What is raising children for?

Qualified parents should shift the focus of education from educating their children to educating themselves. For parents who have awakened, educating their children is just an excuse, and self-education is the real thing. When you educate yourself well, your child is just a reflection of your wonderful self, and he will naturally get better. \”Self-study\” and \”self-education\” are truly meaningful and effective. The problems in children are their own projections. How did the “problem child” appear? Parents represent the \”head\” and children represent the \”heart\”. When there seems to be a problem with the existence of life, there is something wrong with the \”mind.\” \”Heart\” has always been healthy, how could there be something wrong with \”heart\”? Without your perspective, judgment, and opinion, would there be any children with problems in your eyes? It is you who create some problematic concepts and then project them on your children. Consider a piece of beautiful jade as an ugly stone. If you are a fearful parent, you definitely have a troubled child. Recommended books on scientific parenting. I really wish my parents had read this book. Download the electronic version. The greater your fear, the more problems you see in your child. Fear leads to control. The more fearful you are, the more likely you are to hold on to something to make yourself feel safe. Become a completely fearless parent People expect their children to be wise and capable when they grow up. How can we make him show his \”maximum\” wisdom and ability? That is to let him go appropriately and let him grow in a way that suits him. It is not an easy task to let a pony grow up freely on the vast grassland. How fearless a pony owner needs to be! He would worry about the pony encountering such dangers and problems on the road. He would worry about what would happen to the pony if he left it alone, and what would happen to it when it grew up. How dare you let go of your child? You don\’t have that much courage. From the free form of a child, we can see how fearless a parent is. If you are not as bold as God, your children will not be able to enjoy the pure boundless sky and earth. We always play God unconsciously. We think that we know what is best for Him and we know what path is best for Him. But does one really know what\’s best for him in the long term, over a lifetime? What path are you sure is the best path for your child to take in life? Are you God? If you really are God, do it like God, let go and let your children grow up on their own. Look, among the living beings under the sun – tigers, lions, ants, bees, none of them are growing on their own. God has no control over their life paths.