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Table of contents
1. Tips for parenting life
1. First of all, Establish a regular schedule to help your baby develop good living habits.
2. Secondly, interact more with babies, give them attention and love, and promote their physical and mental development.
3. In addition, arrange your diet reasonably, provide balanced nutrition, and cultivate healthy eating habits. In addition, create a safe home environment to avoid accidental injuries. Finally, exchange experiences with other parents, share parenting insights, and support and encourage each other. These tips can help parents take better care of their babies and promote their all-round development.
2. The correct parenting method
The correct parenting method is Let children grow freely. Children\’s growth has a certain sequence. Parents should treat their children\’s growth process correctly and should not interfere excessively
3. What are the better books on parenting
1. Author of \”Parenting Encyclopedia\”: (Japanese) Michio Matsuda
This book is highly recommended to new mothers who are preparing to become pregnant and those who are already pregnant. The author of the book is a Japanese pediatrician. Although I have some \”anti-Japanese\” tendencies, I admire the Japanese people\’s attentiveness to childcare.
Matsuda-senpai is committed to alleviating mother’s pain throughout the book.Anxious about parenting, and full of respect and understanding for the mother\’s hard work in parenting. Although some of the content in the book is somewhat outdated due to the limitations of the times, such as some methods of adding complementary foods, it is still the best parenting book so far.
I personally think that the most worthy part of reading is that the book describes in great detail the most common diseases and symptoms of children before they are 1 year old. Understanding these, It will greatly reduce the anxiety of new mothers when facing abnormalities in their babies. In addition, I really appreciate the point that has been repeatedly emphasized in the book, that is, mothers should not spend all their time on making complementary foods for their children, cleaning and other housework, but must spend as much time as possible with their children in outdoor activities. All are important.
In addition, \”Zheng Yuqiao\’s Parenting Book\” written by Zheng Yuqiao, a famous pediatrician in my country, is also very practical and is recommended to new mothers here.
2. Author of \”Spock\’s Parenting Book\”: (American) Benjamin Spock
This is a parenting book that was once well-known in the United States and is currently one of the best parenting books in the world. Although some concepts in the book may not be easy to accept due to the differences between the East and the West (such as children sleeping separately from their parents at birth), there are many viewpoints in it that can be of great inspiration to parents. I personally think that if a mother has the energy, she can keep both the \”Parenting Encyclopedia\” and this book at hand, because they are representative parenting concepts of the East and the West respectively, and their views on many issues will be more objective by comparison. .
In addition, \”Encyclopedia of Intimacy Parenting\” (volumes 1 and 2, co-authored by William Sears and Martha Sears) is also a very classic set Western parenting books are also listed here and are recommended for new mothers.
3. Author of \”Listening to Children\”: (USA) Patti Whiffler
This book guides parents on how to help their children get rid of negative emotions. It is a very thin book, but the sentences are classic and extremely practical. It is highly recommended. The book was republished in 2007. The author added some new content and wrote a preface specifically for Chinese readers.
I feel that every time I read this book, I will gain something new, because the children are growing up, and the hearts of parents are also maturing. Many of the ideas in the book and methods need to be constantly digested in the long process of practice. If your child is almost 2 years old or is already showing signs of Terrible Two, aYou must study this book quickly.
4. \”Child, Give Me Your Hand\” Author: (US) Ginott
This is also a very, very classic book, highly recommended. This book mainly talks about how parents communicate with their children, but in fact many of the concepts in it are also very applicable to communication between adults. I think reading it will benefit both parents and children. The author, Dr. Ginott, is a famous American psychologist. His life was very short and he devoted all his energy to the study of children\’s psychology and the training of parents and teachers. It is very touching. This book is also one of the books I often read. Whenever I face a child who is irritable and unable to calm down, I read this book and regain the feeling of love I should have for my child.
5. \”How to speak so that children will listen, and how to listen so that children are willing to speak\”
Author: (USA) Adele Faber, Elaine Mezlich
The content of this book is indeed very good, it talks about parent-child The right way to communicate. The two authors are mothers themselves and are very experienced in training parents. The book uses rich examples and illustrations to enhance understanding and memory. It is worth mentioning that these two authors are students of Dr. Ginott, the author of the previous book \”Child, Give Me Your Hand\”, so the concepts in the book are similar to \”Child, Give Me Your Hand\” \”I\” is in the same vein, but it is easier to understand and has more practical methods.
There is an interesting story about this book. One day, Hao Hao was looking through this book on my desk and found that there were comics in it, so she asked me to tell it to her. What do those paintings mean? Those comics were all about mother\’s right and wrong approaches to one thing. After I finished each set of comparisons, I asked the villain to choose the one she liked. As a result, the villains all chose the correct approach, without exception. It seems that the child\’s feelings are very consistent with the correct approach advocated in the book.
