What happened to the father who sent his child to the wrong kindergarten?

A few days ago, a father in Zhengzhou sent his child to kindergarten for the first time in his life. After sending his child to kindergarten, he hurried away without asking any questions. The child was also very calm, neither crying nor fussing. In the end, the kindergarten teacher discovered that the child was not from this kindergarten… Some netizens commented: My child, you may have met a \”fake father\”. It is really sad to see this news. What happened to the father who sent his child to the wrong kindergarten? In fact, there is a very famous father who also did something similar. Jackie Chan once talked about his shortcomings as a father during an appointment in Luyu. He said that his children never have time to spend with him because he goes to work all the time. One day, he came back from the United States and wanted to fulfill his son\’s wish to pick up his son from school. As a result, I ran to the elementary school to pick up my son. After waiting for a long time and still not seeing his son, the driver called and told him that his son was already in middle school. A father doesn\’t know his children as well as a driver. I wonder what kind of father this successful father is to his son? We Chinese worship successful people. And I really appreciate a kind of \”sacrifice\” made by successful people, which is sacrificing time and love for their families. Therefore, successful people often show off their achievements and say in tears: \”I\’m sorry for my children and family, because I devote all my time to my work.\” Wearing a halo, gaining everyone\’s understanding, and then being worshiped. But success has another look. Zuckerberg, the world\’s richest man born in the 1980s, announced a piece of good news: he will welcome his second child in 2017. Xiao Zha said, I hope she is still a daughter! Because he feels that his wife is so outstanding! Every time I see the photo of Xiao Zha holding the baby, it really makes people feel full of positive energy. There is also the father holding an umbrella in the rain who touched us back then. Your attitude towards your family is the basis of your choice. Many of the reasons you find are just an excuse to escape. Where your heart is, there your harvest will be. Many fathers say that their children are not close to them, so you have to look at how much time and thought you spend on your children. A child\’s heart is actually as pure as water and as clear as the moon. It’s clear how much you paid for him. When you think about investing, you often calculate the rate of return. In fact, the same is true in life. Your feeling of happiness is closely related to your own efforts. Because happiness comes from inner feelings and is closely related to love, not money and reputation. And children can often give you this feeling. They are simple and pure, trusting and loving you unconditionally. Your children will not dislike you for being poor, nor will they dislike you for being just a clerk serving tea and water in the office or a worker carrying bricks on a construction site. It doesn’t matter if you are the CEO of a big company. In the beginning, in their eyes, you were a father and a mother, nothing more. Nothing can compare to this. When we hold our children\’s hands, our children are holding our hands. We have passed on the temperature, and it will also be passed on from the child. This makes people feel happy and meaningful. This is happiness. Individual psychology believes that a person\’s personality is malleable. Therefore, there are no children who cannot teach well, only parents who cannot teach them well. This sentence is worth pondering for every parent. Because a child\’s personality is often formed in the family, it is closely related to the level of the parents and the influence and guidance the child received in early family education. Many parents leave the education of their children to their children. Teachers and schools are often blamed for inaction. In fact, we should reflect on whether the problem of family education just happened to explode in school. In terms of personality education, schools often play the role of the icing on the cake, while the family is the real dyeing vat. How you dye it is what color it is. Therefore, parents who leave their children to those so-called high-end schools, private tutors, nannies or entrust them to the elderly should think deeply about their responsibilities as parents. When you are young, you should never neglect your children\’s education on the excuse of being busy with work. When you are old, all the glory and wealth are fleeting, and a useless child is enough to make your later life miserable. There is a saying, \”Success means having time to take care of your children.\” This sentence touched me very much. Because after having a child, my mother helped take care of the child for a while. But later I discovered that the old man loved his children very much, but he also loved them too much. Basically, the children are raised according to the rules of the little emperor. And when the child makes a fuss, the upset grandma will yell and curse. One moment he is pampering, another moment he is controlling. In this way, the child\’s temper never gets better, but becomes very irritable. So later I quit my job, took care of the child by myself, and grew up with him for a period of time. Because the 0-4 years old period is the best stage for children to establish a close relationship with their parents. Now my son has got rid of many of his bad habits, and his excellent progress can be seen. I feel that my efforts are worth it. Of course, being a stay-at-home dad will also cause a lot of gossip. Because we have always placed more high expectations on men, hoping to work hard in their careers and get ahead. Those who go home to take care of their children are \”useless\” men. This is a common psychological shadow among men. It is projected in the hearts of many men. It just depends on the size of the area. So when someone hears that you are taking care of your children at home, many people immediately look sideways and laugh. I guess I’m beating a drum in my heart. But no matter what, I chose this path. As an ordinary father, I hope to make some changes and do some practical things. Of course, we cannot expect parents to stay at home full-time to accompany their children as they grow up, because that is unrealistic. But you can use your time after get off work and vacation. Give your children high-quality companionship and work together to realize some of their wishes. Hold your child\’s hand and go for a walk outside. What happened to the father who sent his child to the wrong kindergarten? One answer is that Dad was too careless. But there is another cruel answer: Dad never puts his heart and time into his children. I hope that every father’s life time formula must include time for his children.