What kind of family can raise interesting and optimistic children at a glance?

On March 14, Stephen Hawking, a generation of scientific giants and physicists, passed away at the age of 76. Netizens left messages one after another: \”He is gone, and behind him is the vast universe. He belongs to the sea of ​​stars.\” Hawking has always been a legend in the scientific community. A small wheelchair supported the entire universe for him and the world. He was born on the anniversary of the death of Galileo and died on the birthday of Einstein. Geniuses met in such a wonderful way. Perhaps God has already written his story for this legendary physicist. His three children later issued a statement: \”His courage, persistence, and his brilliance and humor inspired people around the world, and we will miss him forever.\” Mr. Hawking\’s outstanding achievements in life are closely related to his family education. Genius is to become the person you want to be. Hawking\’s parents have always adhered to the concept of free life: they graduated from Oxford University, but chose to live in a remote town; they were not very rich, but they insisted on buying a car and took their children with them on holidays. They travel; they are obsessed with research, and they always take the trivial matters in life indifferently. Under the influence of this philosophy of life, they also \”free-range\” Hawking\’s education, giving their children full freedom. Whether Hawking was dismantling things, hiding in his room in a daze, or staying in a museum, they let him do whatever he wanted. As a child, Hawking\’s parents did not interfere too much with him either in the cultivation of his interests or in his choice of profession. Therefore, Hawking could do whatever he wanted in his childhood. When he was six or seven years old, he designed a dollhouse with a fully enclosed duct system and lighting system for his sister, made airplane and ship models, and developed some new games involving factories, railways, stocks, and other fields. When Hawking and his two sisters were in middle school, Hawking became interested in physics and locked in his future research direction, so he decided to apply for the physics major. Later, he was admitted to Oxford University and devoted his life to the research of physics that he loved, becoming a great influence on all mankind. A scientific giant with far-reaching influence. We often say that interest is the best teacher, but in real life, we, who want our children to succeed, always use the banner of \”good for the children\” to help our children choose which interest classes to enroll in, what majors to study, which friends to make, and what jobs to do. We try every means to weave a \”perfect future\” for our children, but we ignore their true interests. Psychologist Li Xue once wrote: If parents use all their knowledge to educate their children, in the best case scenario, the children will not surpass their parents; if parents are in awe of their children\’s souls, they will only provide attention and companionship, but not If you don\’t bother me, the child will naturally become a miracle in the eyes of the public. Raising a genius is easy, as long as parents don\’t try to teach their children with their own rigid, self-righteous minds. Every child is a star, shining with his own unique light. What we have to do is to take good care of the child\’s nature and let him grow naturally according to his own rhythm and rules. Reading gives you more possibilities in life. Both Hawking\’s parents were born in a family that believed in \”knowledge changes destiny.\” In order to provide education for all her children, Hawking\’s grandmother founded her own school and trained Hawking\’s father to become a top student at Oxford University. Hawking\’s grandfather grew up in a country where few women received higher education.In the 1990s, Hawking\’s mother was sent to Oxford University. Therefore, they who love reading also created a strong reading atmosphere at home. There are books everywhere in the house. When eating, the family likes to read while eating. Family group activities are also reading books. Hawking, who was deeply influenced by it, liked to read, and he also read more to educate his children. They believe that knowledge changes destiny, and facts have proven that the family\’s choice was right. Hawking was admitted to Oxford University and Cambridge University, the world\’s top universities, and became a great physicist. Hawking\’s children have also achieved outstanding results in their respective fields. Daughter Lucy also graduated from Oxford University and became an excellent children\’s novel writer after graduation. The children\’s science fiction novels she co-wrote with her father became popular around the world and inspired countless children\’s interest in exploring the universe. I still remember that at the beginning of the year, \”Ice Flower Boy\” once hit the circle of friends. People lamented that \”it is difficult to have a noble son from a poor family\”, and even talked about \”the uselessness of reading\”. However, please tell your children: Reading may not make you rich, but it can give you more choices in life and make your life full of more possibilities. Look up at the stars and remain curious about the world. In Hawking\’s office, there is a passage: No matter at what time, we must never forget the starry sky above our heads. We must always