What are those kids who keep asking for something missing?

There are two food markets near the community where I live. One is closer, relatively modern, and has richer dishes, especially seafood; the other is farther away, and the cuisine is not very complete, but it is very down-to-earth. Because every day, farmers from nearby villages bring home-grown fresh vegetables and fruits for sale. So if I go shopping alone, I usually choose to walk to the vegetable market farther away. I like to see the vegetable stalls lined up along the way and the warm smell of the farmers shouting to each other. Of course, I often buy from the couple at Heqiaotou who always have a smile on their faces and are friendly and will tell you stories. But when I went to buy vegetables today, the hostess of the vegetable stall turned her back and secretly wiped her tears. And when I bent down to ask how much tomatoes weighed per kilogram, it was too late to avoid her sadness, so I could only ask her head-on and cautiously: Sister, what\’s wrong with you? When she saw me, she forced a smile and shed a tear and said: Girl, just wait for me, it will be fine soon. As he spoke, he took out an old handkerchief and wiped his face. It was her husband who couldn\’t control himself and said: It\’s not my unsatisfactory son who makes his mother cry. He insists on using money to buy the latest Apple mobile phone. He calls to ask for money. We don\’t have enough money, so he is unhappy. He groaned a lot, and said that he couldn\’t afford it for such a small amount of money, and the parents of the classmates around him had already bought it. I told him not to come back and to buy whatever he wanted by his own ability. He just said to his mother: My family is really poor. He also doesn’t want to think about us working from dawn to dusk to farm and sell vegetables for him to go to school, and he doesn’t buy a few pieces of clothes for himself in a year. He also thinks our offer is not good enough! He asked: What do you think is happening to the children now? I was suddenly stopped by these words and stood there stunned. At that moment, it was very sad to see the helpless faces of the couple. In fact, I have seen the son they talked about. He looked very sunny and was in the third year of high school in this city. However, I did not expect that he was the one who caused trouble to his parents today. If we meet him again, I really want to say to him: My child, don’t think that what your parents have given you is not good enough, that may be all they have! On the way back, I thought of my childhood self and the words I had offended my parents. At that time, I went to preschool, and the tuition for each semester was 30 yuan. It seems that it is not enough to pay for a cup of Starbucks coffee now, but it was still a lot of money in 1986. So every time I pay tuition, my parents are very tight. If the school suddenly increases other fees, I may not be able to pay the teacher on the day of notification. One time I asked my mother: Why can other people’s tuition and miscellaneous fees be paid to the teacher at once, but mine is always delayed by one day? In my memory, my mother always looked embarrassed and said to me with a smile: I can do it tomorrow and the day after tomorrow. Then I would see my father going to the sea early in the morning and returning home at nightfall, handing the caught seafood to my mother. My mother would go to the street to sell it to others all night long. Every family would ask, and when the moon quietly climbed up the branches, Then I dragged my tired legs back. After coming back, I didn\’t bother to eat, so I just sat under the 25-watt electric light and worked on what others wanted. Seeing that scene, I felt pain in my heart, and suddenly I understood that my parents had tried their best. Some things are not as easy to obtain as I imagined, nor are they as I imaginedSo necessary, they have tried their best to give me the best life. In addition to providing for me to study, after all, the family also has to live, eat and drink, and raise a little sister who is just learning to speak. I was 7 years old that year, and I suddenly grew up that year. From now on, no matter how difficult things are, no matter whether I have the same material as others, I will never ask my parents why? Because I know that in this world, the person who gave me life is the greatest person, and the person who raised me is the person who deserves my gratitude the most. The current situation presented by all native families is the most important lesson that I should strive to adapt to and learn. But I understand that in today\’s society, there are still many children and even adults who are still asking for and despising the parents who have been your old parents all their lives. I remember reading a piece of news before. A 26-year-old young man threatened to commit suicide by drinking paraquat because he failed to ask for 5,000 yuan from his father. I drank paraquat and was rescued in the hospital. I didn’t pay attention to whether something happened or not. But I clearly remember that the father who went to the hospital to visit his son in front of the camera was dressed in tatters, but the young boy looked solid and complete. Maybe I have no right to comment on others, but at that moment I kept thinking: Why doesn\’t he obtain financial resources through his own efforts? Instead, he is used to opening his mouth when clothes come with him, and he only knows how to ask his parents for what he wants, and if he doesn\’t get what he wants, he threatens his life. I wonder if he has ever thought about what his father eats when he is not around? What are you wearing? What is used? That home had only four walls, and why didn\’t he understand that what the old man gave you was all he had in his life? All the hard work, all the material and all the love. Of course, it is also the father\’s fault that a son is unfilial, but shouldn\’t it be you who can really change your destiny, open up a new pattern in your life, and usher in a happy life? Really, sometimes it’s us who are not qualified to be children, not your parents who have given everything to you. Deshan in \”Reply 1988\” is the second eldest child in her family. At the age of 18, she once struggled to understand why her family was so poor. She often complained that her parents favored her sister Paula and her brother Yu Hui. She didn\’t understand why she had to spend birthdays with her sister for so many years, and she didn\’t understand why her father sometimes secretly bought delicious food for her brother while she didn\’t have any. Until one night after returning from the sports meeting, her father was waiting by the roadside and took out the cake he bought for her to celebrate her birthday. In the light of the 18 candles lit and her father\’s eyes, she suddenly understood the love of her family. She was not the forgotten child, nor was she the daughter that her parents didn\’t love, nor was it that what her parents gave her was not good enough, but that was really all they could give her. In the TV series, father Sung Dong-il said to Deshan: Dad is also a father for the first time, please be considerate. Deshan said: Abba, you should also eat some cake. Dad said: I don’t like eating greasy food. (This is a classic line from how many parents who love their children would rather lie to themselves that they don’t like food) That scene was really heartwarming. Yes, there are many things that maybe as children we didn’t understand when we were young. That’s not important. What’s important is that one day weEveryone will understand the selfless dedication and deep love our parents have for us. Therefore, in this long life, we should not ask for anything, but should be grateful. We should not dislike it, but should be content. And for all the better lives you want, you must learn to fight for them yourself, and for the \”vanity\” you can\’t overcome, you must also learn to pay for them yourself.