What is the root cause of children\’s rebelliousness and disobedience?

We have all overlooked one issue – a child is a human being, a person with ideas, feelings and pursuits, not a simple learning machine! Especially for adolescent children, they begin to explore the meaning of their lives and will often ask themselves: \”What on earth am I doing? What is the meaning?\” Just like my daughter, when she is learning to go smoothly, she herself If you are good at learning, you will naturally be active and confident. However, once she encounters difficulties and challenges and has no breakthrough for a long time, she will fall into self-doubt and enter a state of severe confusion. She will feel that she is not suitable for learning, that learning is meaningless to herself, and eventually she will get tired of studying. Fan Deng once said: \”The root of children\’s rebellion is confusion and helplessness!\” Her daughter\’s confusion and helplessness made her become rebellious and tired of studying, and eventually she dropped out of school. What is the best way to discipline children when they are rebellious? Understand your child and you will get better and better. One thing about my relationship with my daughter flashed through my mind like a revolving lantern. After this review and reflection, I understood the reason: 1. I don’t I look at my daughter’s good side and only look at what she doesn’t do well, so I always blame my child: Mathematics has improved, but why has English deteriorated? Don\’t raise your tail. Why are we so far behind in this ranking? You must study hard. Do you know how expensive it is to enroll you in a one-on-one cram school? 2. Especially after I entered high school and my academic ranking dropped, I became more strict with her: When I came home from get off work, my daughter came out to greet me. Before I even took off my shoes, she asked, \”Have you finished your homework today?\” When I check my homework at night, I will point out her problems in a face-to-face manner, and my daughter will not dare to express her anger under my anger. With this kind of supervision day after day, as long as my daughter is in front of me, I am always ordering, urging, and instructing her to do something, but I have never thought of caring about her stress and emotions! Unexpectedly, these pressures eventually overwhelmed her! Wrong educational concepts made me suppress my daughter without knowing it, and I was still complacent that I \”know how to educate\”. What children want is the care and help of their parents, not managers, supervisors and rulers. Wrong educational concepts made me suppress my daughter without knowing it, and I was still complacent that I \”know how to educate.\” What children want is the care and help of their parents, not managers, supervisors and rulers. Wrong educational concepts made me suppress my daughter without knowing it, and I was still complacent that I \”know how to educate.\” What children want is the care and help of their parents, not managers, supervisors and rulers.