Wang Ju is famous. What ability is a child’s top strength?

As a middle-aged greasy woman, I have not chased stars for a long time, but in the past two days, I was unexpectedly \”known\” by Wang Ju, a contestant on the women\’s talent show \”Produce 101\”. After the latest episode of the show aired, Wang Ju became famous overnight. With overwhelming momentum, he quickly dominates the circle of friends. \”Vote for Wang Ju\” has become a phenomenon-level activity on the Internet, and even a new term has emerged: Under this wave of public opinion, Wang Ju, who was originally ranked \”on the verge of elimination\”, quickly soared in the rankings. Unable to restrain my curiosity, I searched for Wang Ju’s photos. What confuses me is that she has dark skin, a slightly fat figure and a bit strong body. She does not fit the image of an \”idol\” in ordinary people\’s imagination. Many people commented that she is \”not girly enough~\” So why did Wang Ju become famous overnight? Wang Ju said: When I was 15 years old and I was not a trainee, I thought it was over. I will definitely not be able to sing or dance on stage in the future. But who would have thought that I would become a trainee when I was 25 years old! I really like what Teacher Ella said: There are no miracles, only accumulation… Surprisingly, the former Wang Ju was also fair-skinned, beautiful and long-legged. When asked if she wanted to go back to her former slim and beautiful appearance, Wang Ju said: I don’t want to go back. Because I actually didn’t know what my standards of beauty were at that time. Since I became a model agent, being myself has been my creed. My life is in my own hands. I am mentally independent and financially independent. I think it is too important for women. When canvassing for votes, Wang Ju said: Some people say that I am not suitable for being in a girl group. But what are the standards for being a girl group? The standards and baggage I have here have been eaten up by me. What you hold in your hands is the right to redefine China’s number one girl group. Have faith, stick to your dreams, don’t care about their comments, accept yourself, be confident and independent. A girl with a strong heart exudes powerful attraction and is full of light all the time. This is the reason why Wang Ju really attracted fans and became famous overnight. A person with a strong heart has a clear path in his heart, and no one or anything except himself can influence his steps. He will not be afraid of all opposition, doubts and even ridicules, can endure hardships, and stick to his own path even if he is walking alone. People with a strong heart are often more likely to succeed. For example, Jia Ling. Jia Ling is a hot comedy star nowadays. Many netizens say that programs with Jia Ling are a must-see. For her dreams, Jia Ling never gives up easily. In the second year after failing to apply for the Beijing Film Academy, he continued to apply for the Central Academy of Drama and was eventually admitted to the cross talk performance major. However, very few girls choose to talk about cross talk. After graduating from college, her family disapproved of her staying in Beijing and even arranged for her to find a civil servant job in her hometown. But Jia Ling refused. She would rather eat pickled vegetables and noodles in Beijing than win a prize for her dream. She once said, \”Song Dandan attended the Spring Festival Gala when she was 29 years old. I am 26 years old this year. Give me one more year and I, Jia Ling, will go home if she is not popular!\” She did it. Jia Ling, 27, attended the Spring Festival Gala in 2010. Famous overnight. Frankly speaking, Jia Ling\’s figure and appearance do not conform to the mainstream public aesthetics. She revealed that once she was performing on stage, a teacher said to her, \”YouStop talking, you are like a pig.\” Most female celebrities are goddesses with perfect figures and delicate faces. And Jia Ling\’s round figure seems a bit out of place among these female stars. For various reasons, the media often made her a joke. But Jia Ling is very magnanimous. She has never lost weight to please others, and calmly took most of the jokes in the show. Her state is relaxed, and her personal charm is fully blooming. Carnegie wrote in the book \”Being a Strong-hearted Woman\”: Only a person with a strong heart can be truly fearless. Only with a strong heart can we be calm in life, unfazed by favors and disgrace. No matter how many setbacks there are in the outside world, we can remain focused and still stick to the firmness in our hearts. Jia Ling insists on her dream, is not afraid of hardship, does not care about the ridicule of the outside world, and has a firm goal. She used her strong heart to support her dreams. Of course, not all people with strong hearts will gain the limelight. Because a person\’s success is not given by others, but defined by himself. Just like Wang Ju said, \”My life is in my own hands.