[What can I thank you for, my son] Every sentence touches my heart and touches millions of parents

This is a letter written by a mother to her son, and it is also a very touching and good article. There is a good mother in the article, and a good mother has a good son. Stop saying that good children are all born good, absolutely not! That\’s because the parents\’ words and deeds have influenced the children\’s behavior subtly. Like the mother in the article and applaud the mother’s son! The first parent-teacher conference I attended was when you were in the third grade of elementary school. I rushed from the seafood wholesale market in a hurry, and my clothes were stained with fish, shrimp, turtles and crabs. Even though I made an exception and took a taxi, I was still late. I walked to your seat facing those slightly sarcastic and disgusting eyes, and my heart was filled with shame and guilt. You raised your little face, wiped the sweat from my forehead, and handed me your little water bottle: \”Mom, drink some water.\” In an instant, your thoughtfulness and non-disdain made so many people look at our mother and son with admiration. After the parent-teacher meeting, your class teacher asked me to stay for a while, and you asked for leave from the teacher: \”My mother has to go home to cook for my grandparents and father. Can I leave first? If you have anything to say, I will tell her when I go home. I promise Don\’t miss a word.\” The class teacher sighed and said, \”Korean Wave mom, there are more than 40 children in the class. Korean Wave makes me feel most distressed. They are so sensible and well-behaved.\” He told me that at the beginning of the new semester, the children moved in together. Books, many children were working under the nose of the teacher, but he was alone at the back door carrying books almost up to his chin in and out, covered in sweat. \”Korean Wave Mom, can a child like this have no future? You have a child like this at home, and you have contributed a lot.\” I held the class teacher\’s hand: \”Korean Wave\’s father was paralyzed in a car accident, and my grandparents are bedridden all year round. I can\’t take care of them at all. Hallyu. Ever since the child was just able to walk, he has been picking up feces and peeing for his grandfather, grandmother, and father. I don’t even have time to feel sorry for him.” On the way home, I couldn’t stop crying. Looking back at everything from childhood to adulthood, all the complaints I had about life have disappeared. God has given me so much misfortune, but he has also given me you who are heart-wrenching and gratifying. When you come home from school, I\’ll be waiting for you downstairs. When you saw me, your little mouth opened into an O shape: \”Mom, are you going on a blind date?\” I pretended to hit you and said: \”No matter how dirty or tiring the work you do in the future, I can\’t lose points for you. Look. , is your mother okay?\” You jumped up immediately: \”She is absolutely beautiful! When I grow up, I will find a wife as capable and beautiful as my mother.\” At that moment, I really wanted to hug you. Although you are only 1.3 meters and very thin, in my mother\’s heart, you have grown into a small tree, making me want to rely on you instead of hugging you. Junior High School Full of Partings During the three years you were in junior high school, we bid farewell to your grandfather and grandma respectively. On the day I sent my grandma away, I went home and cried loudly. You came over, hugged me and said, \”Mom, although grandma doesn\’t live as long as other people\’s grandma, you let her live a decent life, and my milk is worth it!\” Before going to bed, you called your dad and me. Feet water: \”I used to just wash my feet for my grandparents, but now you are treated like this.\” Your dad burst into tears. You smiled and said to him: \”What\’s so touching about me washing my parents\’ feet? My mother has been washing the feet of my father and mother for more than 20 years. I have to learn from my mother.\” At that moment, I really want toTell you, don’t learn from your mother, because no mother wants to see her son too tired. Just as the stress in our lives had eased, Dad\’s moods were getting worse. On his 39th birthday, you used the money you saved from skipping lunch to buy him a big cake. However, when you opened the door, what was waiting for you was the tragic scene after your father cut his wrists and committed suicide. As a third-year junior high school student, you tied his bleeding arm with a towel and then dialed 120. You didn\’t call me until he was out of danger. At the door of the ward, you made three rules for me: no blame, because the person in the wheelchair is dad, not us; no sympathy, as this will encourage his pessimism; no fear, I will definitely be able to handle this matter. , let my dad never stop thinking about it. When I entered the ward, I burst into tears. I didn\’t say any words of distress or complaint, I just held his hand tightly. \”Dad, when you are here, I have a dad to call me. When my mom comes home after a long day, she has someone to talk to. Dad, I will definitely make you happy.\” Your words made me forget to cry. I can\’t believe you\’ve grown up to the point where I\’m dumbfounded. You are so small, but you already have a big heart. From that day on, the first thing you did after school was to push your father to the community. Before he became paralyzed, he was a railroad worker and had a trade in hair cutting. In order to make Dad feel that he is still useful, you knock on the neighbors\’ doors, hoping that they can come to get a free haircut. You also promise that if the cut is broken, you will pay to help them go to the barber shop to repair it. Neighbors of all ages are coming for you. After get off work that day, I watched you and your son from a distance. One was giving haircuts, and the other was busy serving tea and water to the neighbors. There is a smile on the corner of your father\’s mouth that I haven\’t seen in many years. It was you who found the key to making him happy. When Grandma Yang saw me, her tears were like broken beads: \”This child is so sensible that it makes my heart ache.