This 4-year-old girl has great things to say about determination and change

1. Persistence, but not demanding. We always think that when we make a decision, we must implement it immediately. If we delay and then implement it, we are not strong enough. We also always think that we only have one chance to change our decision. If we fail this time, we will lose confidence. The little girl tells you: \”Keep firm on your determination, but don\’t be too hard on yourself and relax.\” After changing your mind, please keep a calm mind. Always remind yourself what your goals are, but don’t rush for success and move forward step by step. 2. Change is the accumulation of details. Change is often not achieved suddenly at one moment. \”It happens gradually in countless small moments.\” When we want to get better, it’s smart to break the goal into smaller, more specific actions. Maybe they are far from your \”grand goal\”, but the accumulation of small details will eventually bring about substantial changes. 3. What moments have made you a better person? What the little girl said are actually manifestations of high emotional intelligence: learn to forgive and love, do things without arrogance or impatience, face various events calmly, be grateful, jump out of the comfort zone and enter the learning zone, trust others… think about you before choosing What kind of self are we looking forward to, and we take advantage of every opportunity to choose. When we work hard to make choices with high emotional intelligence, we are one step closer to that better self. 3. How to face failure? There is more than one chance to change, and countless moments can lead to a better version of yourself. Since making up your mind to change is not a one-and-done deal, then, when our determination is wavering, when we still don\’t get better despite our efforts, positivity and optimism are the best medicine. Just like the little girl said: \”You still have thousands of countless little moments waiting for you\”, it doesn\’t matter, let\’s try again! Life is the change brought about by countless shining little moments! In 2017, let go of the ambitions you had when you made up your mind to change in the past, feel every moment and moment, and make seemingly insignificant but highly emotionally intelligent choices. Your better self should be waiting for you at the other end of time! For the complete video, please watch it under wifi environment