Unable to face the cynicism of others, he chose to end his life…

Conceit is a very bad psychological manifestation, which is very harmful to the growth of children. Conceit often leads to complacency and makes children lose their enterprising spirit. As the saying goes, humility makes people progress, and pride makes people fall behind. Pride and arrogance can have a negative impact on a child\’s development. Arrogant children are often isolated from the outside world, which makes them narrow-minded and no longer broad-minded. They live in their own world and will one day be eliminated by society and cannot withstand setbacks. and harm. Let\’s listen to the following example: There was a young singer who was very popular in China. He thought he sang very well amidst the applause of everyone. Once he went to perform abroad and because he was too nervous, he accidentally sang out of tune and caused trouble. Everyone laughed at him. But because this young singer had everything smooth sailing when he first emerged, he is accustomed to applause, flowers, and medals, and his psychological tolerance for setbacks is very weak. Therefore, once you fail, you will lose your psychological balance. He couldn\’t accept his mistake and felt that he couldn\’t hold his head high, so he chose to end his life… It has to be said that conceited psychology is indeed a bomb that may explode at any time on the way of a child\’s growth. As a parent, you must try your best to To eliminate this kind of emotion in children before it explodes, in order to correct their children\’s self-esteem, \”bad\” parents suggest that parents can start from the following aspects: First, when children have self-esteem, parents should guide their children to recognize The dangers of pride and conceit. Don’t let conceit dominate your children. Because of pride, children will refuse helpful advice and friendly help; because of pride, children will also lose objective standards and often misestimate themselves. People who are blindly arrogant are like frogs in a well. They are arrogant and self-righteous, which seriously hinders their own progress, let alone progress. Therefore, on this issue, parents should remember to warn their children in time that any achievements achieved by each person can only be staged, not comprehensive, and are only a starting point. In terms of learning, knowledge is a boundless ocean. If you are ahead of one thing and avoid it, it is precisely a sign that you have insufficient knowledge and a narrow vision. In our country, we have always emphasized that \”modesty benefits, fullness leads to losses\”. We consciously introduce some experiences of successful people to children, telling them that all people who have made a difference in ancient and modern times, both at home and abroad, are those who can still remain humble and forge ahead after achieving results. Teach your children that those who are more accomplished are actually more humble and cautious. Only those who don\’t know much will not realize the truth that there are people outside the world and there is a world outside the world, and they will have the idea of ​​​​conceit and complacency. Secondly, in the face of children\’s self-confidence, parents should teach them patiently. The first step is to let their children evaluate themselves correctly. Children who are arrogant often overestimate themselves and think they are better than anyone else. They only see their own strengths but not their own shortcomings, and compare their own strengths to the shortcomings of others. Therefore, they are often arrogant and \”self-centered\”, doing whatever they want without putting themselves in others\’ shoes. As parents, we should patiently teach our children, teach them to learn from their strengths and make up for their weaknesses, and let them learn to evaluate themselves correctly, not only recognizing their own strengths, but also clearly seeing their own shortcomings, especially telling themChildren, those who can see their own shortcomings are the ones who are likely to succeed. Parents also need to regulate their children\’s behavior as much as possible, urge them to correct their conceited emotions, tell their children what they should and should not do when making friends, and train and guide them to develop good behavioral habits, so that their children can They will be welcomed by everyone, and the children themselves will be able to integrate into a group more easily. They will also feel happy because of this, instead of admiring themselves and feeling sorry for themselves. Thirdly, parents should pay attention to the appropriate expression of emotion when praising their children, and not to be overly exaggerated or overly rigorous. For example, some parents are eager for their children to succeed, and they will be ecstatic and full of praise for their children\’s slight progress. Over time, this will inevitably encourage their children\’s complacency. Therefore, when praising children, the correct approach for parents should be to consider the matter as it is, without praising them excessively or turning a blind eye. Sometimes smiling gently at a child can also have an effect that words of praise cannot. In addition, parents should try not to praise their children in front of outsiders as much as possible, but should appropriately and selectively affirm their children in front of outsiders, because children\’s self-evaluation ability is still very poor. Seeing so many people affirming themselves, they will Produce a wrong understanding of how good you really are, resulting in arrogance. Finally, to control children\’s self-esteem, the first thing parents must do is to lead by example and set an example for their children. The power of role models is endless. Parents are their children\’s first teachers and the most direct role models for their children to follow. The role of parents in setting examples for their children is huge. Therefore, parents should be role models of noble personality for their children. As parents, they should be humble and friendly in life, give objective evaluations to themselves and others, and do not show a mean side in front of their children, let alone Showing egotism. You know, children learn everything very quickly, and your emotions will be directly transmitted to them, causing them to be adversely affected. If parents cannot control the \”degree\” of vanity well, children will be very confused and eventually lost in conceited emotions. Tell your children clearly what they are proud of and can show off, what kind of vanity will cause pressure and make others annoying, and let them think more about how they feel about the vanity of their friends. Sometimes, a person who acts particularly conceited is actually a sign of low self-esteem or lack of self-confidence. As parents, \”bad\” parents remind everyone that we must be good at distinguishing our children\’s emotions, avoid making mistakes in judgment, and \”prescribe the right medicine\” in a timely manner.