This type of happy education will ruin your children

As the epidemic is about to pass, various places are gradually resuming work, and the start of schools has also been put on the agenda. Although there is no clear time for the start of school, I believe that all mothers are already looking forward to this – sending their children to kindergartens and primary schools as soon as possible. Because during the epidemic, their children have been causing trouble at home and playing every day besides going to class. Some mothers even began to worry that if this continues, their children will definitely not be able to keep up with other children after school starts. Of course, there are also some parents who do not pay attention to these, but feel that this is a good opportunity to instill \”happy education\” in their children. Suzulan\’s mother strongly disapproves of \”happy education\” because this kind of education is harmful to children and does no good at all. This kind of education under the banner of \”happy education\” is actually a \”free-range\” model for children, which does not even provide education and guidance to children at all. It relies entirely on the children\’s nature and allows them to grow freely on their own. When children grow up, they lack not only the motivation to learn, but also cognitive errors, and may even turn to crime. [Illustrated Collector\’s Edition] Download the electronic version of Spencer\’s complete book on Happy Education. Therefore, the family education instructor reminds all mothers: Never believe in any \”happy education\”, this kind of education will only destroy your children! Last year, there was such a news trending on Weibo: In a hot pot restaurant in Wuxi, Jiangsu, customers were dining and a child was running around in the aisle. The child\’s mother followed slowly, without scolding or stopping this non-compliance with the rules. The child ran around a corner and bumped into the waiter who was serving food. The waiter was holding a pot of grilled fish. The child\’s forehead was pressed against the iron pot and he was immediately burned in many places. After the incident, the child\’s parents did not go through legal proceedings. Shishi Dakou and the store demanded 390,000 yuan in compensation: \”It doesn\’t matter whether it\’s money or not. Whose child was burned to such a degree that it\’s not worth 390,000 yuan?\” Such parents not only He completely shied away the responsibility for failing to discipline his children, and instead wanted to use this matter to extort money from the store. This kind of parents really failed in educating their children! They feel that children\’s nature is higher than rules, and all rules must give way to children\’s nature. They believe that children are naturally active, so they can run, make trouble, and make unbridled noises. In China, more and more children are ignoring the rules, and more and more tragedies are happening as a result. Only children who abide by the rules will be loved by the world and win everyone\’s respect. A few months ago, it was reported on the Internet that a murder occurred in Longhui, Hunan: a 73-year-old grandmother was killed in front of her home. The police solved the case in less than 5 hours: What is even more embarrassing is that the suspect turned out to be Only 13 years old, still a child. That afternoon, the child stayed near the old woman\’s house and was scolded by the old woman. As a result, the child became angry, picked up a knife placed at the door, stabbed the old man on the head, and then took away all the money from the old man. . A similar incident occurred in Shaodong, not far from Longhui: On October 18, 2015, three left-behind children discussed going to Xinlian Primary School for a walk. Since it was a holiday that day, the school was closed.The door was closed tightly, and the three of them climbed over the wall and entered. After entering the school, they pried open the door of the canteen and stole some food. Unexpectedly, they were discovered by the female teacher on duty. Out of fear, the three children beat the female teacher to death with wooden sticks. The next day, the public security organs arrested the three children. These news made Suzulan\’s mother particularly emotional. The children who suffered these incidents were all left-behind children. They were considered the most complete free-range children. Their parents worked in big cities, and only the elders at home took care of the children. However, the elders cannot control these children. It can be said that these children have the most complete release of their nature. What is the final result? Not only did the children fail to succeed, but because of lack of education, they ended up breaking the law! There is a devil hidden in the heart of every child. Without restraint and discipline, unconditional release and release will only make the child go further and further down the wrong path. The consequence of releasing nature is that it is easy for children to turn into naughty children that everyone hates. The source of these evils is the irresponsible discipline of parents and the happy education that believes in \”releasing nature\”. At about noon on March 27, two children were riding an elevator in a community in Zhengzhou, Henan. One of the children had a sudden idea and tried to do stretching exercises in the elevator. He supported the wall with his hands and pressed his feet against the elevator door. , and then push hard. Unexpectedly, the safety door on the inside of the elevator suddenly flew out, and the main control panel of the elevator was ejected from the wall. If it were not protected by the outer wall, the consequences would be disastrous. What\’s even more unexpected is that after the incident, the naughty child\’s mother not only failed to realize her child\’s mistake, but forwarded the surveillance video to the owner group, asking unreasonably: Is this elevator made of paper? If you want to talk about real estate, you have to thank my son? Even if the child did such an outrageous thing, she still thought that the child was just having fun and made an unintentional mistake, but she never reflected on what the problem was and just blamed others. Behind every naughty child, there must be incompetent parents. They chose to close their eyes to their children\’s willfulness and ignorance, and also chose to give up their responsibilities as parents. They certainly didn\’t expect that behind the herding, there must be bears and willfulness, without exception. Although we have different parenting methods, the family environment is also very important in parenting education. For us parents, the kind of environment we pave the way for our children will determine the kind of children they will become. Sometimes we don’t have to envy other people’s children for being sensible and successful. What we should do is reflect on ourselves and provide a good growth environment for our children. Raising children is a lifelong career for parents. Only by constantly improving themselves and providing the best environment for their children can we create promising children!