutes later, I saw his frown became relieved and he smiled happily! I asked him: \”When you were doing the questions, if you didn\’t feel that the classmates next to you were disturbing you, would it be wrong?\” Student: \”When I was doing the questions, I only noticed the questions and not the people around me. But teacher, this I finally solved the problem, look!\” This student later became the first in the grade, and the students in the class also followed his example and learned from him! Children with strong concentration are not only very focused on learning, but also focused on completing everything they like, so the results are very good. The reason why the well-known Marie Curie was able to achieve such great achievements in science is because she was a dedicated person throughout her life. So when parents are concentrating on doing things, parents just need to remember not to disturb them and let them immerse themselves in it silently! Active thinking, flexible and changeable Children with the age of kid always give people the impression that they are very clever and have many ideas when encountering problems. In fact, this is because they have active thinking, can draw inferences from one instance, and consider problems flexibly without being rigid. When I was in class one time, when I was talking about a topic, a student suddenly expressed doubts and said that there should be a better solution to this problem! \”Teacher, the question you just talked about I wrote in a previous bookI accidentally saw it in a book. The solution you mentioned can also give you the answer, but it is more complicated! I have a simpler solution that also yields the correct answer! \”Sure enough, his solution was indeed simpler and more convenient than mine. I also adopted his ideas, and I got new ideas in the subsequent teaching and got more problem-solving methods! Such children usually have problems in later life. He must be a creative character with active ideas. He often has different perspectives and gets unexpected surprises! Therefore, when parents face this kind of child, they should support his ideas and encourage practice. They must not attack or deny him. Obliterating his creative thinking. Neat desks. Usually in a class, you will find that the desks of children who study well are generally cleaner and neater than those of children who study poorly. But it cannot be said that children with untidy desks are better. He must not be good at studying, but the relative proportion is relatively low. I once chatted with a student in our class and asked her: \”Your desk is so neat. It seems that you like to organize it very much!\” Unexpectedly, her answer made my eyes light up: \”Actually, I want to find the books I want quickly during class, because I can see where they are placed at a glance after they are organized, which is very trouble-free!\” \”Once when I was chatting with her parents, they said that she also organized her room very well at home and knew how to plan, which saved them a lot of worry! In fact, a neat desk is a good study habit and she has strong planning skills, so in You can get twice the result with half the effort when studying, and it will be easier to study! So if parents want to improve their children\’s academic performance, they might as well start by tidying up their desks. A neat desk will also improve learning efficiency a lot! Of course, if you want to become a top student, it will be more Most of it depends on the hard work of the child. Although it cannot replace the child\’s learning, it can help the child learn to learn and become a top student! In addition, parents are their children\’s best teachers, so parents should also set an example and teach their children a good study example!