\” I believe that even if Wang Ju is not as famous as she is today, with her strong heart, persistence in herself, and living on the path of her own struggle, She will still be content and happy. Rather than being defeated, a weakling who is hit by a single blow and can never stand up again. The Hong Kong female porter who became popular during this period is just such a person. She, Zhu Qianpei, is 30 years old and has been in the transportation industry for eight years. Every day, I sweat profusely while pulling goods weighing 200 kilograms by hand, moving goods between industrial buildings and roads. She said that generally women would choose jobs with less physical labor, \”but when I see the truck full of goods, it feels like I have been conquered, and I feel very satisfied.\” To gain a foothold in a man\’s world, Xiao Zhu needs Not only do you have to work twice as hard, but you also need to have a strong heart. She said that when she was looking for a logistics and transportation job eight years ago, someone once said to her, \”Girls go home to cook, what are you doing here?\” She said, \”I was speechless after hearing this. I used my actions to prove to him that I could do it.\” The profession she is engaged in does not meet the traditional definition of a tall and successful person. But she likes this job and enjoys this state. A girl who is not afraid of words or hardships, takes actions silently, sticks to what she loves, and lives her life the way she likes. She accepts herself and enjoys life in the moment. Who can say that this is not a success? Having a strong heart is a kind of strength. When a child has it, it\’s like wearing armor. There are always hardships on the road of life. With this armor, children can live in peace with the world better. They accept themselves, are not afraid of rumors, are not afraid of failure, insist on themselves, and can face failure more calmly. Everyone should still remember the news that in August 2016, two female college students died after being defrauded of their tuition fees. Xu Yuyu, an 18-year-old female college student in Linyi, Shandong Province, was defrauded of 9,900 yuan in tuition fees. She was heartbroken and eventually died of cardiac arrest. Cai Shuyan, a 19-year-old college student from Huilai, Jieyang, Guangdong, was defrauded of 9,800 yuan in tuition fees. Unable to let go, she eventually committed suicide by jumping into the sea. As soon as the news came out, people should not only feel sad and regretful, but also reflect on how to prevent their children from growing up.\”\”I can\’t think about it\”, my heart is fragile, I encounter setbacks and failures, I\’m hit by a blow, and I can\’t reconcile with myself. As a mother, I believe that raising children to become independent and mentally strong people is more important than anything else. Psychology believes that children who are good at making their own decisions will be more proactive in seeking solutions and regaining a sense of control when encountering difficulties or changes. When he is able to make his own decisions, he is more motivated to stick to and implement his decisions. Parents can start with some small things and try to let their children make their own decisions. For example, let three or four-year-old children manage their own snacks at home. The child eats a certain amount of snacks as agreed upon every day. If he eats too much, the management rights will be temporarily taken away. Children can make decisions on their own and bear the consequences of their decisions. It can promote the development of self-awareness and better understand how to manage oneself. Psychologist Lin Ruihe once shared a story about his son when he was three years old: His son worked hard to draw fish on paper, but was never satisfied. \”The fish I drew didn\’t look like…\” His mother asked, \”What kind of fish does it look like?\” The son said, \”It doesn\’t look like the fish the teacher drew.\” Then the mother said, \”Do you remember the different fish in the aquarium? There are many kinds of fish, and the one the teacher drew is just one of them. It is the fish in her heart. You You can also draw the fish in your heart.\” My son suddenly became enlightened and no longer felt that the fish he drew was bad. Instead, I concentrated on painting the fish in my heart. Only when parents accept their children\’s uniqueness can they guide their children to better discover themselves, understand themselves, and form independent thinking, instead of following others\’ opinions and losing themselves. Every child can wear the armor of \”inner strength\”, have independent thoughts and a free personality, be able to accept himself, and strive to become a better version of himself. I hope that when the child grows up, he can proudly say, \”My life is in my own hands.\”