Use invisible ink to trick kids! Parents cause uproar by teasing their children

It\’s really fun to tease children. Make them laugh or cry, and the children\’s reactions will be very cute. However, the pranks and pranks played by a pair of foreign bear parents on their children seem to go too far and can make people collapse! After reading this, the editor just wants to ask: Are these children really your biological children? Do you understand when the bear parents play tricks on their children? Mike Martin and Heather Martin are parents of five children. They have established a popular channel on YouTube called Daddyofive channel. The main content they broadcast every day is all kinds of tricks on their children. So far, they have more than 700,000 fans. However, what they didn\’t expect was that a \”new work\” they launched attracted criticism from countless netizens: \”The weirdest parents in history! Parents used invisible ink to prank their children and netizens dissatisfied them\” ↓↓↓Video story from the video In it, the mother can be seen yelling at her child and asking him why he did what he did. The son burst into tears over the unfounded charges, but his parents still refused to forgive him and said he was a liar. Cody was obviously frightened by his mother\’s yelling and scolding. He started crying loudly and tried his best to defend himself that he really did not do all this. Later, even Cody\’s brother was frightened by his parents\’ groundless accusations and started sobbing. Only then did their parents tell them that it was just a prank. However, the children still acted very sad and found it difficult to detach themselves from such \”jokes\”. After watching videos like this, I really feel for the children. I feel so sorry for the children! After the video was released, it immediately attracted criticism from countless netizens, believing that what they did was not just a \”joke\”, but a mental abuse of the children. Under pressure, the parents deleted the video and uploaded an explanation video. In the video, parents asked their children whether they felt insulted or hurt when they were teased. Several children around 10 years old said no. Therefore, the couple came to the conclusion that netizens questioned them out of jealousy of their high click-through rate. Now, netizens are even more angry. More and more netizens have joined the criticism camp. Some netizens have even submitted what the couple did to child welfare protection agencies. The couple had to delete all the videos and publicly stated on Twitter that they would reflect on the way they shot the videos before and said that they are a close and warm family and would never do anything to harm their children. . Tricky just for fun? This is emotional abuse! I hope this pair of bear parents can reflect on their mistakes. After all, apart from this invisible ink video, they have really done a lot of bad things before – pretending to smash their child\’s beloved game console and letting their son pretend to attack his sister. Angry, he threatened to kill the children with a gun… In the opinion of the editor, teasing children in this way has gone beyond the scope of loving children and has become \”mental abuse\” of children: 1. Excessive teasing of children is disrespectful to children and adults. Cheating and teasing children, taking the most hurtful and humiliating things about children as jokes, and even uploading them online for netizens to laugh at, the root cause of this isParents do not know how to respect their children and underestimate the negative consequences of teasing their children. The word \”funny\” directly reflects the disrespect for children and failure to treat them as individuals with independent personalities, making children even less confident in themselves. 2. Teasing children is a kind of mental abuse. Abuse of children is not only physical, but also mental. The act of slandering a child for no reason will cause psychological damage to a child who lacks the ability to distinguish. Not to mention that they use various insulting words when criticizing the child, and they still ignore it when they see the child\’s mental state is almost broken. 3. Accusing children without reason is a kind of bullying. Children are very sensitive to people\’s emotions. Parents losing their temper will definitely affect their children\’s behavior and emotions. Cody in the video was obviously frightened by his mother\’s unfounded accusation. Although he later understood that it was a prank, for Cody, this kind of \”there is no excuse to blame\” will definitely remain in his heart. Bullying, the shadow of being framed. Type 4 funny moves must be stopped! Although Chinese parents are unlikely to go too far when teasing their children, no matter what form of \”teasing\” it is, it has a long-term or even lifelong impact on the children. Parents must not tease their children excessively for temporary happiness. In particular, the following types of tricks must be avoided: 1. Deceiving children. Many teasing tricks commonly used by adults are to deliberately teach children to call the wrong person, for example, asking children to call them \”uncle\”. ” as “grandpa”, or “aunt” as “grandma” and so on. The child innocently followed the instructions, and the adults burst into laughter, leaving the child at a loss and unable to believe others. 2. Scare the children, \”If you have a little brother, mommy won\’t love you anymore!\” \”If you don\’t obey me, I won\’t want you anymore!\” The adults just say it casually, but it sounds like a nightmare to the children, and they can\’t distinguish the meaning behind the words. True or false, I felt fearful and uneasy, leaving a deep shadow. 3. Teasing children. Some children are fat, and adults jokingly call them \”little chubby\” or \”little chubby girl\”; some children are timid and are afraid of mice, ghosts, and the dark, so adults want to scare them more and more. He was left alone in the darkness. In doing so, children not only fail to respect others, but also strengthen their inner negative behaviors. 4. Seducing children: \”Your sister is disobedient, go and beat her, and I will buy you something delicious.\” \”Take a sip of liquor and see if you are a man.\” Adults use substances and words to induce children to do bad things, often accompanied by \” Children who have done \”bad things\” will also be complacent if they receive \”really brave\”, \”good job\” or some material rewards, making it easy for the children to be indifferent between good and evil in the future. It’s not that the child can’t take a joke, it’s that the joke is too big and the child gets hurt! Parents should help their children strengthen their inner strength, inject sunshine into their children\’s psychology, and let their children grow up confidently and healthily!