What education is good education?

Professor Qian Wenzhong of Fudan University said bluntly in a speech: \”To educate children, there must be punishment, even severe punishment.\” Professor Qian believes that children are not adults after all, and they must be disciplined and must pay a price for making mistakes. This is indeed the case. Good education is provided by management, teaching and punishment. Education requires gentleness, but also firm strength. Moderate punishment can make children feel awe in their hearts and stop their behavior. In the new semester, the best education is when parents don’t protect others and teachers don’t tolerate them. Let’s work together! Education is powerful only if parents do not protect their shortcomings. An ancient saying goes: \”A loving mother has a spoiled son, and a strict family has no ruthless rogues.\” This means that if parents pamper, pamper, protect and tolerate their children, they will develop prodigal children; and in families with strict family laws, there will be no children who are disobedient to discipline. Parents who protect their children from their shortcomings will lead to children\’s lack of responsibility and self-reflection ability, which will affect their healthy growth. I don’t know if everyone still remembers the news that made a lot of noise. A female teacher made the student stand for a few minutes because he was late. What she didn\’t expect was that she was taken away and put in an interrogation room for seven hours. Early Childhood Science Enlightenment Education Cartoon Adu Baize Full Two Seasons Ultra HD 1080P It turns out that the father of the student who was punished for standing was the deputy director of the local police station. He took advantage of his position to lock the female teacher into the interrogation room of the police station. It is normal for students to make mistakes and be punished appropriately by teachers, but this parent wants to protect his shortcomings. Such behavior will not only hurt the teacher, but also make your children unable to distinguish right from wrong, making it increasingly difficult to educate them in the future. Without the concept of right and wrong, it will only push the child further and further down the wrong path, making mistakes again and again, ruining the child\’s future. Parents\’ excessive protective behavior will increase their children\’s dependence. Children who grow up under the shield of \”protecting their shortcomings\” will also lack a grateful heart. I would like to remind parents again that irrational protection against shortcomings will encourage children’s bad behavior and make them unable to distinguish between right and wrong, beauty and ugliness. Parents\’ \”protection\” may cause their children to make irreparable mistakes, or even commit crimes, which will harm their children\’s lives. What children need is not unprincipled \”protection\”, but rational love. Please give your children the correct education method, without pampering, doting, or indulgence. It is the fault of the father if the teacher does not tolerate the child\’s talent and nurtures it, and it is the fault of the teacher if the teacher is not strict. The background of education has never been gentle. Teachers must be strict and responsible for every student, and must not relax at all times. Because it is difficult for a gentle teacher to establish the authority of the teacher and teach promising children. As the saying goes: Small trees need to be cultivated and children need to be taken care of. \”A good education must have clear rewards and punishments, and be lenient and strict.\” \”A good teacher must be strict, compassionate, and disciplined at the same time.\” A mother once wrote a letter to her child who had just entered school, The letter read: \”I hope you can meet a teacher who holds a ruler and has light in his eyes, and be a student who is in awe and never loses his faith.\” \”My child, only responsible teachers can take care of students. Therefore, I have strict requirements on you. Teacher, don\’t be hostile, but be grateful. Because only a responsible teacher will discipline you with sincerity. He expects you to become a good person and become a good person.This effort is thankless. \”Miao Wanqiu in the movie \”Teacher·Hello\” is the \”most annoying\” kind of teacher for many people when they were students. On the first day of school, he gave everyone a warning: girls were not allowed to perm their hair, and they were wiped out on the spot. The lipstick on the lips of a female classmate; two male classmates who were smoking were caught by him and made to stand for a whole day; a \”martial arts fan\” had all his novels confiscated by him; a \”little gangster\” with an ax was caught by him He was kicked out of the classroom;… Therefore, the students nicknamed him \”Miao Batian\”. But such an unkind, serious, old-fashioned, and \”nosy\” teacher made him famous. People\’s eyes. In academics, he will not give up on any student. In life, he is also keen to help students who encounter difficulties. He proves with actions that the teacher who controls you the most strictly loves you the deepest. Children, please cherish the teacher who is strict with you, and don’t deny the teacher just because of a criticism. Every criticism contains the teacher’s expectations for you. Only when expectations are high will you be strict. Only under strict education can you become a talent. ! In the new semester, home-school cooperation makes children successful. Some people say that the encounter between parents and teachers is an encounter of love and trust. Teachers and parents are like two oars. Only when both parties work together in the same direction can success be achieved. The child sails in the direction we expect and successfully reaches the other side of victory. Indeed, the success of a child is the result of the joint efforts of teachers and parents. Only when parents support teachers and do not protect their shortcomings can education be powerful. I hope parents will do the following: refuse to spoil: Refuse to over-indulge or pamper your children, and give appropriate punishment or education if you do something wrong. Fair treatment: Treat your children and others fairly. If your child does make a mistake, you must admit it and avoid blindly blaming others. Correct guidance: In the face of children\’s mistakes, children should be taught to take responsibility, provide some suggestions for solving problems, or help them find ways to correct their mistakes. Learn to let go: Children have the right to make mistakes, and they also have the right to learn to deal with problems on their own. Parents should let go as soon as possible and let them He has enough space to grow. Only when teachers discipline students and do not tolerate them can children have a future. I hope teachers will meet the following strict requirements: do not pamper or dote on students, do not condone or indulge their shortcomings and mistakes. Be good at listening: Being good at listening to students and understanding their difficulties and needs can avoid unnecessary favoritism. Positive guidance: When students make mistakes, don’t just punish them, but also guide them to think about why they are wrong and let them recognize their mistakes. Help them learn from their experiences and lessons. Avoid covering up: As a teacher, you cannot cover up students’ wrong behaviors because you are afraid of affecting the relationship between teachers and students and home-school. In the new semester, the better parents and teachers cooperate, the more successful your children’s education will be. Teacher Parents who are responsible for their children and understand, support and cooperate with their teachers are their children’s greatest blessing! Teachers and parents, let’s work hard together in the new semester! For a common goal, cooperate with each other, work together, home-school cooperation, and serve the children Hold up a blue sky.