6. \”Cultivating children starts with drawing: Entering the world of children\’s graffiti\”
This book is a classic educational monograph by the famous Japanese education expert and painter Torii Akimi, which has influenced two entire generations in Japan. This book was introduced to China in 2001. At that time, the title was \”Into the Children\’s Graffiti World\” and it was published in a series of parenting books. I was fortunate enough to read this book when I was very young, and it really benefited me a lot. It gave me a deep understanding of the mystery of children\’s graffiti, the role of painting on children, and how to protect children\’s nature and creativity.Through creativity, we also understand the rules of children\’s learning and development, what kind of attitude should be adopted to deal with children\’s education issues, etc. In fact, it can be said to be a classic educational book, not just an art instruction book.
This book has been highly recommended online by mothers who are concerned about their children\’s quality education, as well as art education institutions and professionals who uphold advanced educational concepts. Word of mouth spread, but because the book was not taken seriously by the publishing industry at the time, it was printed only once and then disappeared. After I worked at the publishing house, I found the copyright of this book in Japan and introduced it to China again. At the same time, I also introduced another book by Akimi Torii, which is the companion volume of this book, \”Raising Children from Drawing 2\” : How to read children’s paintings and how to teach them.”
This book is currently valued by more and more mothers, and I won’t say more about its importance. Before our generation, the traditional domestic parenting concepts and practices could be said to be very lacking in love and freedom. Although some of the contents are not necessarily the original \”Montessori education\”, it is precisely because Teacher Sun Ruixue combined her own practice that it truly meets the actual situation in China and the needs of Chinese parents.
7.5. \”Capturing Children\’s Sensitive Period\” Editor: Sun Ruixue
(This book The reason why it is listed as 7.5 is because it is in the same series as \”Love and Freedom\”, haha. However, I have already recommended 11 books)
Me. I don’t recommend Montessori’s original works, such as “The Secret of Childhood”, “The Absorbent Mind”, etc. This is not to say that I think Montessori’s original works are not good, but that I think Teacher Sun Ruixue’s books are more suitable for China. It is easier for parents to read it and understand it.
Sun Ruixue is not the author of this book, but the editor. The cases in the book were all recorded by teachers and parents. Sun Ruixue commented on real cases that happened to children when running the school. After reading these real examples and analyses, we can actually understand many children\’s inner \”secrets\” and understand the rules of children\’s development, so as to avoid using adult \”colored glasses\” to view children\’s behavior during their growth and understand this. This is very important, otherwise, the normal development of the child may be inhibited.
8. \”Who took away the child\’s happiness\” Author: Li Yuer
I am I first read this book more than four years ago. It\’s a very thick book. I spent an entire night reading it in one breath.After all, I felt very shocked and heartbroken at the same time. Then I reflected on my own education process, the examples around me, and the current situation of education in China. This is a very thought-provoking and awakening book. I feel that Li Yuer is a bit like the Lu Xun of China\’s current education circles, using her sharp writing style to directly attack the pain points of traditional education. If as a parent you have not made up your mind to give your children love and respect, it is best to read this book first and then think about how to educate your children.
9. \”Liberating the Potential of Children\” Author: (UK) Martin Lawson
This is one of the more classic books on Waldorf education that can be seen in China. It was translated by teacher Wu Bei. In addition, there are \”Learning Freely\” (translated by Li Zewu) and \”School is a Journey\” (Wu Bei). (translated by Bei), these two books are also very good and highly recommended. In addition, \”Please Let Me Grow Up Slowly\” written by Teacher Wu Bei based on her own practical experience is also a good book for mothers to understand Waldorf education.
10. \”Let the children take the decision – Parenting Notes for Breastfeeding Mothers\” Author: Xiao Wu
Xiao Wu\’s book is very suitable for mothers who are determined to breastfeed to read in advance. It was because of reading this book that I strengthened my determination to breastfeed. Also because of the guidance of this book, I avoided many possible problems during the breastfeeding process. problems encountered.
At the same time, this book also deeply analyzes and \”criticizes\” some traditional domestic parenting concepts. Although the words are very sharp and even somewhat \”advocating foreigners\”, But it can arouse the reflection of parents who are concerned about the growth of their children, especially a few years ago, when there were very few books adhering to advanced parenting concepts. It gave me a very shocking feeling at the time. Xiaowu has recently revised this book for a second edition.
OK, this article ends here, I hope it will be helpful to everyone.
