What routines should be used to make children fall in love with reading?

Parents take the lead in reading. Behind every child who loves to read, there is usually a \”bookworm\” parent. \”Loving to read is actually a child\’s nature, just like they love to play. What parents need to do is to introduce books into their lives early,\” Yin Jianli said. With the popularization of smart phones and other devices, there are also \”head-downers\” among parents (people who always look down at their phones and iPads). Coupled with the equally powerful appeal of TVs and computers, many parents are asking their children to read every day. At the same time, I became a person who stayed away from books. How can a child like reading when he sees his parents staring at the screen all the time? Parents are their children\’s role models, and their children\’s behavioral norms are a reflection of their parents\’ living habits. To make children fall in love with reading, parents must first create a reading-loving atmosphere at home. For example, when your child is reading, you should also read with your child. At the same time, remember to mute your phone or keep it away from you, so as not to affect reading and easily affect your child\’s concentration. Usually, you can put one or two books in the area where children often play. When the children play in that area, they can pick up the books and read them. Books should be from thin to thick. When children start reading, parents can prepare some thin books for their children to read, so that the children can enter the reading state first and enjoy the joy of reading. At the same time, they can choose some beautiful illustrations or stickers, as well as hands-on books. picture book. After reaching a certain level, let the children read some thicker books with a wide range of knowledge, and finally some famous picture books. Through such a process from thin to thick, and from shallow to deep knowledge, children will experience the temptation of books and fall in love with reading. Many parents who take their children to buy books will find that every time they buy a new book for their children, the children always throw it aside without flipping through it a few times, and the time spent reading the book does not last long. This is because most of children\’s books are selected by their parents, and the principle of parents\’ selection is generally whether the book is useful after reading it and whether it is suitable for babies of this age to read. However, parents are not children after all. Even if they know their children well, they cannot replace their children\’s thoughts or fully understand their children\’s needs. Therefore, next time you buy books for your children, you can take your children with you and let them choose a book they like. In this way, the baby will feel like the protagonist of the book, and he will be more immersed in reading the book! Don\’t overemphasize the posture of reading. Children have their own characteristics when reading books. They can make them feel comfortable. At this time, don\’t turn into emotional confrontation. He should Lying on the sofa and reading a book, you don’t allow it, but he insists on it. If you throw the book away, how can you still read it? Also, don’t worry about whether your child reads quickly or slowly. Parents should not let their children emphasize reading and literacy when reading. Understand, read slowly, and give children full freedom. Often give a book as a gift to your children. Nowadays, children are not short of toys and candies. On some important festivals or children’s birthdays, prepare some meaningful books in advance as gifts for children.. You can also choose good books as gifts for birthday parties of relatives, friends or your child’s classmates. In short, parents can use various methods to promote and spread the concept that \”good books are the best gifts for children\”, so that it gradually becomes a family tradition and habit, and cultivates children\’s cherishment of good books and the joy of reading. The benefits are far greater than any gift. Let children read different types of books. When children first come into contact with reading, they are often uncertain, that is, they cannot accurately understand which type of books they are suitable for. At this time, parents can provide corresponding guidance: for example, when taking their children to buy books, let them visit several areas and choose different types of books. If there are many similar books at home, you can also encourage your child to read more different books, especially when you find that your baby is particularly unfamiliar with a certain field. You can also remind your child to choose relevant books to study when he happens to encounter a relevant problem. In this case, the baby will see more and his field of vision will be much richer. Let children read for pleasure without any utilitarianism. When it comes to their children’s reading, parents can’t wait to share their experiences: “My child likes to listen to me. After I tell her, she can answer all the questions in the story. You have to come up, but if you ask her to tell it herself, she won’t do it.” “Our child is obsessed with watching Journey to the West recently, and often imitates Wukong to fight monsters. I am worried that he will develop violent tendencies…” Then The question is, why do we let children read? Is it to teach them some knowledge? Or do we expect them to be able to read early? Or to understand some truth from the stories you tell? Utilitarianism is the enemy of reading. If you only think about utilitarian things, you will lose the original happiness in reading. And when something becomes unhappy, no one is willing to really invest in it. If reading is just for exams, children will only drift away from reading. Reading won\’t make you rich, won\’t make you the center of attention, or even help your child become a good student. The only benefit we get from it is that we are never alone again. Reading is different from learning. It is a process of embracing one\’s own soul. When reading a good book, you can breathe with it. At that moment, your heart feels light and happy. Books cannot speak, but books can open the world to you. \”Pestering\” children to tell their parents stories and knowledge in books. When children develop the habit of consciously reading and studying, in order to strengthen their children\’s interest in reading, parents should intentionally \”pester\” their children to tell them stories or books. knowledge, or \”lure\” children into telling stories on the condition that they tell each other stories. After each story is finished, parents can praise the child, or \”badger\” the child to ask questions about this or that, asking for details of the story. This will make the children read more carefully in the future and also give them a sense of accomplishment. This approach will inspire children to devote themselves to reading with greater enthusiasm and make their interest in reading more stable. childChildren will always encounter various confusions when they grow up, and a good book can help children find a door when they are confused. As parents, we should not develop reading into a mere educational tool, otherwise we will lose the pleasure of easy and voluntary reading. The famous writer Bing Xin once said: \”Read well, read more, and read good books.\” If a child really likes and falls in love with reading, he will naturally benefit from it.