After 9 years, \”Inside Out 2\” is finally out. It still personifies emotions, but the difference is that Riley is now in the whirlpool of adolescence. I remember that when I first watched \”Inside Out 1\”, Nuannuan had just entered kindergarten, and now she has also entered adolescence. Time flies so fast! After entering adolescence, the number of emotional villains in Riley\’s mind suddenly increased: in addition to joy, anger, sadness, fear, and disgust, there were also anxiety (Jiao Jiao), depression (Mourning), embarrassment (Aba) and envy (Envy). (Mu) These 4 emotions broke into her life. The skeletons of \”Inside Out\” 1 and 2 are quite similar. They still show the diversity and complexity of emotions as conflicts and adventures progress. But its sophisticated production, romantic imagination, and delicate emotional expression still moved me. Not to mention that it can help adolescent children recognize and accept their own emotions. As an adult, I couldn\’t help crying in the cinema. Of course, I also \”see\” and understand the reason why adolescent children always say \”annoying\”. This summer vacation, be sure to go to the cinema with your kids to watch it. It doesn’t matter if you haven’t watched the first part, it won’t affect your viewing experience. \”Puberty\” is a word that sounds overwhelming. Children at this time have rich and strong emotions, which are flammable and explosive. \”Inside Out 2\”\’s straightforward and detailed emotional portrayal depicts the particularity of adolescence in every detail. Because of her mother\’s words, \”Have you not started cleaning up yet?\”, she would lose control and shout, \”You are always chasing me! Give me a free second.\” After not seeing each other for several days, she asked her parents, A perfunctory \”okay\” ends the conversation. Wanting to join the ice hockey team selection, Riley\’s emotional high ground was occupied by \”Jiao Jiao\”. In order to better integrate with the official team members, she began to train early and late. But she also gradually went astray. In order to make herself more lovable, she imitated and followed and suppressed her own personality: she mocked the band that she and her friends loved in front of her friends; she even laughed out loud even though she couldn\’t get the laugh. She clumsily imitated their walking postures and dyed a strand of their hair red… In order to know whether she could be admitted to the team, she even sneaked into the office to peek at the coach\’s diary. The desire to be cool, the desire to be respected, the desire to be recognized, this is what adolescent children are. When their self-awareness begins to awaken, resisting their parents becomes their first step in trying to become independent. They don’t want to hear us “talk” anymore, and they don’t want to be treated like children anymore. I have always felt that Nuannuan is a considerate child, but after reaching puberty, if I say a few words more, she will occasionally say \”Mom, you are so annoying\” to me. During this period, they will be more concerned about the opinions of their peers. People are people in society. They long to break away from home, long for a broader world, and slowly determine \”who I am\” in their interactions with friends. If this process does not go smoothly, it may be accompanied by uneasiness and anxiety like Riley, and then she may do some stupid and stupid things. However, looking back at our past, youth is full of such \”little things\”. Each child may behave differently during adolescence and experience different things, but who doesn’t grow up through stumbling?What about? Pixar is worthy of being Pixar. It does not judge or ridicule, but treats these little things with the greatest kindness. When we see Jiao Jiao blaming herself and apologizing, and seeing Riley feeling guilty and crying, we know that Riley completed her first growth and transformation in adolescence during the battle between heaven and man. Whether it\’s the first or second movie \”Inside Out,\” they all convey the same point: no emotion is a bad emotion. Even though Jiaojiao did a lot of harm this time and made Riley make a lot of mistakes. But Jiao Jiao\’s original intention was to prepare in advance to prevent any possible adverse consequences. It\’s just that the process got out of control. But temporary loss of control is not a scourge. When the anxiety accumulated to a certain level, Riley did collapse, but because of the adjustment of various emotions, Riley faced her own problems and began to actively deal with life. No one emotion can determine who a child will become. These good and bad, happy, sad and anxious will all become part of the child\’s growth. In these struggles, the child will form a brand new self. When accompanying an adolescent child, I think we may all have to learn to deal with the child\’s negative emotions. Just like Riley\’s mother, when faced with her adolescent daughter\’s yelling, she decided to \”take it easy.\” As children grow older, the world they face becomes more complex, more challenging, and more stressful. We need to allow and see our children’s negative emotions. I remember there is a classic question on the Internet: Why did children in the past have no problem being beaten and scolded every day, but children today often have psychological problems? Maybe it’s because the life between school and home is too monotonous. Maybe it’s because we pay so much attention to our children that our children’s negative emotions have no outlet. When negative energy accumulates in the heart and the child never learns how to get along with it, it may explode in the future, and the consequences may be very heavy. So, don’t laugh at or ignore your children’s negative emotions just because they are young. Don\’t rebuke or suppress your children\’s true emotions because you are afraid of their sadness or anger. It is these seemingly bad emotions that constitute such a vivid life. Face their true feelings every time, give the child some time and space, give the child respect, trust, companionship, understanding, support and give him strength. I believe they will become a more mature and independent little adult.
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