\” Gradually, everyone in the community knows about you, and many parents intend to let their children associate with you. . I once heard you lecture a sophomore boy who was older than you: \”Next time, don\’t talk to your parents in such an uncultured way. If you talk like that again, don\’t admit that you live in our courtyard. We can\’t afford it.\” This guy.\” How did you get him to obey you? I accidentally learned the root cause. You were once bullied by the older children in the courtyard. A child king once robbed you of your money every day. You couldn\’t bear the money, so you let him beat you. Until one day, that child was bullied by another child who was older than him, and you used your fists. Afterwards, the eldest child asked: \”Why do you help me?\” You said: \”You are the king of children in our hospital. If you lose, the children in our hospital will not have a good life. I didn\’t do anything before because I was afraid that You broke it and my mother had to pay for your treatment. I feel sorry for my mother.\” The older child and his \”brothers\” were shocked, and you also won their \”hearts\”. At that moment, I blamed myself so much that I was so unfamiliar with your world and that I was such an incompetent mother, yet you gave me such high courtesy. You have to go on stage to sing even though you are old. Your father is becoming more and more cheerful. You don’t need to worry about me anymore. My mood is getting better day by day. One day I was cookingWhile singing, I hummed until I forgot myself. When I came back to my senses, I found you leaning against the door and looking at me. My face turned red, and you rushed over shouting: \”Mom, it turns out you sing so beautifully. If you had debuted a few years earlier, you would have been another Song Zuying!\” At this time, your dad interrupted: \”Son, you Mom was an authentic literary and artistic back then, otherwise why would your dad and I, who were so handsome, pursue her so shamelessly.\” Our whole family laughed. Once upon a time, in the face of cruel life, we all forgot humor. Son, you make this family laugh. It was a joke, but you took it seriously. You invited the mother of a classmate to be my vocal tutor and performance teacher – she is a music professor at the Conservatory of Music. You can imagine how funny it was that when I came back from the seafood wholesale market at noon every day, I would first wash myself off, put on those good clothes that I usually couldn’t bear to wear, and take the bus twice to go to my teacher’s house. I gave up without a fight, but you took out a stage photo of me from back then and said, \”Mom, you have to have some hobbies, so that no matter how you call \’Yellow croaker, fresh\’, people will think you are different from others. \”In the end, I didn\’t defeat you. The first time I officially stood in front of you to sing, I was very shy. You said: \”Sing, you are the only beautiful woman in our family, you must have confidence.\” I laughed, and after laughing, I sang \”The Love of Green Leaves for Roots\”. I don\’t remember how I finished singing it, but I just I remember singing until I burst into tears. I still go to the seafood market every day before dawn, and life is still very difficult. However, when I get home at noon, I dress up like a lady and go to the park to play and sing with some like-minded old friends in the community. When the Avenue of Stars column team called me, I was stunned. You signed up for me! I blamed you for causing trouble for me, but you said in an understatement: \”Just think that the stage of CCTV is our Nanhu Park in Shenyang.\” I couldn\’t refuse you, because I suddenly thought of myself attending your parent-teacher conference in a slovenly manner. That scene. For your sake, I also want you to be proud of me. For you, let alone a dazzling stage, even if it is a mountain of swords and a sea of ​​fire, I will go there resolutely. I will be a mother in Beijing in my next life. My mentality is extremely relaxed. I don’t have to win the championship, but I must stand on the stage as a mother. I didn\’t expect that the host would set up a call with you during the interview after I took the stage. When the call was connected, I didn’t know what to say to you. In desperation, I actually blurted out: Son, don’t be your mother’s son in the next life. No mother wants to see her son working so hard for the family… I burst into tears. The springs gushed, and I burst into tears. \”Mom, I will still be your son in the next life. You are a great mother, and you are my pride.\” Our family is still planning carefully for survival over and over again, and occasionally faces the small danger of running out of food, but this does not stop us. Live in joy and laughter every day. It was you who made me understand that troubles and happiness are all given to myself. Tomorrow, you will board the train going south and start your college career. You finally have your own life. Watching you dangling before my eyes, settling your father and I\’s lives in every detail, I greedily enjoyed this moment. I thinkIt reminds me of what Bill Gates said to his mother: \”I will always miss the wonderful time living with you.\” And I want to say to you who are traveling far away: \”Son, because of you, my life It’s always a good time!”