To parents: Teachers can only accompany their children for one journey, parents are the class teachers who will never retire.

There is a question on Zhihu: A teacher cleverly answered this question in the form of a question: \”If you teach bad children, does it harm the teacher or the parents?\” Obviously, the answer is the parents. In every child\’s life, the teacher can only accompany the child for one journey, and the parents are the class teachers who will never retire. The teacher is just a ferryman, not a person with unlimited responsibility. There is such a dialogue in the British novel \”The Ferryman\”: \”It must be very hard to escort all these people…and then watch them disappear. I believe that some of them are not worthy of you. \”Do it.\” \”This is my job, I just do it. Keeping every soul safe is the most important thing in the world.\” Isn\’t the teacher such a ferryman who doesn\’t ask for anything in return? Education is a ferry, and students are the people waiting for the ferry. Some of them are kind, some are cunning, some are smart, some are clumsy, some are grateful, and some are ungrateful… But the teacher always treats everyone equally. He worked diligently on the \”ferry\” and worked hard to escort every student to the other side. Even though they are so dedicated and dedicated, the situation of teachers is getting worse day by day. People are like this. If they are used to others being kind to them, they will take that kind of kindness for granted. It\’s just that people are not grateful to their teachers, and they start to criticize and demand their teachers even harder. Teachers provide guidance for children\’s learning; teachers regulate children\’s character; teachers are responsible for children\’s safety… When in school, teachers must keep an eye on each child\’s mental and physical health. After the holidays, teachers must always respond to parents\’ messages and be on call 24 hours a day. Some schools also exploit teachers\’ statutory holidays and require them to return to school during the holidays to work and clean without pay. Arrange teachers to patrol riversides, direct traffic on the road, volunteer at nucleic acid sites, and visit poverty alleviation sites to encourage students… \”With the money from selling cabbage, you have the heart to sell white powder!\” Don\’t forget, teachers are too People, we also have our own families and our own children. Please stop using the \”holy profession\” to kidnap teachers. We are just ordinary ferrymen, not supermen, nor people with unlimited responsibilities! Family education is irreplaceable. Parents are the head teachers who will never retire. Tolstoy once said: \”All education, or nine hundred and ninety-nine percent of education, comes down to role models, and comes down to the parents\’ own correctness and perfection.\” \”When every child is born, he is a blank slate. In the process of imitating their parents, they gradually formed their own outlook and behavior patterns. When I got to school, although I was imitating the teacher, I was still learning more about knowledge. The power of parents to set examples for their children is something that teachers cannot match. As educator Tyman Johnson said: \”Successful tutoring creates successful children, and failed tutoring creates failed children.\” In the \”Chinese Poetry Conference\” two years ago, a girl Wu Yishu won the championship with a reserve of 2,000 poems. What is not known is that she was admitted to Tsinghua University with a score of 613 in the science section of the college entrance examination the following year. What kind of parents would raise such an academic master in both arts and sciences? It turns out that Wu Yishu\’s father Wu Lei is a lawyer and her mother is a teacher. Since childhood, they have attached great importance to their daughter’s education andAnd practice it personally and lead by example. Wu Yishu was naughty when she was a child and did not like to study. Her parents did not strictly discipline her. Instead, I put down my mobile phone and read classics, memorize poems, and play idiom solitaire with my daughter. Wu Lei even turned off his cell phone after get off work and concentrated on accompanying and supervising students. Zhou Chong said in the book \”Real Education Is to Fight for Dad\”: \”Genius does not exist. Any outstanding child is not a miracle, but a traceable cause and effect.\” Wu Yishu\’s success Proved: this reason lies precisely in the family and in the parents. It is the teacher who teaches, and it is the parents who educate. There is a recognized formula in the education field: \”5+2=0\”. “5” represents the time students receive education in school; “2” represents the time students receive education at home; “0” represents the education effect returning to zero. As we all know, some parents just don\’t lead by example, and they often have counterproductive effects in education. Sleeping in, playing mobile phones, playing games, getting drunk, playing cards, gambling… each one is more outrageous than the last. As a result, the knowledge, habits, and conduct that children acquired in school not only failed to be reviewed and consolidated, but disappeared. Teachers teach over and over again, correct and supervise over and over again, but in the end they often get 0 results. When parents saw their children\’s report cards at the end of the year, they were furious: \”How did the teacher teach!?\” The teacher has become the \”punch bag\” and \”scapegoat\” for derelict parents. A middle school teacher described the relationship between home and school this way: \”Children are rough houses, parents are the owners, and teachers are just decorators.\” If you think about it carefully, this metaphor is really appropriate. The house is a treasure that the owner has devoted many years of hard work to, and the \”ownership\” belongs to the owner. But it started out rudimentary, blank, and in need of \”decoration\” by the teacher. During the decoration process, when problems such as \”insufficient materials\” or \”skewed base surface\” arise, the owner\’s continuous cooperation is required. With good cooperation and beautiful decoration, the value of the house will increase, and the owner will live comfortably and with dignity. If the cooperation is not good and there are many problems after the house is handed over, will it be useful to go to the decorator again? Remember, the house is your own, and parents are the first person responsible for their children. The best education is when parents and teachers work side by side. The relationship between parents and teachers should be an \”educational partner\” rather than an \”employee relationship.\” Some parents treat teachers as waiters, doing whatever they want without giving them any respect. Doting on their children, taking the one-sided words from the children\’s mouth as the truth, and going against the teacher. Some time ago, a screenshot of a chat record went viral on the Internet, which truly reflected the current \”pathological harshness\” of parents towards teachers. The teacher only punished the children who made mistakes by punishing them by standing still and naming them. But this parent is going to be \”furious\” and has to \”find the principal\” and use his connections. I would like to ask this parent, is he satisfied if the child makes a mistake and the teacher ignores it? If a teacher doesn\’t care about a student, should he wait until he drops out of school and is beaten by society or punished by law if he commits a crime? Parents should stand beside teachers and jointly guide and guide their children, instead of standing on the opposite side! Please remember that no matter how good a teacher is, he can only teach children for three to five years. But no matter how bad the parents are, they will affect their children\’s lives! Please fulfill your responsibilities in raising your children,Give teachers more respect, understanding and support, so that teachers can teach with peace of mind!