Those men who like to be tired from taking care of children are the most charming!

A man is most lovable when he is with his children. Sometimes, the stern man would seem to be a different person the moment he saw the child. It\’s like being enchanted. I still remember one time I had a friend’s wedding drink. While waiting next to the hall, there was a man with shiny hair and a thick gold chain hanging around his neck. With a straight face, he smoked a cigarette. No one wanted to get close to him in the smoke. I also subconsciously moved back a few seats to avoid secondhand smoke. Not long after, I saw him quickly get up and put out the cigarette. Looking around, a little girl of three or four years old ran towards him. \”Dad, Dad!\” \”Here it comes! Dad is here.\” He was smiling all over his face. Then he hugged the child and placed him gently on the stool. He also tilted up the two stool legs in front and gently rocked the child, as if riding a horse. It can be seen that the child should play this game with his father often and not be afraid at all. I felt much closer to this man for a moment. You see, he is also a daughter slave! If a man likes to take care of children or likes to be close to children, I always think he is cute. Such people tend to love children and family. You would definitely want to be close to such a person. In June this year. Andy Lau wore a light khaki suit and attended his daughter\’s kindergarten graduation ceremony. Sitting in the audience, Andy Lau is just an ordinary father who loves his daughter passionately. When his daughter comes on stage, he stares at the stage with a crazy smile on his face, for fear of missing any wonderful moments. Seeing that scene, I felt very close to him, because he is a father who loves his daughter, not a star who is above others. Therefore, whenever someone mentions Andy Lau again, I will think of the image of him standing in the kindergarten gymnasium attending his daughter\’s graduation ceremony. Because he is the most charming to me at this moment. (Andy Lau attended his daughter’s kindergarten graduation ceremony, picture source: Internet) Whether he is a celebrity dad or an ordinary dad. The moment of raising a child is almost universal. Because in the eyes of children, the identity of the father is not important. And we will not give our children different love because of our identity. You should feel the same way when you hold your child\’s hand. This is why fathers with their children are so charming! I still remember a scene I encountered in the park a long time ago. A dad rides his own specially made bicycle. Carrying his two daughters, he walked through the streets swayed by the breeze in summer. Years from now, they will definitely remember the days of riding with their dad. It\’s like I always remember the feeling of my grandma carrying me to school when I was little. Now that I think about it, why am I so lazy? But I know that it is the love she gives me that makes me not lack love in my heart. Nowadays, I ride my bicycle to pick up Xiao Xiaoyu from school every day. That stretch is only 10 minutes. But I think I will definitely remember carrying him, who was four or five years old, through the street in front of my house every day, rain or shine. And how will he think of me in the future? No matter what, I think it should be happy and warm. Of course, there are still many people who don’t understand fathers taking care of their children. So I said at that time that I would resign and go home to take care of my children. The boss above me had a strange expression after hearing this, thinking that I was deliberately looking for an excuse.Depend on. Because in too many people’s minds, children can be taken care of by the elderly! Nowadays, he often shares with me his experiences in raising children. Because after he gave birth to his second child, he understood my choice at that time. But there are still many people who don\’t understand. When Xiao Xiaoyu was three years old, I once took him to play in the park. I met a grandma who often played with her children. She asked me, \”Where is the child\’s mother?\” \”She\’s at work!\” \”Where are his grandparents?\” \”At home!\” \”Are you taking care of the child?\” \”Well, starting from this year, I will take care of it myself. \”Oh! What did you do before?\”…The next step is to ask carefully. I could hear that she was still feeling incredible about my decision. This is still a well-intentioned evaluation. You will also encounter some comments that make people speechless. Once under my article, a father commented and left a message saying: \”How can a man raise a child? You are just a sissy, how can you raise a strong son.\” I felt speechless after seeing it at that time. Just because I like taking care of children, or I understand mothers a little better. Just give this kind of evaluation? Of course, I won\’t feel uncomfortable with such malicious speculation. I will still be myself. But it can be seen that in our society, there are still many voices opposing fathers taking care of their children. Image source: \”Cookie Box Banjo\” I have always had a simple wish, that is, I hope that my children\’s world will have the love of their father. So I try my best to create conditions and stay with my children. It will also call on more like-minded fathers to participate in raising children. At least, in front of the child, he can put down his mask and identity, and be his father more straightforwardly and sincerely. Then, lose your temper less and give your child more of a smile or a firm hug. You can also participate in important moments for your children, such as graduation ceremonies, parent-teacher conferences, and class activities. When you go, you will feel it is worth it. I still remember one time when Xiao Xiaoyu’s class had a spring outing and had to rush to a lake in the suburbs early in the morning. I have to get up at around 7 o\’clock. For me, who is used to staying up late to write manuscripts, it is simply a kind of torture. But the little guy still hopes that I can take him there, because he said that the teacher told him to take his father. I still struggled to go the next day. At the event, several fathers also came. We have become the mainstay of outdoor activities as a matter of course. When dads throw themselves high, or run extremely fast in the tortoise and hare race, or race while carrying a child in a basket. The children\’s smiles are like sunshine. That day, I didn’t see my father or the man. Instead, I saw a bunch of little boys playing together. Being with children will really lighten your soul. To every dad who loves spending time with his kids, you are the most charming.