There is a familiar saying that \”marriage is the tomb of love.\” After a couple has been married for several years, the original passion for love gradually fades, and more trivial matters such as daily necessities, food, and daily necessities create dullness after marriage. If you are not good at managing emotions within marriage, conflicts or infidelity may occur. On the contrary, \”fake jealousy\” adds a spice to ordinary life. A small fight is a small trick to enhance the relationship, allowing both parties to return to the feeling of falling in love at the beginning.
It turns out that many marital conflicts and infidelity are not the result of the parties not wanting to live a good life, but the result of them suppressing themselves too much. For example, some couples do not allow each other to take another look at the opposite sex on the street, otherwise they will make a big fuss. As a result, both parties regard the opposite sex as a scourge. Any good impression of the opposite sex is considered \”shameful\” by oneself and the other person, resulting in a struggle between oneself and one\’s own thoughts. The more depressed I am, the less I can forget it, thinking I love deeply. In fact, this phenomenon just stems from lack of acceptance. When people trapped in this kind of struggle really let go of their shame and have normal interactions with the opposite sex, most of them will find that they do not \”love\” the other person. And \”fake jealousy\” is exactly the best way to treat this shame. It can normalize the goodwill towards the opposite sex. If handled properly, this goodwill can even become the spice of ordinary married life, which is conducive to communication between husband and wife.
