This is the kind of kid who will be the most hopeless in 10 years!

Two days ago, I went back to my hometown and heard that my neighbor’s son, Xiaojun, had resigned again. In the first year after graduating from college, Xiaojun worked as an intern in a decent public institution. He received meal tickets every month, big gift packages every holiday, and a generous year-end bonus. He basically had no food expenses and was envied by his neighbors. endless gaze. Later, Xiaojun called home every two days and said, \”Dad, I\’m too tired. I only get a salary of more than 3,000 yuan. I don\’t want to work anymore. I can\’t do it anywhere. I have to be stuck here!\” Xiaojun\’s father didn\’t want to do it at first! He cared about it and comforted him: \”Son, you have only been here for more than ten days. Just keep holding on and you will get better slowly.\” Unexpectedly, after more than ten fierce arguments and compromises, one morning, Xiaojun took it upon himself to talk to the department director. No one was notified when he applied for resignation. By the time Xiaojun’s father found out, it was already too late! Before leaving, the director left a message for Xiaojun: \”I know you are young, energetic and arrogant, but if you give up this opportunity, it will be gone, and there will be no regrets!\” After that, he changed three or four jobs in a row. Either the salary is low or the benefits are not good enough. One person is jealous of the overseas travel benefits offered by his classmate’s company, while the other person is jealous of his playmate’s high salary of over 10,000 yuan per month. They also complain that other people’s families are rich and have many connections, but they are not as good as themselves. The difference is that he came from a bad background… Now, going around and around, people are living a prosperous life, but Xiaojun is losing his temper day by day. Until now, he is just a child in the body of an adult. He is unwilling to endure hardships and strives to make progress. Know how to complain that your background is not good enough! But is there any shortcut to study and work? If you don’t pay anything and just want to achieve great results, isn’t that just a daydream? Every decision a person makes now and every effort he makes affects himself ten years from now. Now you are lazy and playful, and you are building up your future self bit by bit. However, except that time can prove this, no one can provide evidence to tell you: You will have no future! Tell your children: You don’t have to be excellent, but you can’t not work hard. Some time ago, an article about Tsinghua’s top academics spread across the circle of friends: “Tsinghua’s top academics: 10 pieces of advice for primary school students! It’s too late to see it in junior high school.” The protagonist in the article, Xiao Yang, was a top student who got admitted to Tsinghua University with high scores last year. He was also my student. When Xiaoyang first learned that he was admitted to Tsinghua University, he was very proud. But when he registered at university, he discovered that the scores he was proud of were almost at the bottom of Tsinghua University. The boy who studied best in his class got up early every day and found a quiet place to memorize English. It was also at that moment that Xiao Yang clearly realized: In this competitive society, the most terrifying thing is not that others are smarter than you, but that people who are smarter than you work harder than you! Teacher Chen Qi from the Chinese Academy of Sciences has been emphasizing that no matter how much we love our children, they will have to face the turmoil of society alone sooner or later when sharing with parents in the parents’ must-read lecture. Society is much crueler than family. No one will tolerate children\’s playfulness and laziness again and again like mothers do. For a child, the most terrifying and demoralizing thing is laziness and avoidance: when you go to school, you won’t do homework if it’s difficult, and if you practice piano if it’s hard, you won’t do it.Not practicing; when working, full of grumbling and complaining. In the end, others are taking one step at a time and growing well, but he himself continues to live day by day… When he was in school, he didn\’t do the homework if it was difficult, and he was lazy when he studied hard. After work, I am full of grumbles and complaints, and I don’t want to make progress. So what will be waiting for the children in the future? While everyone else is taking one step at a time and growing up well, only I, like a monk hitting the clock every day… It’s scary to think about it! For a child, the most terrifying and demoralizing thing is laziness and avoidance. When parents see their children suffering in studies, they will become soft-hearted and often tolerate him being lazy and cheating. However, you must know that society is 100 times crueler than the family. When the time comes, no one in society will tolerate him again and again. No matter how much we love our children, sooner or later they have to face the turmoil of society alone. Only by working hard now can you live effortlessly in the future. If you are greedy for enjoyment when you should be studying, then there will be greater difficulties waiting for you in the future. Just like what Cai Kangyong said in his book: When you were 15 years old, you found swimming difficult and gave up swimming. When you were 18 years old and met someone you liked and asked you to go swimming, you had to say \”I can\’t do it.\” When you were 18 years old, you thought English was difficult and gave up on English. When you were 28 years old, a great job came up but required you to speak English, so you had to say, \”I can\’t do it.\” The more troublesome you are in the early stages of life and the less lazy you are to learn, the more likely you are to miss out on the people and things that interest you and the new scenery later on. No matter how much we love our children, we must teach them the meaning of hard work, so that children can develop the habit of being self-reliant from an early age, be independent and responsible, and work hard to make progress without looking back. Remember, only the road dug with your own hands is the most meaningful!