remain curious and always move forward. He once said, if life has no fun, it will be… A tragedy. Therefore, he spent his whole life maintaining his curiosity and enthusiasm for the world. Even though he was diagnosed with ALS (amyotrophic lateral sclerosis) at the age of 21 when he was young and full of energy, and later gradually became paralyzed, he still lived an interesting life. He was like a naughty child with a childlike innocence who loved to tease people. He would drive his wheelchair quickly into the middle of the road to see his assistant frightened. He would also naughtily use his wheelchair to run over the toes of Charles, who was still the prince at the royal banquet, and even He also said that it was a great regret in his life that he did not run over Mrs. Thatcher\’s toes. An eight or nine-year-old child once asked him, \”Stephen, what would happen if I fell into a black hole?\” Hawking replied mischievously: \”You would turn into spaghetti.\” In addition to physical research, Hawking is also full of great curiosity and interest in classical music, rock, opera, TV series, and movies. He is called a \”star scientist\” by Zuckerberg. He is keen on TV dramas, and his conversation with Sheldon in \”The Big Bang Theory\” is impressive. His sentence \”Oh my god, another fainting fan\” is regarded as a classic by netizens; in \”Star Trek: Part 2\” Generation\”, he played cards with academic greats such as Einstein and Newton; he personally voiced the voice of the cartoon \”The Simpsons\”; he also interacted with TFBOYS Wang Junkai on Weibo. Image source: \”The Big Bang Theory\” Facing the photographer\’s question, can you give me one word to talk about what you want to say to the world? He used all his strength to give out one word: wow! Even after experiencing unbearable illness, even though he was confined to a small wheelchair for his entire life, he was still full of curiosity and love for the world, and he still expressed beautiful admiration for the world! Zhou Guoping, a master of Chinese traditional culture, once wrote in \”How Parents Love Their Children\”: There are someSerious parents are very boring themselves. They punish their children when they see them being naughty and are indifferent to their children\’s interesting words. I really feel wronged for their children. In the arid desert, the child\’s intellectual flowers withered prematurely. In the silent room, the child\’s spiritual laughter dimmed prematurely. If a child has normal talents but does not have a sense of humor, the responsibility must lie with the adults. Picture source: \”Spring in the Cowherd Class\” Don\’t always rush to \”finely trim\” your children according to your own wishes, take good care of your children\’s interesting childlike innocence. Allow children to see the world with their own eyes, allow children to squat on the ground and watch ants move, and allow children to say \”I run as fast as a dog.\” A strong heart, the most precious gift in life, Hawking once said: \”We humans are just a combination of some basic particles in the universe. Being able to understand so much about the mysteries of the universe is simply a huge victory, so don\’t forget to look up at the stars. , don\’t always look at your own feet. No matter how difficult life seems, you can always find something you can do and do it well. The most important thing is to never give up. \”This never gives up. His perseverance has made him a strong-hearted person: even if he endures the greatest pain in the world, he can still not forget his original intention, accept the baptism of fate calmly, maintain his enthusiasm for life, and work hard to do what he likes. Image source: \”Star Trek: The Next Generation\” In that little wheelchair, he proposed the famous Hawking radiation theory and completed academic works such as \”A Brief History of Time\” and \”The Universe in a Nutshell\”, using diagrams to illustrate It explains to the world \”where we come from\” and \”what the universe is like\”. When faced with a reporter\’s question: \”Lou Gehrig\’s disease has locked you in a wheelchair forever, don\’t you think fate has made you lose too much?\” He typed five sentences calmly and calmly: My fingers can still move, and my brain can still move. Can also think. I have ideals that I pursue throughout my life, and I have relatives and friends who love me and me. I still have a grateful heart! The famous American scholar Paul Stotts proposed a term called \”frustration quotient\”, which refers to a person\’s ability to resolve and overcome setbacks. Frustration is inevitable on the road of life. Our children may experience unsatisfactory test scores, rejection by the person they like, betrayal by friends, failure in interviews… The entire life process is a confrontation with setbacks. What we have to do is to teach children to be mentally strong people, to stand up bravely when they fall, dust themselves off, move forward with a smile, and to maintain the original intention of pursuing beauty and happiness despite setbacks and failures. . Image source: \”The Piano Boy Who Wants to Fly\” There is no more Hawking in the world, and time will remain in history forever. His legendary story encourages every parent to respect their children\’s growth rhythm and let their children become themselves. His story also inspires every child to use their wild imagination and everlasting curiosity to welcome this colorful world.