This is the kind of kid who will be the most hopeless in 10 years! Don\’t blame me for not reminding you

I accidentally offended a cousin-in-law. She first scolded me in front of my mother for being \”unrelative\” and \”looking down on people.\” Then she said something wrong about me in front of relatives back home: \”Grandma is a jerk. She came to my house when she was a child. Come on, I\’ll give her some peach cakes to eat. Now that I\’m more capable, I don\’t even do a favor, I just look like a wolf…\” The cause of the matter was that her daughter Xiaohui graduated from college this year and found out that our company was recruiting people. Just want me to help arrange a job to do first. After meeting, I asked Xiaohui: \”I heard that you are interning at a book publishing company. Isn\’t it good? Why do you want to change?\” \”Hey, you are paid just over 2,500 yuan a month. If you make a small mistake, you will be deducted.\” ! I want to change my job to make more money.\” \”If you improve your abilities more, won\’t you be able to work your way up slowly when you become a regular employee? Maybe you can even get promoted.\” \”You don\’t know, we have a group of people Middle-aged men and women are all waiting to be promoted to team leaders. How can I survive them?\” \”Nowadays, there are many college students starting businesses. Have you ever thought about starting something of your own?\” \”Last year, I followed the trend and started an online store. Facial masks, no one buys them, they have gone bankrupt… It’s too much trouble, I don’t want to touch them anymore.” “It’s a good time to take the entrance examination for a public institution just after graduation, while I still have the enthusiasm to study!” “I would like to, but I don’t have time. I work during the day and want to do something of my own at night…\” After a few conversations, I almost figured out the child\’s current state. I don\’t own the company, so I really can\’t recruit someone who is full of complaints and doesn\’t want to make progress. So, I declined Xiaohui politely, and somehow offended their family, which led to the incident at the beginning of the article. A good-for-nothing child who wants to succeed but doesn’t want to work hard. When I first graduated, I was in a similar state to Xiaohui. I was always envious of other people’s high wages, good bags, and beautiful shoes, but I couldn’t bear the suffering of others. So, within 2 years of graduation, I changed 6 jobs. The first job was teaching English in a tutoring school. After only a few weeks of staying there, I found out that this school was really annoying. The salary was over 1,000 points, and I had to tutor children and be responsible for a lot of errands in the office, so I just left. My second job is as a consultant at an online school. I do two things every day: go to the school gate in the morning and promote our courses to parents one by one; in the afternoon I sit in a crowded office and make phone calls to sell courses. In this kind of job, rejection and scolding were commonplace. I really couldn\’t stand it, so I just left. The third job is as a proofreader in a publishing company. The company required that the two manuscripts must be exactly the same, so we stared at them every day and read them word by word, not even a single punctuation mark was wrong. I couldn\’t stand such boring, mechanical, lack of growth, so I continued to walk away… In the following days, while changing jobs, I complained about my bad life, being born in a family with no power. When I moved to my sixth job, two years had passed. In the past two years, the colleague who was not as good as me in the first job became the principal of the branch school and no longer taught in person. He was in charge of more than 20 employees; the post-90s junior I met in the second job Sister, I learned publicity skills from the company, I set up an online school and earned less than 300,000 yuan a year; the peers I met at my third job switched from proofreading to product planning, and their salary doubled… And I just found my sixth job, The basic salary is only 2,000 yuan. It was from that moment that I suddenly realized that if I had set my sights on the direction and worked hard, I would definitely not be where I am now. Tell your children: You don’t have to be outstanding, but you can’t not work hard. Some time ago, an article about Tsinghua’s top academics spread across the circle of friends (click on the blue title to view it directly): “Tsinghua’s top academics: 10 pieces of advice for primary school students! It\’s too late to see it in junior high school.\” The protagonist in the article, Xiao Yang, was a top student who got admitted to Tsinghua University with high scores last year, and was also my student. When Xiaoyang first learned that he was admitted to Tsinghua University, he was very proud. But when he registered at university, he discovered that the scores he was proud of were almost at the bottom of Tsinghua University. The boy who studied best in his class got up early every day and found a quiet place to memorize English. It was also at that moment that Xiao Yang clearly realized: In this competitive society, the most terrifying thing is not that others are smarter than you, but that people who are smarter than you work harder than you! Teacher Chen Qi from the Chinese Academy of Sciences has been emphasizing that no matter how much we love our children, they will have to face the turmoil of society alone sooner or later when sharing with parents in the parents’ must-read lecture. Society is much crueler than family. No one will tolerate children\’s playfulness and laziness again and again like mothers do. For a child, the most terrifying and demoralizing thing is laziness and avoidance: when going to school, he will not do the homework if it is difficult, and he will not practice the piano if it is hard; when he is working, he will be full of complaints and complaints. In the end, others are taking one step at a time and growing up well, but he himself continues to live day by day… So, children, it is acceptable to not be outstanding and have poor grades, but the only thing that cannot be accepted is not working hard. !