Wei Shusheng’s educational thoughts: The most labor-saving way to educate children!

Children\’s studies can only have a solid foundation if they work steadily. There are no shortcuts to our children\’s education, but there is one thing that all parents and teachers should spend their energy on, which is to stimulate children\’s inner motivation to learn and strive to cultivate the diligent seedlings in children\’s hearts by watering, loosening the soil, and fertilizing , pest control. In the words of Teacher Wei Shusheng, \”Use the energy deep in the child\’s heart to illuminate the child\’s spiritual world.\” This is also the most labor-saving way to educate children. I think the most labor-saving way to educate children is to see the two selves deep in the child\’s heart, and then use the child\’s diligent self to defeat the lazy self, and the good self to defeat the evil self. Deep in a child\’s heart, the two thoughts of diligence and laziness are in conflict and fighting. If the good thought wins, we will reap the benefits. If diligent thinking cannot defeat lazy thinking, we will extend our hands to help him think of ways and come up with ideas. I suggest that parents get into their children\’s hearts and provoke them to fight against themselves. Go into the heart of the child and support the diligent side in the child to defeat the lazy side. Find the diligent Xiaomiao in children. I once taught a transfer student named Zhang Jun, who ranked last in the grade. On the second day after he arrived in my class, Zhang Jun did not complete the homework I left him. I think I am not familiar with Zhang Jun yet, so I must not criticize him easily, nor can I demand him as strictly as I did to my classmates in the original class. If I reprimand you like this: \”Why don\’t you do your homework?\” \”Everyone else has done it, how dare you not do it?\” \”Do you not take the teacher seriously?\” Saying these words is not only tiring for me, but also ineffective. , and it is easy to push Zhang Jun to his opposite. I found that Zhang Jun didn\’t do his homework, so I talked to him and went into his mind to find another diligent Zhang Jun. I said: \”Zhang Jun, we have just started dating and don\’t know each other well yet. Let\’s talk! The day you came to Teacher Wei\’s class, I heard that you were given homework. At that time, you wanted to write it immediately, but your procrastinating thoughts said : Relax at school for a while, and then write when you get home! When you get home, you want to do your homework again, but the procrastinating thoughts say: Write after dinner! After dinner, I took out the book and notebook and was about to write. There was a program on the TV. , the procrastinating thought said again: Let’s write after watching TV! When I wanted to write again after watching TV, I was too sleepy, so I just wanted to write again tomorrow morning! Unexpectedly, I got up late in the morning…\” I also Before he finished speaking, Zhang Jun said: \”Teacher, I really think so, how do you know?\” I said: \”Lazy people generally have this mentality. I originally wanted to be diligent, but I just couldn\’t control my procrastination mentality. . As a result, the mentality of procrastination grows thicker and thicker, and it occupies a large area in the field of the soul. Diligence can\’t do anything about it.\” Zhang Jun said: \”Teacher, you are absolutely right. I am too. I want to cure my procrastination, but I just can\’t think of a good way. Can you help me find a way?\” \”Of course the teacher wants to help you, but the most important thing is to cultivate those diligent saplings in your own heart. Do you have that? I have so many brain cells that want to do homework, but I still can’t defeat procrastination?” “How to defeat it?” Zhang Jun asked. \”The important thing is not to water or fertilize the big tree of drag. What is the water and fertilizer of drag? It is time. As soon as the idea of ​​drag comes to you, you say to it in time: You take a rest for a while, I will write firstClick on homework. If you feel uneasy, just pick a subject you like to write about first, and pick simple questions to do first. After writing for a while, I feel a little tired, and procrastination comes again. You still don’t give it time, but think: I will practice calligraphy first, then I will write some optional homework, and I will discuss it with the teacher tomorrow. In this way, little by little, there is no time for procrastination, no water, no fertilizer, and it will wither after a while. And what about the diligent Xiaomiao? Because doing practical things every second, minute by minute, is equivalent to watering and fertilizing, and gradually grows taller and bigger. \”Patiently cultivate the diligent saplings in children\’s hearts. The next step is homework. I don\’t let Zhang Jun do the same homework as everyone else. Instead, I discuss with him the homework that suits him. Because I start from his reality and guide him to climb up step by step. On the ladder of knowledge, within two months, Zhang Jun, like the whole class, started doing homework every day and writing a diary every day. When guiding children to cultivate diligent saplings in their hearts, they should not be impatient or hope that they will grow very big. As long as the children Doing things bit by bit and starting to write homework bit by bit is better than not writing at all, and it is better than pouring the water and fertilizer of time on the procrastination tree. Don’t be afraid of being slow, just be afraid of standing. Let the children finish a little bit. Simple homework, and then guide him to do a second simple homework. Parents can also discuss with their child\’s teacher and ask him to help leave some practice questions that are suitable for the child. Rather than letting the child do more difficult questions, he or she will still not know how to do them after copying them. , or simply don’t do it, and you are tired of learning and hate learning. It is better to do something within your ability based on the child’s actual situation. In this way, the child’s performance can also be improved. The purpose of education by British educator Whitehead PDF I think educating children is the most effortless The best way is to see the two selves deep in the child\’s heart, and then use the child\’s hardworking self to defeat the lazy self, and the good self to defeat the evil self. Deep in the child\’s heart, the two thoughts of diligence and laziness conflict and fight. If good When thinking wins, we reap the benefits. If diligent thinking cannot defeat lazy thinking, we will extend a hand to help him think of ways and come up with ideas. At this time, the child will feel that the parent is very kind and considerate to him. Understanding him is his assistant. It is easiest to break through the fortress of the spiritual world by using the energy deep in the child\’s heart to illuminate him from the inside. If two armies are facing each other, if they break up in the other\’s fortress, find your own assistant and form a faction. , it is very easy to win if you fight one faction. Some of these strategies and tactics used in fighting are also applicable to the education of children. No matter what mistakes the child has made, when criticizing the child, you must find his other self deep in his heart. , a self that doesn’t want to make mistakes. Only after finding good and motivated brain cells will the child feel close to the parents, the parents will see the problem comprehensively, and the parents will understand their own hearts. Then discuss with the children how to overcome laziness with diligence in their hearts. ; Use the method of respecting other people\’s brain cells to control the brain cells that are rude to others; use the method of being careful and conscientious to tie up the careless self. In this way, use the energy deep in the child\’s heart to illuminate the child\’s life. The spiritual world is obviously a way to save energy.